How to Start A Serious Love Relationship?
By Janurmas
@Janurmas (642)
Indonesia
January 15, 2013 11:40am CST
Hi fellows, I am falling in love with a nice girl. I Love her but I still confuse on how to make her accept my love. I have expressed my love 4 times to her, but she still reject me until now. She and I are friends until now, but why she rejects me while we are good friends for years. I would like to have serious love relationship with her, but unfortunately, she has no respond for that. Is any idea on how to subject her hearth to me?
7 responses
@jimchan3384 (1)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
well i think , forcing is not a good way to start a love relationship. Have u ever asked her the reason why she doesn't want to accept you?
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
16 Jan 13
Yes right, if you want to have a serious relationship, then don't force it, let it naturally come,
@topic
what do you want? to be in a relationship but "FORCED RELATIONSHIP" in other meaning, she doesn't love you, she just forced in ur relationship, then if it is happen, you can't call it as serious relationship,
@Jake809 (97)
• Denmark
15 Jan 13
well if you have told her you love her 4 times and she kept rejecting you, then you should accept it and move on. You shouldn't waste your time with her. There are many other girls out there and someone will love you and you will love them too. The rejection of you could be because she doesn't see you as more than friends or it can be that she isn't into your looks. There isn't anything wrong with that, but my advice just leave her and look for others.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
15 Jan 13
Don't lose hope, keep on loving her and show how much you care.
Some girls are testing guys how long they can wait or how patient they are.
You never know if your friend is just giving you some test to pass.
If she doesn't like you- she should have avoided you already.
But the mere fact that she still having friendship with you means that she also cares for you and she's just waiting for the right time to accept your love (think positive)
Patient is a virtue.
@Mintlin (322)
• China
16 Jan 13
If you already be rejected by her four times,i think you should ask her the reason ,she must have some reasons,try your best to figure out the answer.
If you got the answer,then you can know how to work on it ,right ? All of our opinions towards to this question are just our opinions,the point is hers.
@crazzydolphin (3636)
• United States
15 Jan 13
just because you have feelings doesn't mean that she does. like the comment before you can't force it. but I wouldn't say give up. if you feel for her this strongly stay by her side be friends and maybe just maybe she will see and feel as you do. I had a guy like this in school I didn't want it to ruin our friendship so I always said no to him. maybe this is the way she feels. eventually I did give him a chance and it was great but it also put something between our friendship and I did t want that to happen. just keep that in mind but if this is what you really want be there for her no matter what. be a great friend you never know what the future holds.
have you ever thought about asking her why she doesn't feel the same?
@RyanViola (76)
• New York, New York
13 Feb 14
I think Buddy you just keep a track of keep trying, if she is genuine and you have the quality of the boy which she is searching in a partner then go for it !!
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
15 Jan 13
dont force her, just let her feel it, dont tell to her time to time that you love her, do something so that you and her is always together, let her feel that you're always there for her, everytime, specially when there is an special occation, dont let her feel that you gonna leave her, and last, always do something to make her fall inlove to you, I cant explain exactly what is my point, but I think you can understand what ive said
