I Am Excited!

Valdosta, Georgia
January 18, 2013 3:37pm CST
I have been wanting to start my Childcare business for a long time again now... But I was meeting a lot of judgemental people before and I was getting discouraged. I have been in the childcare field for over 13 years now but I have a smaller modular now so many people did not use my services because of that... Well I decided the other day that I am going to try again. I put my ad up with my website for people to see and I got a babysitting job today! =) I am really excited to meet someone down to earth like me and understanding that not everyone lives in huge houses! She came here, talked with me for half an hour and asked if I could watch him overnight tonight! I did not expect that at all because of the other people I have met but I'm happy just the same...
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
18 Jan 13
my gosh, how dare you watch my child in anything less than a mansion?
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jan 13
I know, right? Shame on me!
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
19 Jan 13
Maybe the parents want the child to have a lot of things to see in the house, so, by the time he learns everything, the parents can come and pick him up. They want him to have space to play and run. A child can get bored very fast in a small house. What do you think ? Do the parents tell why they want a huge house to keep their child at ?
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 13
Congratulations! Seems things are definitely looking up for you my friend, and that's so refreshing to hear. Did you know I am actually trained to look after 0-8 year olds, I have my NVQ3 Qualification in Childcare, but sadly because I am a bloke, I can't get the work, people are very prejudiced. Still at least it looks good on my resume!
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jan 13
Oh wow, that is pretty cool wolfie! =) I did not know that. I would have no problem with a guy watching my kids, it all depends how he interacted with my kids. So I would not be one of those people who judge because of gender. But I know plenty of people do! People judge me because I live in a modular (not sure if you know what it is) but its nice, 4 bed 2 bath, 1200 sq feet, but people want it to be a bigger house! So crazy some of the judgements done by people...
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 13
Well considering we live in a small two bedroomed home, your modular sounds divine, although right now I'd settle for a one roomed flat, I had to move back with my parents because I lost my job and home, it's not ideal, I love my mum but hate my father, maybe one day I can get my own place, have to be positive eh!
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• Malaysia
19 Jan 13
Wolfie34, I give you the full support and you should be given that job. What wrong with you people these days to judge the man like that. Man can be father and also it's not strange that man can work as a babysitter. I also like to work with children. I'm currently working in a kindergarten as a teacher. Before that, I also had prejudices and rejections, but I still continue to apply for that job and finally I've got it. Thank God for that. Don't give up looking for that job because it's a wonderful job. I believe there will be someone out there will appreciate and accept you. I wish you all the best.
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
19 Jan 13
Good luck with it! The only problem with daycare is that when things happen, people don't pay. I hope she is not one, and it works out well for you.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jan 13
Thanks! Yeah she did pay, not as much as she said she would. I know, I have had plenty of people through the years try to get out of paying. That is the worst part!
• United States
18 Jan 13
Well I'm sure you know how I feel about this! YIPPEEEEEE! We talked about his a month ago and I thought it would suit you so great. Finally, someone is willing to trust you regardless of where you live or what you live in. I'm really amazed that she wants you to watch him overnight already though..I really don't think I would do that so soon if it was my kid, but, GOOD FOR YOU!! Congrats LMB, you sure deserve it!
• United States
19 Jan 13
How crazy is this! I'm sooooo, so happy for you! Hopefully, she'll let other people know too and you'll be right on your way! Maybe between you and hubby now working (if all goes well of course), you'll be able to move and really drum up some business. You just never know where things are going to take you and I can feel how excited you are right now! I really can! It does put a scare into you when you think people will just leave their kids...just like that. Kinda scary actually. I could never do that either. I hope everything is on the up and up. Maybe your kindness just flows out of you and she picked up on it. I still wouldn't do it though, HAHAHA! So happy for you!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jan 13
Yes I do! Thank you. I have done childcare for so long but because of this house its hard to find people less judgemental. But I am happy I at least found one person who is down to earth and understanding! I am going to be rearranging my house again, using the spare room as the playroom...It will take me a while tomorrow to do it but it will be done, once hubby gets off work so he can help me some. I know, it always amazes me that people meet me for a few minutes and leave their children with me. Thank God I am a good person but its scary to think that one day they could leave their children with someone not so good! =( I could never ever leave my children with someone I don't know VERY well! People do it all the time with me though...I don't get it.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jan 13
Thank you! I am so happy too! =) I hope this leads to more and more childcare work for me. That would be awesome. And yes I hope we can move out of here soon... Actually our plan is this...We are going to buy this house, I know it sounds crazy but let me explain. We have to put $4,000 down and then it will be $400 per month, were planning on doing that with our tax money, it will be rent to own. We are going to rent it out for $725 per month and live somewhere else. This way we can pay the mortgage still and live somewhere else where my business will thrive. What do you think of the plan??? Good idea or not
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• United States
18 Jan 13
It is great that you have a babysitting gig. Are you looking to expand out and build up your own daycare center? Many people feel more confidant about centers rather than childcare in private homes--and that isn't just an issue of the size of the house but, rather, the potential presence of other family members while you are engaged in childcare.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jan 13
Thanks! I wish I could open a daycare but unfortunately that takes a LOT more money than I ever will have!! I wish I had money like that, it would be awesome. Sadly I don't... Now, if I ever win the lottery, that is what I want to do is open my own daycare yes. (I won't be holding my breath for that to happen though).
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jan 13
I do love my kids! That is true. But the people in the picture are me and my sister actually. My kids are little. There are pictures of my kids on my profile.
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
19 Jan 13
I see you love your babies as your name says it. The picture shows your babies are two adorable daughters. Maybe you can ask your daughters to help you to play with the children and take care of them and prevent problems, keep everything all right. Your daughters will have fun and also help you and maybe they will love it so much they will like it to be their job too. You will be able to start a family business that will be even better than a daycare. You will gain reputation among many friends and family members and the rumors will spread fast. ummm...It will require your daughters to have a lot of spare time and still be able to do the school tasks...That will take a lot of hard work.
@marguicha (223051)
• Chile
19 Jan 13
I hope that your business turns out really well. If I can judge from your username, you are a person who loves children. Everyone has a reason to concoct a username. Do tell us from time to time how is it going and what you are doing. Take care and luck!
@marguicha (223051)
• Chile
20 Jan 13
I was reading the other answers and was confused that anyone would not like a 4 bedroom 2 bathroom house as a place to have their kids. I imagine that if you lived in a mansion full of servants, you would not need to babysit
• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jan 13
Thank you! I do love working with children! =) I have my whole life. I will keep everyone updated with how it's going!
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@AmbiePam (92787)
• United States
19 Jan 13
That's incredible. Congratulations.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jan 13
Thank you!
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
19 Jan 13
You will find people that won't be judging you simply because you live in a smaller home. And truthfully those are not the people that you want to work for anyway. They will be judging every little thing that you do probably. I used to do childcare when my girls were small and I lived in an apartment. I got very close with not only the kids but a lot of the parents. I loved it. At the end of the day, the mom's would come and pick up their kids and we all sat around and chatted over coffee for a bit before they left. It was just fun. Of course there are always those parents that don't want to pay and that is what I found the toughest. I would get close and then when they don;t pay, well, it is hard to let go but you have to...it is a lot of work and you deserve your money.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jan 13
Your right, I would NOT want to watch their kids anyway because they would be SO picky! Like I have 2 dogs so they might freak out if their kid has dog hair on them or something ridiculous like that... See, I like the kids but I very rarely ever like the parents. Lol. I find most of the parents to be nothing like me at all. They either let their kids get away with murder, their late picking their kids up, they don't want to pay, etc... I really do NOT like the parents at all. But I love working with the kids! =)
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
18 Jan 13
Just don't let those judgemental people stop what you love to do for yourself. If you are interested in starting your own childcare business, you should go ahead have a plan, and execute it accordingly. If you are discouraged by these judgemental folks, you will never get to have a chance having an interesting job, occupation, career or own business during your life time, since you have to constantly mindful of what they think of you instead of what 's the best for yourself and your family. I am glad you finally decided to do something that you like and love for now, without letting these people dictate for you what you are suppose to do in your life. Have a nice day!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jan 13
Your right, I should not other people stop me from doing what I love to do! Sometimes that is hard to do with certain people. But I am just happy that I am giving it another try! =-)
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
18 Jan 13
Hey! Great going! Any parent should know that as long as you leave your children in a safe environment, it doesn't matter how big or how small the place is. As long as the kids are taken cared of properly they should be fine. I hope this is just the (re-)start! Good luck!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jan 13
Thank you! I am super happy because I absolutely love doing childcare! =-) Yeah, there are trailers down the road from me though and people half base it on that also... =( But everyone that knows me knows I take good care of children. Hopefully this is just the beginning of great things for my childcare!
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
19 Jan 13
That's great! Hope that this would be the start of a flourishing career for you....I have also thought of that myself, but just like what you've been through, some of my husband's relatives are against it...those nosy little people!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jan 13
Thank you! I hope it keeps going well and I keep getting business. =) Some people judge too quickly sometimes...
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@tshihmin2 (186)
• Malaysia
19 Jan 13
It is so sweet that you want to run a childcare business. It is good to work with children than with the adults. Eventhough, children can be giving us some problem but there are also children who are cute and can put our stress away. I also like children and I'm currently working in a kindergarten. Congratulations to you and I'm happy for you. I hope that your childcare business will grow. I wish you all the best.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jan 13
Yes I have been doing childcare for over 13 years now and I love it! Working with kids is my passion. =) Children are MUCH easier to work with in my opinion than adults are... Adults are difficult most of the time...
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@NailTech (6874)
• United States
18 Jan 13
I'm happy for you that you got a babysitting job and can set up your home as small as it might be as the child care "center". Friday night is when alot of people go out and maybe just want to spend time alone with their other half or their friends. I wish you all the best with it and hope it goes well for you. Also that it leads to more jobs.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jan 13
Thank you. I am happy too! It's not really a small house, its 4 bed 2 bathrooms...Some people just don't like it because its a modular and there are trailers down the street from me... Sadly people judge that way. I hope it does lead to more jobs though! =)
@vivek19 (218)
• India
19 Jan 13
That's really good that you got the job. I think you can also use posters to be pasted along rodesides and streets. it will definitely popularise your childcare business. Try to keep the price reasonable. I hope that's gonna help you.
@AJ1952Chats (2332)
• Anderson, Indiana
19 Jan 13
This is wonderful news!!! I'm so happy for you!!! It's always nice to find work in an area that you enjoy, and I'm sure you'll soon have more than one child being cared for by you. It sounds to me as if those other parents have missed out on something really good!
• Anderson, Indiana
20 Jan 13
Your welcome for my saying that, as it's the truth!!!
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Jan 13
Thank you. I'm happy too! I'm sure I will have more clients too. I think your right, I love caring for kids and they missed out on a good provider! Thank you for saying that.
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• United States
18 Jan 13
Congratulations! What age range are you looking to watch? I think that the housing crisis has really changed a lot of attitudes; before, I know I used to be jealous of anyone with a larger home than mine, but now I realize that my home was pretty large by a lot of peoples' standards! I hope your business venture goes well!
• United States
20 Jan 13
If someone is THAT worried about trailer homes, they need to grow up! Just because there is a group of trailers near you means nothing-PEOPLE live there and those are their homes! Some people just need to stop being a snob is all.
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jan 13
Thank you! =) I watch children from Newborns up to 14 years old. I have experience with all of those ages. The problem with my house is it's not really small, it is just in a neighborhood where there are trailers down the street from me. I think that is the real issue... My house is 4 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms, so its not a tiny house or anything, 1200 sq feet which isn't a bad size... They just think its a bad neighborhood because of the trailers...
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Jan 13
Oh I agree with you. Thats why I was getting discouraged because people would say their coming, then turn around when they see the trailers!! So rude to me. They must think everyones rich like them! There was a girl I knew who was so good with kids but because she lived in a trailer no one would let her babysit. It was so sad to me that people are SO judgemental!
21 Jan 13
That’s brilliant! I am so happy for you! You really do adore kids don’t you? my partner started a cleaning business recently and has had a lot of interest! Sometimes starting your own little business really does pay off! Congrats!!
22 Jan 13
i hope it all goes well for you, you really really deserve it!
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Jan 13
Thank you. I do love working with kids of all ages. I have always had a passion for working in the childcare field. =) I have done this for a long time but I took a break for a while and now I am going back to it...
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
18 Jan 13
Congrats! Hope it goes well. I know many expect the world given to their kids, and not pay for it. Our scrapbooking instructor has her own daycare, we hear horror stories. Even with petsitting and walking, I get some real winners. I can see meeting, and asking questions, but some are just rude. I have one family who is amasing, which I petsit for all the time. When I get my own place, I plan on doing it in my home.
• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jan 13
I could not sleep at night doing that either. One lady paid me with checks when I first started (before I knew better than accepting checks), she bounced all of the checks-it ended up being over $1,000 that I lost. I did get all of the money because she was in the military andthey do NOT let them get away with that kind of thing. Thank God she was in the military or I would have never gotten that money!
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jan 13
Thanks! I hope it goes well too. =) Yes I have dealt with many parents over the last 14 years who have not wanted to pay and shorted me at times, etc... In any business these are things you have to deal with. My husband went through the same things when he owned his remodeling business. Pain in the rear end! Lol. Some people are very rude! Thank God I met a good one today that was understanding that I am not rich!
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
19 Jan 13
A lot of people are just out to get free things, and short people. I would not be so nice about it though. But it happens in any business, but then there are some who pay religiously. I could never short someone and sleep at night.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
18 Jan 13
great deal.. I knew a great baby sitter in vegas who lived in a one bedroom appt. people shouldnt judge you by that. Good luck, hope you get some more kids there.
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jan 13
Yeah it is a silly judgement but they also judge this area because there are trailers down the road from me...
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
19 Jan 13
In my opinion, parents should care about how much attention their child will get from the babysitter. The child need to stay busy, and maybe learn some things for his development. So, parents are supposed to check that more than the house size isn't it ? I would ask the babysitter what she/he believes in about education and taking care of children. What food do they get here, how many toys and how many more kids are there in the house, will the child be protected ? How exactly will the babysitter prevent accidents ? Will the babysitter keep the children busy ? etc...
• Mexico
18 Jan 13
doesnt sound to fair...
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
19 Jan 13
what is smaller modular? Congratulations for getting a job. so the kid is brought to you house for care? that's great, is it lucrative? do you pay taxes? Does the kid bring his/her own food. I want to have this daycare thing when I go to US, I know how expensive my niece is paying.. but I think more on like a Kindegarten run in Asian schools... like, children are there for a day, we have regular classes and activities and we have nap time, eat time and all... That's how I see the day care I want to run as a business, in US and Australia so moms and dads can work confidently and get their children back after work.
• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jan 13
I am not sure if you know what they are but its like a bigger trailer. Yeah, I do it out of my home but we have play time, story time, circle time, nap time, etc... Of course I pay taxes! Lol.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
19 Jan 13
hahaha I am thinking of not paying taxes. and that's nice, like a day care too. good to know this i hope it will be a success.