Its not wrong to change if it is for the better.....c",)
By ardoy0731
@ardoy0731 (7308)
Philippines
January 23, 2013 4:29am CST
People do change, done changes in their lives and wanted to change something in their lives.
Some bad turn into good and sad to say that some good turn into bad.
We always wanted to have changes and to change something in our lives. Some people change for the sake of other people or influence by other people. Some do change by the society or environment they are moving in. Some do changes in their live for theirselves, to please other and even to adjust in the society they are living in.
There is nothing wrong to change or to change something as long as its for the betterment of other people, of something and of course ourselves. As long as the changes that has done or wanted to be done will cause no harm to other people around and will result into something better in the end.
We always have the chances and choices to change into a better individuals, its just up to us and our willingness to do it. 
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10 responses
@priyaxxx85 (108)
• India
3 Mar 13
We all should change but for the better. At times we do change ourselves for the sake of our loved ones, but it's always worth it. Change is the law of nature and we all must comply with it. Change can be initially scary but it gives good results.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
Amen to that! Change is inevitable. But we should always strive to make things better not only for us, but for everybody else around us.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
Yeah lets make changes for the better not only for ourselves but for other people as well. We should be open minded for changes in our life but it should be for better and beneficial to all. Changes should be done responsibly and right.
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
Well as what I have read, there is nothing constant in this world except change. Everything changes as time passes by. What is important however that if we have to change as a person, it has to be something for the better and not for the worst. There are so many things that influence our lives and this surely will create an impact on the things we do, the things we decide and will usually make or break us as a person. So whatever it may be, the best thing is to change for the better and for improvement not only for ourselves but to others as well.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
Yeah it is important that the changes that we made and we will make will be for the betterment not only for ourselves but for the people around us as well. We should be selfish by thinking about ourselves but we have to consider the people around us.Some do change just for themselves without thinking that it might affect something bad to other people.
Lets all change into a better individuals even in simplest way we can.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
As they say, nothing's permanent in this world except change! I think all of us here have experienced a lot of changes in our lives, whether we want it or not, we definitely change because of the situations that are happening around. We need to be strong and e need to change to cope up with the environment we are living and to survive.
Changing for the better is the best thing that we can do and can contribute a lot for the betterment of the society we are living it. Changes should start with us. We can't change people around us, but surely we can change ourselves.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
Yeah change is not permanent in this world.There are lots of factors around us that might influence us to change whether into better or worse it is still us who will decide what change we will take.We always have the final decision on which change we will take but we really have to make sure that it will be for the betterment of ourselves, people around us and to the society we are living in.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
23 Jan 13
I think it is a great thing when a person changes for the better. So many people aren't willing to change that it's nice to see people change to better themselves in their life. I know that I'm always looking for ways to improve my life. I enjoy those types of things because I know it's beneficial.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
It can be consider as achievement if as person change for the better.
Nice to know that you are looking forward to do change that might improve your life.What a nice way to enjoy life that you have.
We have to be open into changes as long as it is for the better and improvement or ourselves and other people around us.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
23 Jan 13
Change is good and there is nothing constant but the change itself. Change is challenging... change can be worthy sometimes not at all. but hey that's change and we always want to drop the monotony of circumstances. I like change for I can explore and learn more.. Change is breaking the routine. Change may be a success or a failure. Change is going out of the box.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
Changes might result into different ways and aspects but we have to make sure that it will be for the better and not into something worse.There are lots of changes happening around from simplest to grandest.Some do change so easy and some are having a hard time as well.There should be willingness to a person do a change .
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
Everyone has all the right to change, hopefully for good reason.
But- sad to say some good people changed and turn bad(due to circumstances beyond control)
I myself saw a lot of changes in me.
I am once a very emotional person who cry with simple things-too soft for sad things.
Till the day I experienced the most downfall anyone could ever imagine.
I have learned that- no one can help yourself but You alone.
That no matter how much people around you will lend a helping hand if you will not help yourself- then it would be useless.
That also help me understand why some people feel so helpless and alone- not because no one is there to help them, but because they don't know how to help their selves.
To change for the better you- it's one of the greatest achievement that anyone can be proud of.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
Good thing that it seems that you change into a better and strong person now.We really have to change into something better but sad to say that there are some who change into something bad that affect and harm other people.People like then should have realization on things that they did to other that cause harm and sadness.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
I absolutely agree with you.
They also say that we must not try to change someone and just accept them for whoever/whatever they are. But that's wrong... because that will always depend on whatever kind of person s/he is. If something is wrong with his/her personality then it is just right to let him/her know about his flaws.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
Telling other people bad things about them or about what they are doing could help help them to change into something better but the person still have the decision and willingness if they will change for the better or just stick on what their are believing into.
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
23 Jan 13
That's true but even if something goes wrong with the changes we made, we should learn from it and do our best to make things better and it's still a winning moment.
Life is always moving forward so we must accept the changes and do our best to accommodate with the changes.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
24 Jan 13
Learning from the changes that we made is important cause there are changes that we made cause quite not good so we better learn from it and realize to change it into something better and nice.We have to accept the changes around us as long as its is for the betterment and cause no harm to us and to other people around us.
