Deaf Twins Euthanized
By bostonphil
@bostonphil (4459)
United States
January 16, 2013 8:07am CST
Did you see the above headline because I and millions of others did? The story is that deaf twins in Belgium were beginning to go blind. For both of them, it was the final straw. They felt that they could not live like that. They requested euthanasia. It was allowed. Belgium is one of the few countries in the world that allows chronically ill and very ill people to request and be euthanized. With the help of a doctor, they were euthanized. It was described as a very beautiful and peaceful ending.
I was shocked by the story and am still haunted by it. Neither had gone blind yet. There was still a quality of life and even blind and deaf, there may still have been some quality of life. They were not terminally ill.
The headline that I saw read "Belgium Euthanizes Deaf Twins". It caught my attention and I read the story. I have mixed feelings about the event. It sort of chills me on one hand, but then, on the other, who am I to judge others when they feel that they would prefer to die over living?
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11 responses
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
16 Jan 13
Do they allow such things to happen? I did not know that. I thought it was only a topic for debate. In debates, it's usually patients who are terminally ill may opt for euthanasia, and other situations, but never on deafness and blindness. That is so extreme.
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@junerainemay (346)
• Philippines
16 Jan 13
That's what i thought so. I never knew some countries are practising it. I only get to hear about it from debates but given what happened to the twins is really sad. I mean, being blind doesn't mean it's the end of the world alreay. There are blinds out there that choose to live and fight and they're living a good life. I'm sure your family will never leave you behind or unattended when you need care.
As for euthanasia, I think this should only be done to those people who are critically ill or are almost on the edge of dying. For the twins' case, they weren't about to die. They're just going to lost sights. Oh well, who are we to judge exactly? You're right, if the twins wanted to end their lives and it's perfectly legal in their country then why not? We don't exactly know what's going through their minds.
@iva75cpb (729)
• Bulgaria
16 Jan 13
It is sad, though. I really think we can't judge them for their decision, or their family for their support. What stunned me here is that, like you said above, they yet had a chance to have a little bit more of quality life before they go completely blind, and they might have used that opportunity. But only God and they knew how it felt to be both deaf and blind, so I am far, far away from judging. Eventually their life would have ended as a burden to their relatives so I'm guessing they tried to avoid that, especially while having additional issues. No matter how many points of view we find of this situation, it's extremely sad and I have great sympathy for those they left behind.
My country's folklore contains a very sad tale, whose closing lines sound like this (translation, of course): "My God, how much sorrow walks on this earth, my God..." I think it needs comment no more...
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@bostonphil (4459)
• United States
18 Jan 13
"My country's folklore contains a very sad tale, whose closing lines sound like this (translation, of course): "My God, how much sorrow walks on this earth, my God..." I think it needs comment no more... "
iva, I love your last sentences. Thanks for sharing. As I said in my post, There but for the grace of God go I. I give thanks that I can see and hear and walk among other things.
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
18 Jan 13
Men are indeed complicated creatures. Every one has his/her own ideas and opinions. Everybody looks differently at the kind of life he/she likes. The fact that they were twins - it was reported that they said that they could not bear to not seeing each other when their eyesight failed - might be that they had a stronger emotional attachment to each other which we non-twins may not really understand. It is indeed chilling.
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@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
19 Jan 13
"Each of us has to make a personal decision as to whether our life is worth continuing" - this statement is also a chilling one. If only we know what is in the afterlife, then we can make an informed decision whether this life is worth continuing (if we know the afterlife is better or worse, or even if there is one afterlife). But when we do not know anything about what will happen after our life ends, how would we know that we will be better than our present life?
My personal opinion is that all life is worthy of living. There is no perfection in life. There will always be something that we want but we don't get. We just have to learn how to appreciate the many little blessings in our life.
@1corner (744)
• Canada
16 Jan 13
I didn't know about it. I haven't been watching the news nor reading the papers so this comes as a big surprise. This news is terrible; Belgium has crossed the line between what's legal and permissible, in my opinion. I wonder if any attempts have been made to get the twins seen by a psychotherapist - what if they were simply depressed? I looked this news up, and found out they also have other medical problems and impending blindness apparently. However, they have a supportive family, who could have helped them live through it (and who tried to talk them out of it).
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
18 Jan 13
I have to admit that I am a person that is in favor of allowing people to have assisted euthanasia, but I really don't think that this was a situation where something like this was appropriate. The fact of the matter is that though these individuals did have handicaps and obstacles in their lives, they weren't going through chronic pain and an illness that was going to imminently end their lives. To me, this doesn't set a very good precident for blind/deaf individuals.
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@bostonphil (4459)
• United States
18 Jan 13
I do not think that there was enough information given in the stories about these twins. There were other health issues besides the deafness and the coming blindness. One could only sleep sitting up and the other had some other serious health issues. They were deteriorating fast in every way possible. I think they may have been in chronic pain but that was not emphasized. The stories about them were very brief with the emphasis on deafness, blindness and euthanasia. Not enough information was given probably due to privacy issues.
Myself, I am glad that I am not in the position they were in. I suspect that you feel the same way.
@bostonphil (4459)
• United States
18 Jan 13
I have gone back and tried to do more searching on the subject. There are many stories but it is the same story over and over again. I had found another one yesterday but it is now buried. I do believe there were other serious health issues that did result in chronic pain. I did read that Belgium allows euthanasia if the emotional pain is unbearable. These men felt that not being able to see one another besides being deaf would be unbearable.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
17 Jan 13
I was feeling a bit of pity for them, but yet I thaught they just gave up too easily and chose the comfortable way. If there was a bit of willpower in them, they would have accepted that and tried to make the best of their lives. There are people with even worse problems who accept this gracefully and show great examples.
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@bostonphil (4459)
• United States
17 Jan 13
I would have advised waiting a bit longer until they went fully blind. Maybe, they never would have gone 100 percent blind. Maybe, there could be attempts to bring some hearing back. I am certain that these twins thought about it. They probably were required to receive some counseling before the euthanasia.
@bostonphil (4459)
• United States
17 Jan 13
There are some who would agree very strongly with you but there are also others who would disagree with what you have said.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
16 Jan 13
This is shocking.
I agree, being blind if not the end of everything.
There are many blind people who lives a normal life.
I felt so bad reading this
@bostonphil (4459)
• United States
16 Jan 13
They were deaf but going blind. There were also other health issues. While they still enjoyed some quality of life, they were deteriorating fast.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Jan 13
This is super sad but like you said we have no right to judge them for it. Maybe if I was in that situation I might choose the same thing, then again maybe not. I don't know how I would react if I was in that predicament. We each have to decide what is the best thing for us...
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@bostonphil (4459)
• United States
16 Jan 13
Agreed. It is a personal choice. The twins felt that they had less and less quality of life. There were other health issues as well. They were very close and they wanted to die together. The family supported their decision. It just sounds bad ..... at least the headlines do but when you read on, one better understands.
@robspeakman (1700)
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16 Jan 13
I read this post earlier day, rather than go blazing in commenting off the top of my head - I decided to think about it and maybe research it before making a knee jerk response.
As you have said in replies and comments, these twins do have other health problem that will only get worse - Nobody wants to suffer in pain and I would imagine that this is the hardest choice they had to make
Discussions like this should avoid any religious views
A second point I would like to raise is one that requires some imagination.
Take away the future health problems for these twins...
Let us just stick with Blindness and Deafness - Did you think of that when you read the post?
Deaf and Blind
You can't see anything or hear anything - You are alone until somebody touches you.
You can't read, you can't listen to music.
You have no interaction with other.
You are nutured by your experience through life.
Life forms you and your way of thinking.
What would these twins gain from life?
Everyday they are alone
That is not a quality of life.
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@iluvusabado (2560)
• Philippines
16 Jan 13
this is really unacceptable for me. i wonder how old are the twins?
i must say the twins are coward because they never wanted a challenging life. they are obviously mentally ill. i just don't understand why the government allows euthanasia.
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@bostonphil (4459)
• United States
16 Jan 13
I do not remember the age of the twins but they were not kids. They were adults who could make their own decisions. They were not believed to be mentally ill. They had to go through an interview process and be of sound mind. Belgium is one of the few countries that does allow euthanasia. Usually it is with and for the terminally ill. This situation was a bit unusual. The first doctor refused the twins request.
@jstory07 (139354)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Oct 15
It was their life and the decesion was their's. So they got what they wanted.