my ex want to back
By dipak
@dipak777 (177)
India
January 15, 2013 2:34pm CST
hi friends.this time i have a serious problem.i broked up with my ex girlfriend about a year ago.
we both loved each other.but for some reason we ended our relation.
there after we just were friends.
after our broke up i got engaged again with a sweet girl who loves me very much..
now my ex want to back in my life.what should i do? i am very confused,plz help me..
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7 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
15 Jan 13
Been there... done that. Move on. She lost you. Sorry. Have a good life....
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
If you are now engaged, why do you still think about her? Just get over with your past. You are being unfair to your fiancee.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
Unable to say no to whom? Would you prefer to be unfaithful to your fiancee and be guilty all your life? Who do you really love?
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
15 Jan 13
Examine the reasons for your breakup. There had to be some reasons. Even just drifting apart is a reason. Your love for each other wasn't strong enough to keep you both together. Is that really going to be any different now?
Do you want to break the heart of your new girlfriend? Especially now that you are engaged? You said that this sweet girl loves you. Do you love her?
Why are you confused? If you are engaged to someone, that should mean that in your heart you now only love her - no matter what happens. Even if an old ex comes back into your life.
So, if you are confused, then it is only fair to your current girlfriend to break up the engagement until you are clear about who you really love. Then really examine your own heart. If you decide to love someone, then be sure to make it a commitment and stay with that person, no matter what.
@fullmoon230 (3)
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16 Jan 13
There's a reason why she's your ex... Is it worth throwing away your current love to attempt to mend a, possibly, shattered one?
@carmscharms (1)
• United States
15 Jan 13
If you love your fiance don't stress anything, just love her, be there for her. And set the record straight with your ex. If you are not sure definately break the engagement, maybe spend a weekend alone. Weigh your pros and con. Communicate with your ladies, but be gentle. And be prepared for anything.
Good Luck to you,
Your heart will guide you in the end.
@nenemae77 (2)
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10 Feb 13
You should choose only one girl, the girl who you wanted to live with and you love most.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
5 Feb 13
I did not hear you say you do love your present girl friend. I also did not hear you say you love your ex. So what is it? I assume you love your present girl friend and that is the reason you are engaged. If you do not love her it means you abused her and are just engaged to her because you had nobody else after you ex left. I think you should make up your mind what you feel about your ex and what about your present girl friend instead of asking strangers what to do. Since you do so I have the idea you are abusing your present girl friend. Otherwise you wouldn't feel confused and you would have told your ex you are engaged and she is PAST!
