Three types of people related to tension
By binaybbsr1
@binaybbsr1 (375)
India
January 22, 2013 10:06am CST
I find three types of people related to tension in life.
First one : The type, who has made his/her life to such a position that he/she has no more expectation or in other words, these types of persons has surrendered with their present situation. So till they feel that they have nothing more to expect, they have no tension at all. It happens mostly within family, when one partner is living may be against his/her will and do not want to think more on this topic.
Second one: This type of persons are busy to safe guard their image and wealth in particular. Due to some elements, their image and wealth are in danger and they get tensed. Mostly these types of persons are loyal in nature and trust worthy too.
Third one: This type of persons has always a mentality to acquire other property or even acquire profit out of other's image. Their main tension is to manipulate people for their own interest. These types of persons always shows as if they are not in good position and always cry in front of others, just to catch everything they get out of sympathy. This type of persons are very dangerous and can go to any extend. They are only loyal to themselves, not even to their family.
Please add your views too. Thank you.
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@Carolyn63 (1403)
• United States
24 Jan 13
Hmmmmm, very interesting. I do have trouble placing myself into one of these categories though. What causes tension for me is immediate issues. I believe that there is always hope and by making needed changes one can prevent many worries. I believe that the past does play a factor. For example, having gone without before, when there isn't certain amounts of food in the home, I get ansty and seem to get cravings. I don't have the desire to be wealthy to the point that I can just up and jump on a plane and go anywhere. I'm happy to make ends meet and have a few dollars to go out to eat now and again. I have no desire to be famous. I don't want that headache. My values and ideals are no more or less important than any one elses and I know I don't have to agree with them. I am equally happy sitting out in the yard and watching the squirrells play as I am spending time with my family and friends. If someone doesn't like me, that's fine.
By immediate issues, I mean if I have a concern about making ends meet. It happens. In business there are prosperous times and slow times. Starting in the hole, or things getting tight may put pressure on me, but it doesn't keep me from moving forward.
I'm open minded. I acknowledge the negative and look for the positive. I'm stubborn but tenacious. I'm opinionated. I can also be quite shy. I'm over sensitive at times. I don't put myself first, but I don't put myself last either. I strive for balance.
This being said, I can easily see that I know people that fit into each of these categories.
And I would admit at different times of my life I'd have fit into each of them.
@binaybbsr1 (375)
• India
24 Jan 13
lol ... u ve everything what others ve. But it seems u r lacking tension. I get tensed when something happens related to tarnishing my image. Again I am not money minded and more over love to live down to earth. I dont want to be special or famous as u said, but i love to be important for my near and dear.
@Carolyn63 (1403)
• United States
24 Jan 13
Oh sweetie, we are always important to those near and dear. Just not neccessarily in the way we imagine we should be.
My image isn't spotless. Even to those near and dear. But for each, the image is different. Some see me as fearless. Some as approachable. Some as tenacious. Some as strong of charachter. The main thing is they love and accept me and I am able to be myself. You can not be all things to all people. I already hold your honesty endearing. That is but a small part of you and I already see it. How can those whom know you not celebrate even more aspects?
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
24 Jan 13
Another good thought provocative discussion Binay
Guess i belong to first category; i feel fully contented in all respects; i have houses of my own, enough money from regular savings, very good friend circle, the government of Orissa gives me a pension of over 30k per month for the service i rendered staring as lecturer and retired as Principal.
my advise, take life easy, work hard, leave rest to god.
@binaybbsr1 (375)
• India
24 Jan 13
Your last line very encouraging Sir, still some actions in our life are related to our nature only, this is what i guess.
