Letting Go on Someone You Love...

Hello. Well I think this something everybody knows. However, when you are in love everything changes. I am very sure that your philosophy will change if you fall in love again.. But one should always remember that one should love unconditionally. If the person you love will be happier without you then I think it is best for that person that you let him/her go. At least this is what I feel. Have a nice day !! SuperShames

Letting go is a hard thing. I once did that in name of love, but now, years later I doubt this was a good thing. I think if you want something you need to fight for it first so at least you can say you did. But yes there are cases it's useless to fight for, if that person is not loving you. But there are also plenty of other reasons why you let go, it's not Always because that other person is not loving you. It's also not about going on because there are plenty of men in this world. You have to go on because you own it to you. Because these experiences should make us stronger, wiser, make us learn ourself and be proud of ourself. Because we survived, because we did things we never did we were able to do. I hope you will "force" yourself to go on and not look back at those years one day and see them as a waste of your good years/life.

That's true, you are right! It is really hard. But I think when we have to let go and it wasn't meant to be we actually get over because the right person will be in our life one day and nothing can stop that. Real love is to let go but also destiny always will bring the right person to us, and that means the one that of course we'll love but will also challenge us to be better people. Now the person we think it's best for us but the one that truly is. Happy MyLotting dear!

I have been through that situation. But I think it hurts more when both of you are still very much in love with each but you could not go on with the relationship because of some personal issues... That almost drove me insane! The pain was so intense, I though that it would never end. But time does help to clear our thoughts. Well, I have not completely forgotten about the person. I think that the person will always have a special spot in my heart.

Most of the time when were in love we usually focus only to our feelings without thinking of anything else. When our heart broken and deeply hurt we only think about the pain without think the possible reason why we got hurt. I've been in this situation like you before I wasted my time thinking about the past love and pain that he caused to me until one day I realized that there's a lot of things to do in my life and i can be happy even without him. I hard to love someone who does not love you anymore letting him go is the only way to free your self from pain and loneliness. Letting go someone we love is the sign of new beginning of the journey of life and hoping that one day you will find some who will live you and never break you heart again.

Yes falling easy is very easy. I also give everything I can when it comes to love. Letting go is not at all easy and I myself have tried to do many times. Logically it seems like you are wasting your time when you are chasing after someone, but your heart tells you otherwise. Love is very powerful.

yes, it is quite difficult to let go of someone we have learned to be with and thought of spending the rest of our lives with. it is indeed very difficult. but life does not end there when it happens. it is very good to have friends and family members who provide support when one needs the support. i like the positive mentality of letting go, but i do not like the fishing expedition. love is not like that.

ok i agree

Letting go is just another way to say how much you love the person you loved so much (from the song lyric "letting go is just another way to I always love you so" ) It's kind of unconditional love that is hard to understand, because there unspeakable feeling that only heart can understand. Some feelings that no word is enough to define. Letting go of someone is giving way for the right one to come along. So many definition, so many meaning- because love moves in mysterious ways.

a pleasant day to you xuy2xfreak88, with regard to your post, well, before i find it quite hard to let go especially if i really loved the guy. but slowly i realized, that it is a must or else your would cannot be healed. as moving on to another life will somehow be difficult if i would not let go of my feelings. so i guess, letting go is a part of moving on.

It's tough to let go of the people we love. There are times that people should be let go... or just let them go away. It depends on the reason. I think it's wrong to give all and everything to one person. The devastating heart break it leaves when the relationship with that person goes bad, it's awful. Falling in love can make people do foolish things, it eludes judgment and the heart doesn't listen to the mind sometimes. People are blinded by this so called love. However, there are many kinds of love. This is not the only kind of love people experience.

Being in love isn't just emotions or feelings, true love is commitment, loyalty, faithfulness. Yes, if there is commitment and good communication, there is control. I met a man who was once contemplating separating and divorcing his wife. They decided to really have a serious talk about where they really wanted to go in their relationship and in their individual lives. They both decided that their marriage was worth saving. So, they didn't just 'blow with the wind' they had a good talk and discussed their relationship and their feelings together. Also, this man said, 'What was the point of divorcing my wife and then, remarrying someone new? Because half of the problems of my first marriage would be half of the problems of my second marriage.' He decided to work on improving his own problems with his first marriage, and thus, his marriage greatly improved. His wife changed for the better as well. They became like two love birds. I just thought that this couple showed a good example of how to control and improve love. They both look at how they can be more caring and loving towards the other person. Then they fell in love, even more so than when they were first in love. It was a deeper and more profound love. True love is about deeply caring about the special person in your life.

achh..explore more? what we have to explore? it's kind a research team that need something to explore .. hahaha.. but you right, if there's no hope or the reaction you read is not like what you hope better stay away slowly but it's better to keep the relation even as a friend, may be someday will be good friend. We try is good enough as long as we have got good responds from other side.

I hate hearing that "there's more fish in the sea" crap. You know there are other guys, but some of us have a set of standards for the guys we want. We don't just want any guy, we want the perfect one. That's why we're so much more broken-hearted when we lose someone: because we think we've found them only to find they were in fact not what we had hoped for.

Yes that is right. You have to let go of some people in your life. It will make you better. Some people are not meant to be in our lives. Pray for the right person to be with you and surely it will not go wrong.