When your life down,what will you do?

I stay my room and cried all day.

Yeah it is important that we are calm and collective when things happen in our life. After all if we get to upset or over react then it will cause us problems. Not only will it cause us problems but problems for others as well. It's hard to do but we can work at it.

i am not mature at all when things happen. i get in a bad mood. the world seems like it is coming to an end. i am already introverted, but i become even more so. i lash out and take things out on everybody. that's just me.

When I was down, the first thing I might want to do just lock myself up in my room, watching TV, and doing things online. Not shopping though, that is not a wise way to settle down yourself. When I got tired, I might go on to my bed to have a long hours sleep. When I get up again, I might feel refresh again. Although the thought of depression might still exist, but I would feel much better after that.

When I have problems I lift them to God at night and when new day comes I have strength to solve this problem and face it. I think it's kind of maturity already. I know some people who would just go out and don't want to talk about problems and that is immaturity.

when i am so down , sometimes i am stying in my room for the whole day. or else i will go out and go nice restaurant and spend time there or going mall fro shopping.also i am going to my family and i will share me feeling to my family,tell them how i feel,and i will accept the fact that life and family just come once, i do not miss my changes show my affection to my family and get their affection. i will accept the fact that no one can bring my past back to you or send back into your the past. because you cannot change what has been done. it is very hard to forget the past , but you have to put it behind you and start thinking about a new beginning fro your life.

yeah sometimes itis difficult to accept when things happen agaibst our plans but how we react and how we face them is what makes it different and it can be what will bring us to success. for me it has happened alright but i kbow i should learn from it and do better nect time.

Hello, I am already old but I am not so sure ifI am mature, because at my worst condition, sick and poor I doubt to God. I tried to correct everything I believe even I thought I will die as one of unbeliever, I don't care. But lately I saw Obama sworn as US prsident for the second time at his last sentence said :"so, God help me" make me rethink again why should this bad fate down me ? means that even I fall deeper and deeper again.... (hahahahaha I am sorry I feel something funny)

I have been through the most down moment in my life. I was emotionally and financially broke- but I never lost hope of give up life. I have learned to mellow and accept things. Acceptance is the best weapon to make things easier and lighter. Learning to accept failure, mistake and unfortunate things gives you more positive things - what to do next and how to start all over again. From those experiences, I have learned that life is fair- if we know how to accept things whether it is good or bad. If we know how to accept and say thanks for all the blessings- we should learn to say thanks for every trials and trouble that comes our way.

Everybody would go through down time and what we need is to have enough faith for you,to keep going and things would be alright.Maybe after very long time,when you look back and you will find that it's not biggie at that time.Have a nice time.

I am not good in dealing not so good things. I usually get so depressed that I just stay in bed and sleep hoping in my subconcious mind that things will be better when I wake up. I try to sleep too because it is my way of trying to forget not the problem but the hurt feelings that I do get. That is why I try not to feel sad or down. I try to think positively. As to you, I am proud of the people who can voice out their feelings.

hmmm If i am down I am just quiet. and like a sick child my sisters would know that something not good just happened to me somewhere.. LOL. so..they will keep quiet too.. but after awhile I will be back to noisy me.. at least at home. Sometimes I just need a quiet time. No one asks i just volunteer telling them the story after.

I was wondering, how is it to be matured in such situation? I wish I could but I think I can't...hehehe confusing! ;) When I'm down and troubled usually I went to a saloon or spa and will spend my whole day out there for relaxation,it's my best remedy lols!

This phase i mean down times are perhaps a reality in everyone's life. But the way we react varies from person to person. Though it may be related to maturity, still i feel its more and more related to your way of life, surrounding etc. But the best part is that you yourself must understand that in this time there is ample chance that you will definitely behave in wrong manner. So it is wise to introspect your state of mind and stay with your very near and dear. If this problem lasts for some days, the best practice would be to discover your hobbies; let it be painting, photography, surfing etc. and keep yourself busy in these hobbies. You will find after some good hours you have created a masterpiece even in down hours. Cheer!

Well, I mostly handle it alone. I would go to my room, cry my eyes out and probably feel sorry for myself. After that, once I have poured up my pent up emotions, I will be fine and composed. I am ready to have some sensible conversations without being emotional.

I just talk to myself:things would be fine,everything is gonna be alright.