Girlfriend who steals
By poppoppop111
@poppoppop111 (5731)
Canada
January 20, 2013 1:50am CST
My daughters father has been dating this girl for a few years. She steals money from his, has taken 1000 at a time from his bank account with out telling him. And he continues to date her. He said she steals from her family and friends as well. Why would he put up with this. I think he is getting what he deserves. He used to steal from me. Maybe that's why it doesn't bother him. They are both thieves.
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12 responses
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
20 Jan 13
HaHa. What goes around comes around, eh? If he's a thief, he's not going to see a whole lot wrong with her being one. And if she is stealing from everyone, she is definitely a thief. I guess she met her soul mate. Let them stay together so they don't steal from anyone else, just from each other, unless, of course, her stealing is affecting your daughter.
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@poppoppop111 (5731)
• Canada
20 Jan 13
I don't let my daughter go there with her own money or her bank card. I'm sure she would steal that too if she could
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
20 Jan 13
Hi jalucia
I liked the way you put it "the soul mates" yeah yeah may be they are soul mates finally met. so he is able to bear her .
Its good not letting your daughter to take the money card.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
20 Jan 13
No! Don't keep them together. They will breed and make more of them
*gets the sterilizer*
@simplepleasures (282)
• Philippines
20 Jan 13
Your daughter's father? Meaning your husband? Your husband is dating someone else? Or was that just a typo? Oh god I hope that is just a typo. :D
Anyway, like what the book Perks of Being a Wallflower said, "We accept the love we think we deserve." So maybe you are right that he tolerates her stealing because he has done that before as well and perhaps he knows that after some time she would change. Or maybe he loves her unconditionally so he is willing to accept whatever she is. Or maybe money is not important to him.
Whatever the reason is, I don't think we have the right to meddle with their problem. That issue is for them to resolve. All we can offer for him is our reminders and advice but if he does nothing about it, then let him be.
Have a good day. :D
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@poppoppop111 (5731)
• Canada
20 Jan 13
Yes my daughters husband. We are not together anymore. Haven't been for 8 years.
@poppoppop111 (5731)
• Canada
20 Jan 13
Oops now that one is a typo my daughters father not husband.
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
20 Jan 13
Eventually that woman will take everything he has. Let us know when that happens. It'll be a good laugh
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
20 Jan 13
Ohh so finally he is getting what he did or deserve. May be this is called karma
Hope atleast now he realize his mistake.
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@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
20 Jan 13
Really? That is so so. Haha. If the guy is a thief, there is no doubt why his girl is also a thief. They have something in common that is why they last up in few years.:) It's just that you have a child from him. It would bully your daughter if everyone in town knows that her father is a thief.
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@Sureoi (176)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
You should tell that girl that what she is doing is very wrong. She will not stop until no one is telling her that it is wrong. If you have told her about that and she's still doing it, then report her to the police. Let us not be silence by evil. And I think they are what they say, "The Perfect Combination".
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
24 Jan 13
You may be right about why that doesn't bother him. It can also be seen as karma. But then when you stop and think about it, if he stole from you, but now she's stealing from him, take out the middle man, who gained from you and lost from her, and she's really stealing from YOU! Had he not stolen the money from you in the first place you would not be lacking it now.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
oh my it should really bother him.. i mean it is not normal. if she needs it and she wants some money she can ask for it and not steal from her family and boyfriend! i mean that is not normal and not right! she could be stealing a few hundred now, what about tomorrow? how much will she steal and how much is she willing to do to get what she wants?
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
21 Jan 13
Doesn't the saying go what goes around comes around. And you're right, he was asking for it. Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you. Well, that's what he gets anyway, and he's being stupid to keep dating her knowing that she stole from him and that much for that fact.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
20 Jan 13
I guess if it doesn't bother him then it's obviously not that important to him. It is sad that person would feel like they need to steal from family and friends. That is awful. But I guess there are many people who put up with that type of behavior and don't let it bother them. But like you said he stole from you so maybe because he is a thief himself he doesn't care about it.
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
20 Jan 13
It indicate3s that the guy was your ex-husband or boyfriend. Probably he is not taking it very seriously but once it can create bigger problems in future. He should take immediate measures to stop it. Probably he does not like to lose his girlfriend again.
@yugocean (9963)
• India
24 Jan 13
A thief loves another thief for same habit, but this thief love is only one sided. Your daughter's father is not stealing from her, this means he has fallen in one sided love for another thief, he is just shooting his own foot by continuing with the dishonest girl.