Missing my boyfriend alot
By Blondie2222
@Blondie2222 (28611)
United States
January 21, 2013 6:52pm CST
Today is one of those days where I'm missing my boyfriend alot. I just spent the night with him this weekend and yet I still miss him and it's only been a day. It's hard staying apart from him i can't wait until we get our own place. We are getting are own place next yr because I'll be done with my car payment july 2014 and then I'll have extra money in my pay so I can use it for rent etc. I get to see him in 2 more days and I can't wait. I am in love and it feels great. Our 2 yr anniversary is in March and I couldn't be happier. Have you ever felt like this before? Are you in love ?
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11 responses
@5mahi05 (666)
• India
22 Jan 13
Oh! Being in love is certainly one of the best things to be happening in one's life. I have been missing my boyfriend from past 9 months as he has been out of town for his work and he has been trying to come back, but he is stuck there with a lot of work to handle. I also am not being able to go there because of my work and days are running out so busy that we seldom speak to each other. It feels like hell to me without him around me and without seeing him and speaking to him.
Each passing day is like passing a year without him and he will be able to come back in march or april only. I am just losing my patience on this and I just can't wait for the time to come when he will be coming back. That will be the biggest day for me and there is no day that i don't cry missing him. Every moment i am thinking about him and I am all depressed without seeing him and being around him. he is also feeling the same, but this work is very important for our future and that is the reason we have to stay far for a while.
@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
22 Jan 13
I'm sorry you have to deal with that but he must feel lucky to have a girl stay by his side while he's doing his job and have to be gone for so long. Most girls can't stand to do this. My boyfriend and I only see each other 3 times a week sometimes 4. I like it this way because than we don't fight as much and we don't get sick of each other. We make things work and it's great.
@5mahi05 (666)
• India
22 Jan 13
A good relationship is all about understanding each other and standing by the side of each other in all times. I am by his side and it is not only me who is missing him. He is also missing me and the way I feel is mutual. It is all about having patience and for me, more than anything, even his memories will keep me going in my life. 
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
22 Jan 13
Yes, I think that the majority of us have felt that way when we are first in love with someone, or are starting to fall in love again. It really is an amazing feeling. It makes us feel so good about our life and we do miss that person when we apart. I know that when I was younger my boyfriend and I would talk for hours on or off the phone. We did not want to be apart at all. We would be very sad when we weren't able to spend time together.
Now we have been married for five years. We have a daughter and I still miss him when we are apart. We have our share of ups and downs but we continue to press through them.
@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
22 Jan 13
Yeah we both miss each other alot when were not together. We see each other 3 days a week right now sometimes more if we really miss each other. I don't want to be around him all the time because I don't want to get sick of him to easily. But we are going to have to get used to that sooner or later if were talking about moving in with each other. That's great you guys got married, we have been talking about marriage too I told him I want to wait a few more years on that. We have no kids right now but looking too in the next few years when were ready. Thanks for sharing
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
23 Jan 13
Yes you are passing a crucial period. Hope this black cloud will go and good time will come in your life. Have a very nice day.
@courtknee525 (3742)
• United States
23 Jan 13
I feel like this every day. My boyfriend is in the Army and is currently stationed in Korea. He left the beginning of October and I haven't been able to see him since then. Hopefully, he'll be coming home in May for my birthday. We've been together about 3 years and I find it very hard to be apart from him. Even before he left for the Army last year I would miss him as soon as I had to leave him for the night. I've never felt so attached to anyone before. He's my best friend and I miss him a lot when I'm not able to be around him.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
24 Jan 13
I have, but don't love blind you and the real world. I see this ever too often, I have done this as well. My friend is in this situation, meanwhile her fiance is off trying to get with her sister, and she blames her sister. It's so sad, seeing this sort of situation going on, and people are so stupid in love.
@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
25 Jan 13
I'm not stupid in love i don't let my relationship ruin my real life. We only see each other 3 times a week and those other times I either spend it by myself catching things up at home or with my best friends and I do see my family 2. He is close with my family also. I would never let love cause me to not see my friends or family I been in that situation before and will never again be in another one.
@celticeagle (167429)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Jan 13
You still have time to see if living with him is really what you want. Sometimes those things change. You will have time to get to know him better. That is great!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
That clearly shows that absence make the heart grow fonder. And I think that is pretty normal most especially that you are just together on your second year.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
22 Jan 13
Well i really have to say miss someone is so painful for me.Though i'm now not in love but i do hope that i can meet a guy who can make me thinking of good times all the time and sweet moments we had,anyway,go and meet him when the time you really missed alot.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
22 Jan 13
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, your topic clearly shows how much you miss your boy friend. Don't worry, wish you to see him soon. I am already married and living with my wife and kids.
@Yllibeam15 (37)
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
Wow! that's what I'm actually feeling right now. I also miss my boyfriend so much, even if he was just with me last night. Having the people we really love with us is simply the best and the sweetest thing ever! Nothing could be more special than that. :) I am inlove too. Just way too much inlove with the person I am with now. Well, stay inlove! :)
