Maybe i should forget you
By adhyz82
@adhyz82 (36249)
Indonesia
January 19, 2013 7:04pm CST
i never want to leave you..but every words from your mouth always said that you are not happy with me..
you with conscious said that you are shy when we are spending time together...
and you with the conscious say that you love another man beside me..`
maybe i should forget you..
i had proven that i really loves you..
but when you said that you are not happy with me, can i push my feeling to you?
it`s not wise for pushing my feeling..
it`s not my type..
i love a woman and the woman should love me too
iam happy with her and she are happy with me too..it`s called love..
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23 responses
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
6 Feb 13
You deserve a woman who loves you and only you.
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@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
hi,
if someone will say that she/he will no longer love you or when the feeling has gone i think you have to give up on that because you will only experience hard times with that person,but if are both happy to each other then you should stay and stick together.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
20 Jan 13
Sorry to hear that you are experiencing these problems. It's hard to have a successful relationship when so many things are going wrong. I really do hope that things improve for you and her. I think though that she needs to be faithful to you. If she is falling for another man or trying to be with someone else you need to let her know that that isn't acceptable. That she has to make a decision. Otherwise she will end up doing this more than once.
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
15 Feb 13
hello, adhyz, it's very sad poetry. is it about your heart situation now?? I also read some of your broken statement on facebook's status. I can read your disappoint feeling. is she person that you want to marry for? if yes, I know it wouldn't easy to let her go, but to force her feeling to you could make everything going worse. marry with someone who you love and love you back. don't be hurry, everything can wait...
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
17 Feb 13
what do you mean with another magic can change her?? do you mean she suddenly change?? not magic who change her, but may be she's not yet 100% to you, that's why she can change her mind. may be she think about another option or somebody else and she still looking for the best for her. how old she is? how long your relationship with her? also, if you ask her to married, may be she's not ready yet... it also can change her mind. you really have to find what exactly happen first with her
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@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
17 Feb 13
don't make your own conclusion about what exactly happen, ask her for a date, then ask her why she change and what exactly happen to her. it's very important to open each other and trust each other if you both want make a long relationship and want to go married. remember, married is not game, it's serious thing and sacra. don't make mistake by feeling hurry and pressure!
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
20 Jan 13
Let her go if she loves another man.
Never waste your time on a love not given back to you. When we love someone, and you have proven your love is true and that there is no one else aside from her... you got to get the same love from her. Otherwise, accept and respect that your relationship with her is not gonna work.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
Hmmmn so he's playing with two different guys.
Have you asked her why is it that he's having a relationship with another when she is already with you? Is there something that's lacking with you that he accepted another guy in her life.
It is better to know things. Because if you forgive her and you and her get back together, there is a chance she will do the same again.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
20 Jan 13
yes it called love at your end, but not for her. It is a one way love traffic would you be happy about it? If she loves another man then too bad for you and stop loving her she doesn't deserve you.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
18 Feb 13
I think most probably it is not good to push the feelings one feel and one should ask oneself it is right to say or not. I think there are lots of fishes in the pond and there are lots of good girls who will make one feel better in life and one can settle with one of these girls. I think feelings do occur with different people at different time as times goes on. 
@erricgunawan (611)
• Indonesia
21 Jan 13
What happened to you adhyz?
You look gloomy these days.
Hope you're all right and you manage to solve your problems, whatever that is.
Cheers! 
@nonik_mildie (139)
•
26 Feb 13
well i can say like this to you: if she isn't happy with you and she has already hurt you..then leave her and find someone new....better than her, who loves adn respect on you. But, i know and understand that forgetting someone who's very special in our heart isn't a simple thing to do....So adhyz....your happiness is your own choice....if you let your heart full of sorrow then you'll get sadness....but if you let your heart to release her...insya Alloh you'll get the better one ....keep your chin up :P
@else22 (4317)
• India
20 Jan 13
Sorry,I didn't why you don't let her have her own way if she is not happy with her relationship with you.Let her go and find someone else who loves you.Now you are having a one sided relationship.I think,such relationships cause only pain and depression.You can always find a girl who has a feeling for you.I am afraid,she may feel you are imposing yourself upon her.It will hurt your self respect.
@else22 (4317)
• India
22 Jan 13
If he actually leaves her and she feels herself alone,you may give her your company.But even then you should not expect her to have feelings for you.I think so.Had I been in your place I would have done exactly that.It is her choice whether she loves you or not.May be she likes you only as a friend.Am I wrong?Afterall we can't impose ourselves on others.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
26 Feb 13
Hi friend, you provide a nice definition for love and i agree with you. Love is not a forcible thing and no one have the rights to force their beloved ones to love them, it is our own wish to love a person or not. I like your last sentence.. i love a woman and the woman should love me too iam happy with her and she are happy with me too..it`s called love.. True enough.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
26 Feb 13
so if she loves you then why she said that she loves another man? I do not understand that.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
20 Jan 13
yes it is high time to call it quits and take a leave and just keep moving on rather than staying with the past and pushing your feelings a lot
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
20 Jan 13
If she is not happy with you and your relationship is a burden to her, then yes let her go and find someone who will treasure you as only you should be treasured. You want someone that will be happy to be with you. Feelings by both partners is what is needed, and if she is just not happy with you...find another love.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
20 Jan 13
i know her aunt..and with her aunt, she said that in her deeply heart,she still love me, even she is confusing who the man she want to choose it..
she admit that i have many sacrifice than another man who stay in far away than her..
it`s coincindence, she and i live in the same area..but, when i hear when she said to her aunt (the aunt give me the report), she said that in her deeply heart, she will choose another man
and it really hurts me..
since yesterday, i tried not to send message first to her..and she doesn`t know that i know their conversation
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
20 Jan 13
Like you said, love is something mutual. Man and woman love each other, that 's love. I agree with you, you should forget her and find your real love, don't worry about that , it just needs time. You give her a chance to get her love, and you will find a woman you love and at the same time, she loves you ,too. I believe it won't take long.
May you be happy and find your true love soon, friend!
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May you be happy and find your true love soon, friend!
@Janurmas (642)
• Indonesia
20 Jan 13
It is a mutual love. But if you love her and she doesn't love you, it is what we call as unrequited love. An unrequited love (cinta bertepuk sebelah tangan) doesn't give you any meaningful thing. Try to look a girl that can love you sincerely. Try to build lover relationship with the one that can accept you.
