Hows you dealt with angry Wives...???

Stop making them angry, that is the only thing someone can do. Once a woman is angry there is nothing you can do to calm them down...unless you have a credit card without limit on spending.

Soooo, what are you going to do if you get angry with your wife? The best thing to do if a married couple are really upset and angry with each other is to walk it off - in other words, take a walk to cool off. Rather than fight with each other or say something you might later regret. This is what my husband and I do, we take time to cool off - and it does work. We are still happily married after 26 years. We set some ground rules on arguing with each other when we first got married. It may sound silly but parents make ground rules with their children. Schools, libraries and recreational parks have ground rules. So why not in a marriage? We agreed that we would never personally attack each other. We could say: 'that is a stupid idea' but NEVER say, 'you are stupid' We don't go to bed angry - sometimes we had to stay up all night talking and discussing to finally come to a mutual understanding and appreciation for one another but we make a rule - don't go to bed angry. Sometimes if we are really upset with the other, we will write to each other or just write a letter and sometimes, not even let the other read it. It helps to get out our frustrations without attacking the other spouse. We know neither one is perfect and we also know that we ourselves are not perfect but together we are each others' better half. So, it is very good that you are willing to learn from other marriages. Be sure to focus on being a good, loving, faithful, devoted, caring husband. And then, you have a better chance on finding a wonderful, sweet, caring, faithful wife. All the best to you.

you got to have patience... you cannot fight fire with fire so somehow one must be patient enough to let down their pride..

Well, in my case if i am angry, my husband should just listen to what i am saying. He should not meet my anger, lest it will escalate. Speaking calmly to me and explaining things in a calm manner would decrease my anger. Also a hug would help also.

i got angry with my hubby easily. and when am angry, he just let me nag at him till i get tired. cause he knows that if we're both on fire(hot tempered) it's really a big clash between the two of us... and if am already calm that's the time that he's going to talk to me to settle things that what makes me angry to him...

Hello Tushavi! It really depends on what the wife is angry about. If you have done something wrong, then she has every right to be angry with you. If it is for something silly then just be nice and try to talk it out. I think the best thing to do is NOT tell her to calm down haha seriously. Happy MyLotting. ~AussieGal~

Angry wife or angry husband whatsoever. How to deal with them? Simple. As you said, in your case if your wife is angry you will give her a chance to calm then you will talk to her. That's good. You can't be both angry lest you hurt each other and end up separated or divorce. I know it is very easy to be provoked if you hear your partner angry, nagging and spewing out bad words but always remember to hold your peace. Remember this....Even a fool when he holds his peace is counted wise. King Solomom, the wisest man who ever live said that in Provers 17:28. He also said in Provers 15:1 says, A soft answer turns away wrath but harsh words stir up anger. So if the wife is angry the husband should avoid answering back in harsh words. Better to seal his lips first, be calm to avoid aggravating the situation. Also it is important to settle the issue not just the anger. Why is the wife angry? There must be reason. Give her time to calm down first. It is better not to speak till the heat of anger passes by. Then sit down and discuss the issue to make solutions to avoid repeating things that make her angry. It is important to talk things in a more diplomatic way. No angry words, no bad words. This goes true if it is the husband who is angry. We can avoid divorce if we know how to deal with anger.

Having disagreement in a marriage is a normal thing. But it can be resolve in a calm way if both know how to give way to each other. My parents never fight, though we hear our mom nags our dad but our dad never talks back. That way- there'll be no fighting or screaming. Most of the time our dad stay calm and never talks back- he waited for our mom to calm down and then our dad talks with her.

We have a saying in our culture that even the tongue gets bitten so a husband and wife who live together under one roof would definitely get into each other's way and fight. It's inevitable. So each party needs to compromise. Fire with fire will make a bigger fire. Fire must be paired with water so that when one gets firey, the water will cool it down.

It's really different seeing a couple fighting from afar than you involved with a fight with a wife. Coz I know that no matter how much a husband would just want to shut up when hid wife starts yapping, still the husband will be yelling at the wife at the same time. I just hope that when you do get married, you'd give that yapping time to your wife and then try to voice out your side after.

practically I don't be angry too. I will try to listen to all her words. I will do all her favors. after that, when she has been calm down, then I'll ask what it is all about. sometimes communicating with wife is not easy. But that's the art of marriage :)

Well this is really a good question cuz it's normal to see,i will wait until she gets calm down and then we have a talk,people easialy get angered if you try to talk even their mood is not good.So patience i think.That would work for most people.

Never fight back that's it, neither wife or husband should learn how to control themselves when there is misunderstanding. Remember to let the mood surpass if the other half is angry because if you go on in that situation it will lead to arguments for sure. Be calm when the other is not...

dear, although i have not been married, i want to share with you some of my points.after being with my boyfriend, i found that men and women always think in different ways. Most women seem quite sensitive for words and attitude,but men care more about the matters. so for women, the right way to avoid argument is to understand her feeling and communicate with them in the way they like.that's the key part, i think. hope you will have happy marriage in the future.

Pretend you didnt know she is angry. She will automatically stop her anger when she gets no response.

It was an angry husband, and i ended up getting a divorce.