Do you believe in superstitions?

United States
January 20, 2013 11:54am CST
When I was a child I was raised in a family that was very superstitious. Today as I think about it, I'm not sure how someone can truly believe the Bible and also believe in superstitions. Here are some of the things I was raised to believe. If you break a mirror you'll have seven years bad luck. If you wash clothes on new years day you'll be washing for the dead. Someone in the family will die.My dad believed if a screech owl perched in a tree near the house and screeched his call, there would be a death. A screech owls call is very eery but I like to hear it. If a dog howls on your front porch someone will die. Don't open an umbrella inside the house. If you go out one door come back in the same door. Don't come in one door and go out the other because it's bad luck. If you see a penny on heads pick it up. Tails is bad luck. Another thing my dad would do is if he saw a black cat cross the road ahead of him, he'd turn around and go the opposite direction. My husband will cross an x on the windshield. I told him that was only bad luck if the cat didn't get across the road fast enough. It would be bad luck for the cat. This is just a few of the superstitions. Have any of you fellow mylotters heard of any of these or are you superstitious? The bible says not to believe old wives tales and superstitions. I used to believe some of them, but not anymore. I think they're silly but some people find it hard to walk away from old traditions and sayings. What do you think?
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• Philippines
21 Jan 13
A lot of times I am superstitious like about the black cat but sometimes it's our faith that we should believe in more than the fear of superstitions. Some would say that there's no harm in believing but it's not good if this would affect your faith.
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• United States
8 Aug 18
My husband is superstitious about the black cat. It believes it to be bad luck if a black cat runs across the road in front of you. He will mark an X on the windshield. I always tell him that the only bad luck there is going to be is for the cat if he don't get across the road fast enough.
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
The Bible says we should not believe on these things. We should trust God instead and live by faith. God is not pleased when we don't trust Him.
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• United States
19 Jul 16
You are exactly right. The Bible says not to hold to old wives tales or superstitions. When I was a child I believed a lot of the superstitions, but that's how I was raised. When I got older and started really reading the Bible I learned better.
@dlr297 (5409)
• United States
20 Jan 13
I have heard most of the superstitions that you speak of but that is all they are.
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• United States
8 Aug 18
I totally agree. Superstitions are just that and hold no merit whatsoever.
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• United States
21 Jan 13
I come from a religious family but there are still some superstitions that they have. One similar to you New Years one is that it is bad luck to start the New Years with any dirty clothes in your house. I feel it is sometimes hard to get rid of superstitions that you have grown up believing in and seeing your parents believe in as well. Sometimes the superstitions become part of a countries culture and separating from them can feel like separating from culture for some.
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• United States
19 Jul 16
I agree. I have washed clothes on New Years and nothing has happened. If something is meant to happen it's going to happen regardless of what we do or don't do.
• United States
20 Jan 13
I too grew up in a home where my family was very superstitious. Like if you knock over the salt shaker you better hurry & throw some over your shoulder or you will have bad luck. Same as if you walk under a ladder or open an umbrella in the house. None of this is true. This is just something that our parent's parents did & so of course they passed it onto us. Just to prove my point I purposely did each one of these things just to prove that there is no such thing as bad luck. I've walked under a ladder, knocked over the salt shaker many times, owned a black cat for a few years, & even went so far as to open & close my umbrella inside the house more then once. Guess what? I've lived to tell the tale. Nothing bad happened to me or the ones I love. Bad things just sometimes happen to all sorts of people. It has nothing at all to do with luck, good or bad!
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• United States
19 Jul 16
You're right. Bad things happen to everyone at some point and many times our "bad luck" is because of bad decisions on our part.
• China
21 Jan 13
I kind of believe some of the superstitions, and I've heard many, besides the owl and the umbrella thing, since I live in a culture with many people believing in those sayings, too. Some of our townfolks even go to fortune-tellers for help when they are in trouble, to see whether things can be fixed or not, or whether they have a good outcome. As for my attitude, I'm holding in awe and veneration to those old sayings, since they are forebears' experiences and are passed down from generation to generation. There must be something worth respect. However, as many people say, if you believe it, you'd better observe the rules not to bring out bad fortune; if you don't, do whatever you want. So dear Sukeena, don't let it overcontrol your mind and behavior. Take it easy, life is under your control. Always. You can choose to live under it, or live with it. Good luck!:)
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• United States
19 Jul 16
I trust in my God not superstitions. I live by faith.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
17 Jan 16
For some reason I am superstitious only about a full moon - I do think it makes people a little crazy. But that is the only one, perhaps because I was raised to believe it to be true. Who knows!
• United States
8 Aug 18
I don't think that is a superstition. The moon controls the tides in the ocean and other things. Have you ever dug a hole and filled it back up and noticed that on occasion you will not have enough dirt to fill it back up and then on an occasion after you fill it back up you will have more dirt than you need? How sometimes when you cook rice you have to add water and other times you have plenty of water in your pot. That has a lot to do with the waning and waxing of the moon. I believe that the moon does have an effect on your emotions. It is worth research.
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
20 Jan 13
I do believe that there are superstitions all over the world, however, 90% of these so called superstitions are actual phenomena that do exist but science has no explanation for that.
• United States
24 Jan 13
I agree that there are superstitions all over the world, most cultural activity and traditions are based on superstitions. I don't know of any superstitions that are actual phenomena and I feel the reason that science has no explanation is because there is no supporting evidence to prove superstitions. Thanks for your comment.
@iuliuxd (4453)
• Romania
20 Jan 13
I have a charm i wear all the time and it brought me a lot of luck...it was bad luck but still luck. To answer your question, i don`t believe in superstitions.
• United States
8 Aug 18
Me either. I also don't believe in bad luck or good luck. I believe people make their own "luck" by the decisions they make and path they choose to take. Sometimes they are just in the wrong place at the wrong time.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
20 Jan 13
like they say, there is no harm in practicing most superstitions. It's been part of the culture but if u believe it may be the other way around, then I guess there is no harm in not doing so. ;-)
• United States
8 Aug 18
I guess if anyone wants to practice old superstitions that is totally up to them. My brother and sister is superstitious beyond belief. I just let them belief what they want.
@deazil (4730)
• United States
20 Jan 13
I don't believe in superstitions. A person doesn't die because a dog howled on somebody's porch, IMO. But for some people it's a way of life and a right to believe what you want. I respect that, just as it's my right to not give credence to superstitions. The scariest superstition I ever heard was from a friends' mother when I was a teenager. Her mother told her not to look in the mirror at night before she went to bed because it would allow the devil to come out of the mirror. I believe in the Bible to a certain point. I generally take things with a grain of salt.
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• United States
24 Jan 13
I am in agreement with you. I don't hold to none of the old superstitions, but there are many people that do and their lives revolve around these silly beliefs. You are right, however, people have a right to believe what they want. The reason I said what I did to my sister is that they got angry with me and said harsh things to me because I don't hold with those superstitions. They said I was mocking them because I was doing things they didn't believe in doing. I don't believe the thing with the devil in the mirror, but I do have a phobia against mirrors. There's no mirror in my house. Thank you for your response.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
20 Jan 13
I am not superstitious, and I don't believe in most superstitions. Although some superstitious beliefs that can be explained logically I give a chance just to be on the safe side. For example, the belief passed on by my grandma that one shouldn't sleep on a wet hair because it can cause blindness. When in fact sleeping on a wet hair can give you the chill, make your back wet thereby making you susceptible to colds. Like that.
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• United States
19 Jul 16
I don't know about that, because I wash my hair and go out in the cold with it wet and I go to bed with it wet and have never gotten sick because of it. I never dry my hair. I don't even own a hair dryer. I always let it dry naturally, even in the winter and always have.
• Philippines
21 Jan 13
Anything you believe and happened beyond logic is superstitious. I knew a little of some people beliefs and usually I do observed for it really happened but really not all. I don't know if it was only a coincidence. But nothing bad if sometimes we observed. In the first place, our very own observations of what might happened is still the best.
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
17 Jan 16
I am not superstitious but some old wives tales are spot on so I guess it depends.
• United States
8 Aug 18
I don't believe any of the old wives tales either. I believe that some of the old home remedies for certain ailments work, but as you say it depends.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
20 Jan 13
Good discussion you started since I have exactly the same question(s). I know all kind of believes and I can't understand how people who claim to believe in god can be supersticious but also have so less faith that everything will be fine, that they are seldom that shiny and happy. I also don't understand why many of them are so less active to change their life and just sit there and wait for better times. I also noticed that in cultures where religion was "introduced" later (Africa for example) the way people believe is way different from ours. Still they als have their old believes next to the new believe (being a christian or muslim). So they carry a lot of Lucky charms with them although they claim to be a christian or muslim. It all just doesn't make sense to me. I don't believe in the bible, it's a book written by human beings and also in the bible there are old traditions (not of this time anymore), is written in an old style (you have to read in between the lines) and there is plenty of supersticion in it. This besideds of the fact that many christions did introduce/took over habits of the earlier believes. I am not against it but do think everybody should be aware of that. The sober life of a christian has nothing to do with Santa Claus, a Christmas tree, the pope and all those expensive churches and statues of holy people. BTW I do think that a part of the "supersticions" are not supersticions at all but more "old wisedom" a part of it is true. But also church introduced a lot of "new" supersticions to keep the people live in fear and depend on the church. And what you hear as a kid turns into a kind of habit and you will raise your children exactly the same way, with the same behaviour or sayings.
• United States
19 Jul 16
I held to some of those old superstitions until I got old enough to know better. I feel the way you do. If anyone believes in God I don't know how they can be superstitious and if they have faith and trust in God they won't need lucky charms or talismans. Maybe that is why so many people have such "bad luck" (which I do not believe in). They put their trust in talismans, lucky charms, soothsayers and superstitions instead of God.