Mylot is a place i tell my problem in my life
By AkamaruKei
@AkamaruKei (5219)
Malaysia
January 15, 2013 7:38pm CST
MyLot has become a place to tell the problems in my life. Before this I always tell my problem in facebook but I just can get 'like'. No one is giving suggestions and encouragement to me at facebook. I think more comfortable if I tell my problems to someone else rather than just keep it. If we just keep it we will be stressed.
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15 responses
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Jan 13
I agree with you, I use MyLot as my online journal. Whenever something good or bad happens I come here to talk about it. Without being here I would go crazy with life! I have no idea how I made it before being here. Lol. I am so glad I have all of my friends here to get advice from and be able to talk to when I need it...
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Jan 13
hi LovingMyBabies before I found mylot I was so lonely and newly
retired and not knowing what the h to do with myself no pay checks and no friends to talk to all day and a new apt that was too expensive. I was just not a happy camper but now mylot and all my friends here have just been so wonderful and i am never lonely at all.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Jan 13
I have never had SO many friends before in my life!
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
Yes LovingMyBabies me too. I'm going to be crazy if i'm not share my problem to someone. Hatley before i know mylot i always update my status in facebook because i'm very lonely. I do not have anyone to talk to me. I feel very bored. Than i found mylot. I'm very happy when i share my problem people give suggestion and encouragement to me.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
When we share something about our life we get most suggestion is positive suggestion. Some member here have the experience what we facing in our life that why they can give good advice.
@UtopianIdealist (1604)
• United States
16 Jan 13
I never really used facebook for that purpose because I knew it would be that way. There is a person I am a friend of that has many friends. Over 5000. When she does a post, only a couple of people will even like it. When she was very ill and in the hospital, I noticed only a dozen people posted on it. I thought it was so sad, to have so many friends, but not many of them would even say a kind word when she was in an ICU. Are people just that busy?
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@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
Yeah when i post in my status in facebook i just get 'like'. Nobody want to give opinion or encouragement for me. I dont want want dozens of 'like' but i want they talking to me and tell me something to give me momentum.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
16 Jan 13
Same way here , i used Mylot as my shock absorber ! I share all my emotions here , may it be high or low . I got different advises from different minds and that i felt comforted and liked i am owned. I treated it my best buddy , it is always around to listen to my shouts , doubts , fears and joy ! Mylot is like a community , ready to extend a hand whenever needed , people here are great , you can count on them. I am so blessed i found this place. Happy Lotting Aka and everyone out there. God bless us all :)
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 13
Hmm before this i have post a discussion about i'm frustrated with my sister. I dont know to whom i want to express my feeling so i just post it here. I feel better after that. I feel very angry if i just keeping inside. Luckily it have a site like this. If it dont have a site like this i will stress and angry everyday.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
16 Jan 13
True, I mean at least it's partly true. I sometimes just write down in here how I'm feeling and the cause of my uneasiness. I'm thankful too that some mylotters would give you advise too... and they are good advise.
I don't use facebook about my problems, it never helped and in fact facebook would just add some trouble whenever I make my problems known. Some people there would just comment nonsense things, and since you know them, you tend to be hurt, unlike here in mylot.. people don't know each other, so when you get a negative comment, you just don't care co's they really don't know you and you don't know them too.
Good to hear though that mylot is doing you great favors.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
Well, I don't really got an idiot comments, but I do receive a sarcastic one. Yup, negative responses is somewhat annoying but you have to let it, co's it draw traffics. The more the people commented on your post and it means more responses on your part because you need to respond to their comments and that means more earnings too.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 13
We cannot force someone to agree all we share here. Yes negative responses is annoying but it is draw traffics but some not draw traffics. It is very good if someone always reply our comment and we can get more earnings too.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
Yes in facebook sometime i receive a idiot comment from someone want to disturb me. I sharing in facebook before this but when i know about mylot i sharing it here. Hmm i'm still not feel comfortable when i receive negative responses even i dont know some people here but that is their opinion. They can give whatever opinion they want.
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@Lovegreen (376)
• Philippines
16 Jan 13
Haven't been to mylot lately I've been very busy but yes I agree mylot is one way we can unload to make us feel relieved.
I notice your english is improving a lot AkamaruKei
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
Yes i feel relieved when i sharing something to someone. It is better to write than talking. Sometime i nervous to tell to my parents about my problem so i share it here and listen other people suggestion. Hmm but i refer to dictionary to make my sentences looking nice.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
16 Jan 13
It's weird to think that a website that is filled with a bunch of users that are basically strangers can be such a great place to ask your life questions and discuss your life's problems. I have done the same though while using mylot, I have posted and talked about things that I don't usually talk to about even to my closest friends.
Another advantage that you have of discussing problems here on mylot is that there are over a hundred thousand users on here so you are more likely to find people that have dealt with a similar situation and you also get more advice on the topic. There are a lot of really intelligent and helpful people on here as well which really makes the decision to post some of your hardest dilemmas on here pretty easy to do.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 13
Haha yes it is very weird because we share our problem to the people we dont know. Sometime i share my problem to my close friend but he just know to make a jokes and not really help me. Yes i know they are hundred thousand people here. Some of them have facing some situation similar like what happen to us. So they have experience how to solve the problem.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
16 Jan 13
I completely agree with you. I think that a lot of us come here and talk about our problems. It helps to know that others are at least listening and then here at mylot people will comment and give there thoughts and opinions. And it can actually help us in a lot of ways. I'm appreciating to have mylot and to be able to express myself here.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
Yes i see most discussion is about what is happen in our life. I like when someone give their opinion to solve my problem and encourage me. That mean people listen what i say and try to help me.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
16 Jan 13
We people are humans and we people have different situations and different sufferings in our life and we have o face it and need to over come. Some such situations creates a lot of stress on us. So to get a great relief from it telling the things to others is quite important and it becomes quite good when the listener try to help you or give you solution. If you find good when you share your things over here then keep on going with it.
Happy Mylotting
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 13
Yes it is better we share to someone than just keeping inside. Before this i just share my problem in facebook but nobody give a suggestion. Sometime it just make me become to stress when i see idiot comment in my status. Mylot is a good venue to me to tell my problem. Some suggestion is funny and some suggestion can help me.
@effinmuffin (191)
• Philippines
16 Jan 13
i do agree with you. whoever is the maker of this mylot, he/she is really intelligent. mylot is a place where you can earn and feel relieved. i don't like to post my feelings in facebook because everyone there knows me, unlike mylot. also here in mylot there are lots of people to talk to and are mature enough to answer you discussion. i feel like everyone here is your friend and it is a comfortable place.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
Most of my friend in facebook is people which is outside from my countries. Most of them is youngster. Some younger than me. That why some make idiot comment in my status. At here most join at here is matured. I know some people at here have attitude like a kid but that not affect me. Hmm I also still not matured enough. Hmm but most responses at here i like it. Most people give good opinion and friendly.
@deazil (4730)
• United States
16 Jan 13
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Hi Aka! Yeah, over in FB everybody likes it when you have a problem. At least here somebody will try to help you out. And you're right. Keeping it inside will be worse for you. The stress will build up. Too much stress and your head will explode. At least I got a notification this time. :-)
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
Yes i always receive like. Today i update my status i get like. I change my profile picture i get like. Yeah that is not good to keeping inside our problem. When we sharing with someone we feel a little comfortable.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
16 Jan 13
yes it is, I tell my son mylot is a great therapy place for me. Ha ha ha take care there.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
16 Jan 13
oh yes.. and it is odd if you tell your problem in facebook and your friends will "like" it as if they like you having those problems. Welcome to mylot Aka. and yes, this could be a good venue for venting out troubles and weary mind.
Glad to know this friend.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
I also say in my status i'm headache several month ago and i get 20 like. Wow that mean they like i'm headache. Yes mylot is a good venue for venting out troubles and weary mind. I feel more comfortable when someone listen and try to solve my problem.
@intelinsideyou (664)
• India
16 Jan 13
This shows how much myLot means to you. Yes its good to share your problem as not only it will ease pressure from you but you may actually find a solution to that. Sometimes you may be running out of ideas and the other person can help you in that situation. Glad to know that myLot can do better job than facebook.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
Maybe i cannot follow all the solution people give to me but i'm very appreciate with them because give suggestion to me. Of course mylot is better than facebook but facebook also have a benefit too.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Jan 13
hi AkamaruKei yes I do that too as its a lot cheaper than going to a shrink and also I can get help and help others here too . YOU are really coming along wonderfully here at mylot.I hope you are having fun too and enjoying being here and making friends too.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 13
Yes Hatley sometime we feel not comfortable when we see some responses in our discussion but that is their opinion not all people will agree about something we share here. But very good if someone can give a good responses which is can help to solve a problem for those who is create that discussion. Yes i have fun here maybe sometime i feel angry with someone here but that not affect me. I just ignore them.