Marriage life

@nithila30 (1423)
India
January 22, 2013 1:24am CST
Do you all think that after marriage we lose our identity,I am a music lover i dont have time to listen nowadays as busy with kids etc.,When i sit and think about my interests my mind sounds completely blank after years of marriage.Just running to office ,cooking takeing care of kids hmmmmmm.........after kids gets grown up now feeling to do something intersting.Friends have you faced such situation.
5 responses
Jenny1015
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
Sometimes, I do think that marriage life have pulled me down in a way, coz I was not able to pursue a career. I was literally tied up in being a wife and a mother. I do not however, feel safe to leave the family under the care of a helper. But I wish that I could somehow make a career soon.
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math21
@math21 (184)
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
Just simply look at the brighter side, you have a lot of time with your family more than a career women do. Don't be sad, you can do business to do something else while taking care of your family, that's a career too.
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nithila30
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
22 Jan 13
Jenny we lost our career ,but we are creating a career for our kids and husband.So we canfeel happy in that way
math21
@math21 (184)
• Philippines
22 Jan 13
Its because you have to spend more of your time with your family but it doesn't mean you have lose your identity. Its still you, you haven't change what you like. Just try to find some time to do your interest in life but most especially enjoy your marriage life.
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nithila30
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
22 Jan 13
Yeah very true .......I will soon find a way out of it.Ofcourse i am enjoying my marriage life no douts in it.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
23 Jan 13
I have been married for almost 3 years and I haven't lost myself yet and who I am. I do the same things I use to do before the my two kids where born I just do it when they are a sleep.
summer0614
@summer0614 (334)
• China
22 Jan 13
I was told about that kind of life before I got married.So this is why I still do not want to be pregnant.My workmates who already have children often told me that they regret of giving birth to the baby just a few months after they got married.The life with babies seems so busy an tired and they nearly have no time to do their own things.So my husband and I decided to live the happy two world at present,and if we have already prepared to welcome the busy life,we will take pregnant into consideration.
rhoiena
@rhoiena (109)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
Why don't you introduce music to your kids. It's a nice bonding.
PhilipGeorge
@PhilipGeorge (103)
• India
28 Mar 13
Children to children tastes will be different. I have childhood friends who never liked music. You should find the child's taste and try accordingly.