Mother and daughter quarreled

Now it is very usual, quarrel with parents and children. Sometime parents are culprits and vice versa and I felt both are really a sad situation. A father beat his 21 years old son for a simple reason. Not talked with his son for days and not wished on his birthday. I think parents must show some more patience in case of adult children.

Children nowadays specially teens is now heading in a wrong way and that is so sad to say that it's a fact. Parent's should always be prepared for everything.

It's disheartening to hear such incidents. How children treat and threat their parents like that. I have read and heard that -no matter how bad our parents are we should not treat them bad. The fact that they took care of us is enough reason to be grateful. Although it is a common knowledge that there are parents who really are bad and we cannot blame other children for hating their parents. But for other kids who hate their parents for simple reason- they s*ckz.

there are reasons why a child would be able to feel or treat her own mother that way, sometimes how a child reacts or feels for her parents or mother is rooted or based on how a mother treats them as well, it could be that the mother has done something bad or rude to the child too that trigger such a behavior towards her. why else could her daughter feel such anger, it is impossible that there is no reason for it. how we love, treat and respect our children will get back to us in return.

Hi, It is very strange that the daughter is going to kill her mother. Is that daughter is mentally ill? It is very dangerous for her mother. Do this scene happens daily? They behave with you arrogantly because they don't have peaceful life even if they are rich.

Hi friend, sad to hear about this, i wonder why the daughter is doing such kind of unwanted things to her mother? she don't know about the pains and vain in the motherhood, she will realize her mistake after giving birth to her kid and facing the same situation in her life, surely she will feel a lot for her activity, but at that time, her mother will be not in her side to forgive her for her mistakes

Many of the kids of today have not a bit of respect for their parents. I truly blame it on the parents though. They give everything to the child while they are growing up to make them happy. There are alot of parents that just want their kids to be their friend and they don't act like a parent to their children. Then when they become eighteen or older they think they rule their parents and still want want want from them. Once the parent says "NO" then the child rebels against them. How terrifying for a parent to be afraid of their children especially a daughter.

Hiya Akamarukei, Once we had to separate a daughter who was beating her mother up next door. It was not nice to see either. Whether she might have killed her or not we don´t know because we heard her cries for help and we forced the Door open of their house as she was hitting very hard. Things like this happened before but this time the daughter was out of her mind almost.

It is just but normal for a child to argue with the mother. Provided, that when she do so, she still have the respect that should be given the mother. But from what you have told us, i can say that the daughter has gone too far, by breaking some glasses and threatening to kill her mother. Though, we don't know what angered the daughter to her mother, but still as the daughter we shouldn't be threatening our mother like that. Poor mother ! If i were the mother, i would surely report the incident to the police.

It makes my blood boil to witness disrespect among young people and their elders. What this world has become is getting more feared when children have not learned anything but what they can get away with. Many believe the world owes them a living and they believe their parents owe them. Their parents do not owe them anything. Their parents most likely never taught them right from wrong and now are paying dearly for the mistake.

I wonder what is the age of this daughter? No matter what happens,daughter should never threaten to kill her mother,and how poor this mother is,have such a abnormal daughter.

There may be different reasons for the quarrel between them but no reason is strong enough to disrespect her mother like that. I think that's the culture thing which parents passes to their children and in this case its the fault of parents which failed to prevent their culture. If a person can't show respect to her parents then what you expect from her. A kid gets one kind of education from the school and the other kind of education like respect, manners, norms, beliefs, etc from the parents. So I don't know about her school education but her parents certainly failed in giving her other kind of education.

It's so unfortunate that children even have the audacity to speak like that to their own mother, let alone threaten to kill her. No matter what, we need to remember she is still a child and the mother should take her threats very seriously and contact the police and get her some therapy ASAP! Tough love for this teenager will hopefully do some good!

Nobody taught us to be parents, its a difficult situation. The mother should not expect a child to do something on its own, the mother is the adult and who should set the rules

Quarrels between members of the household are not any way unusual or extraordinary.In a frenzy the agitating members use foul language and try even to beat up each other. Extreme caution should be taken not to worsen the condition.Quarrels are to be treated as just commonplace and silly events within the family.

How could that daughter misbehave that way!That daughter has to wait till history repeats itself. For sure when it is her time to be a mother, her daughter will do just the same thing on her or perhaps even worse. God has a way of punishing people who misbehave so I am pretty sure that daughter can't run away unpunished. Parents have to be respected no matter what. They may not be correct all the time but they deserve to be respected in whatever circumstances. It is wrong to fight with them. We should keep the respect on our parents if we want our life to be blessed.

That was disrespectful of the daughter. She should have just talked to her mother in a more civilized way than shouting at her and threatening to kill her. The neighbors can sue the daughter for being disrespectful of the people around her as well.

hi AKA, Me and my mom are not perfect we have misunderstanding but I never come to the point that I think,hurt or threaten her in any possible ways. Even how bad I felt. happy mylotting

Children today are so stuborn & rude but we cannot blame them. It is parents responsibility to teach their children good manners and right coduct. I believe if parents spend more time to be with their children they will instill the right manners to them. So what ever a child's personality is because of how the parents guide them.

Oh my, seriously? If I'm the one who did that to my own mother I would have been bleeding my butt off now for all the spanking that she will give me. Yes, even if we were grown ups, my mom thinks we still deserve some scolding or spanking especially if we did the offense in her own house. And even if we did disrespect her in our own house (which will never happen of course), we are still going to get in so much trouble with her. That is how much we fear and respect our mom. It is sad that kids nowadays have gotten so spoiled that they no longer see their parents as an authority figure. Our parents may not grace the from covers of "great parenthood", but they are still our parents. For all the wrong things that they have done, they must have done something right with us because we are all here now, people who have such good ideas and opinions and very good in expressing ourselves.