There is no medicine for insecurities

feeling insecure is normal like the rest of the emotions that a normal human feels. Thats why people seek strong emotional security, thats why we have our expectations. If we do not feel this, how are we differ from a dog?

yes, insecurities are something that can not be cured by any medicine, however, there are natural remedies for this. hmmmm.... let say, putting on make up and feeling beautiful and good. There are instances when woman just needs some commendations or appreciations from the family or friends. Putting her down such telling "Oh my what happen to you, you gained weight" will put her more in insecurities. Natural remedies come from the woman's perspective and inner thoughts. If the woman will keep on putting herself down.. then insecurity will maker her a home. Insecurities however not an inborn thing to women. Sorry to disagree to you in that manner, rather it is brought about by the people around her while she is growing up. A young girl always teased and call in different nasty words may eventually become an insecure woman when she grows up.

That is true... Unless a person learns to work thru them, there is no cure. You can try and help them and offer them some advice, and show them what they need to do, or help them to acheive their goals dreams and desires, but until they learn to do it on their own there is no real help.

Men can be as equally as insecure as women, it is not gender based. I don't think anyone is born being insecure, it's what you learn from life, your family, your environment etc.

Everyone is insecure. Guys show insecurity differently. We tend to boast about things we have done, or we act aggressively to cover our insecurity. But yes, we're all insecure. Part of the fall in the garden of Eden I think.

hi, i will agree with you that no medicine for insecurities,because it is an attitude or a natural character especially for women and now a days even men also have this,they will only avoid it but its hard for them to do it,only discipline their self is the answer.

Well it could also happen to men. And yes, you are right. there is no medicine to cure insecurities. Only yourself could ever help from being insecure. Believe in oneself. That is the key!

I've been to that situation somehow, somewhere in my life. Especially during the times where I felt like I was all alone. But it was actually just like a coincidence that my friends were not available and got busy with their own lives so I never got to have confidant to share my lovelife problem with then. My boyfriend in the past cheated on me and even left me with "below the belt" statements which made me feel insecure about myself. I really lost my self-confidence that time. But later, I realized that it was not my mistake why my ex left me. It was because he is really a womanizer. I am just thankful that I regained my self-respect and self-confidence, though it took me long, but at least I returned to my own self after that.

I think so. A lot of women are insecure of themselves and so envious too. I think it is really the nature of women. And they love to gossip too because of their insecurities. The strength of women is their patience and multi tasking. Some are kind hearted too.

indeed insecurities are existing with most of women. so they need protect theirself carefuly.