when to give another chance to your ex?

well it is her decision and not yours even if you see him sincere enough you didn't know what happened between them, maybe she's hurt really really bad and what he did is something not easy to let go and yes, if he is really sincere to win her back he will take the chance whether she will win her back or not. that's right!

If the breakup is due to trust issues then she should really think about it---A LOT! Sincerity is hard to quantify. A pathological liar can be convincing enough to believe.

Since you don't know the reason for their parting, I believe you gave the best advice possible. I would tell your friend to see if her ex is open to counseling. Otherwise, they might just go down the same road again.

It depends on the guy's actions and what lead to the break up. Is the guy worthy enough? Does he truly show her he loves her? The girl must have a clear mind to see all this. People get hurt all the time after all, so it doesn't always mean that you get hurt once it's all over. Only she can decide that and she should take her time. besides, this guy will wait if he is worthy.

Well, they broke up for a reason. And besides, people don't change, maybe they can change but they will always go back to who they really are. And if I got back together with an ex, well, I'm pretty sure that he has probably flirted or slept with other women while we weren't together and I wouldn't want to think that, getting back together is too risky and the chances of you breaking up again are very high. Getting back together is like putting a band aid over a broken leg, most likely, it's not going to work.

Well, if she still loves her ex and her ex still loves her then she should give him a chance. There is this saying, "Love is sweeter the second time around".

this is a decision your friend can only make. why did they breakup. i would really think about this since she was deeply hurt. if she wants to work it out, i would really give it some thought. i wouldn't rush into it. if it were me, i would move forward. i don't want to be hurt again. this is up to your friend, however.

I don't know what is the best time to give your ex a second chance if he/she really want to win your loves back. That entirely depend on different situation. Some people just can't go back and fall in love with the same person again, and some people might worth the chance to try it over again. Tell your friend, if he really loves her, and he thinks she worth the second chance, why not give it a shot.

Your advice to her in this regards is fine. But what I feel she should take her own decision because what you think about that guy she may have lost the feeling about him. In such situation she must take her own decision as it is her life question.

I agree with the statement that I don't take back to any person who cheated on me, so the chance maybe depend on the situation except the broke with cheat problem. If the situation I was broken with my girl about different view with the problem, or missunderstanding or because emotional one of us, I will give another chance :)

Depends on how long ago the infraction took place, how deep the hurt was and what the hurt was. I believe in second chances some of the time, not all the time. When I'm done, I'm done and no amount of "trying to win me back" is ever going to work. When I gave it my all from the beginning and I wasn't met with the same amount of passion, it will just never work.

Giving chances to a relationship depends on how they parted ways, sometimes it can be fixed immediately but for some instances it cannot be fix anymore. But for what you have stated she is deeply hurt so it means something is wrong and she needs to think about it not just once but many times and analyze the situation if she can handle the relationship good this time because if it is not going to be good this time she will never forgive her self the next time.

That's right, if she thinks the guy is worth for a second chance why not? She must also be on the look out for a possibility that the guy is just playing a game with her. For if, he really loves her, he can't afford to hurt the way it happened before.

It is important for her to evaluate all the circumstances that caused her to be hurt. She needs to note all the shortcomings that he had.Then she should start observing him for sometime if at all there are any positive changes.If she still loves him,she can point out his weaknesses and let him acknowledge those weak points.Together they can begin to have a supportive relationship while he tries to work on his weaknesses.Two to four months is enough a time to observe whether someone has really changed.If she is satisfied with him within this period, then she can have him back.