Feeling so lonely tonight

Philippines
January 20, 2013 6:52am CST
i don't know why but i really feel so sad and upset tonight maybe because i miss my family so much especially my siblings. i am all alone here in our house and i don't know what to do. i cannot understand why i feel so upset and jaded these past few days. my boyfriend and i had a misunderstanding so we don't talk for days now, i can't write a good poetry or essay because my mind is so bothered and i feel like a prison here at home, i think i have said this a thousand times but my daily routine is the reason for my loneliness. i don't know what can make me happy and alive.
14 responses
• China
21 Jan 13
Why not go out for a travel,it always a good way to leave away the sadness. Or go to see your family,wherever you go,no matter how hard you've been through,your family always there to support you.
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• Netherlands
23 Jan 13
I think this is a good advice. It's also proved that already making traveling plans does people make feel way better. So make plans, if possible go out and meet people or observe them. Keep yourself busy so it takes your mind of feeling lonesome. Remember you are your own best friend so do pamper and embrace yourself. You are worth it.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
I think you should call you family or go visit them in this case you can lessen your loneliness and they can help you to figure out on how to fix your problem with you boyfriend. The reason why you feel lonely right now because your having some troubles with you love life and you family are far away and there's no one there to comfort you.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
22 Jan 13
Give your family a call and talk with them, it should make you feel a bit better. My husband and I have been married for quite a few years and now even though my parents have passed I still miss talking to them when my husband and I have a spat.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
21 Jan 13
sorry to hear that, I get that way alot here. As my son is in the usa and my dad as well. Have to stay busy so I dont feel sad. Thinking about you here. Take care..
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
21 Jan 13
I think you having this melancholy feeling because you are about to have a period.
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
It is but natural to be lonely with out your family who made you happy. Usually you will the loneliness when your alone for it is the only time when your mind is not busy. So why not make good of your time think of something that can make you busy even for a moment.
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
20 Jan 13
I'm not telling you to run back to him, but I think you miss your boyfriend. You have to work it out or move past it.
@Archie0 (5652)
21 Jan 13
I can understand your situation well, because these days even i am feeling a lot left out. I am being in depression for more than a week now and that has made me eat like a cow and sit on one place and work. This has made me more down as i can see my weight grow tremendously. I want to go out, work like others do. But i had left a job just 3 months back because i could not perform well there, i kept falling sick at work. And also developed a sever back pain. I don't know what to do. My situation has become pathetic now days.
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
21 Jan 13
Do what you are already doing. Come into myLot and start discussions or post response. After a while, you won't even think about loneliness anymore and you learn things and earn money. Isn't that the best of both worlds? If you miss your family, skype or viber them. Your home is you safest place. Don't think of it as a prison. It's your safe haven.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
20 Jan 13
It's pretty normal that we feel that way whenever we had a row with our loved ones. I don't really know the circumstances of your fight with Him but sometimes you guys need a but of space to think things through and calm down so the next time you guys talk it will be better.
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
20 Jan 13
You just need a serious rest. Just have a shower, put some music, and try to get a sleep. I hope tomorrow you will be fine, completely.
@ulan12rc (222)
• Qatar
20 Jan 13
If you are feeling this way because you are dealing with your problems regarding misunderstanding with your boyfriend it is understandable so why don't you make it up with him and finish your miseries, don't let distress stay over your body and mind, let your self be free of this discomfort so you can be happy and lively again.
• India
20 Jan 13
I think its the issue with your boyfriend is bothering you.Just relax and take your mind off it.May the next day everything will turn out to be ok.
@sneha12 (46)
• Nepal
21 Jan 13
Same here. Why this feelings comes again and again. No happiness. All the stuffs only gives sadness. All alone. Not any interest to read .Sitting and sparing this valuable time. I am upset with my self and the things around me.