do you konw this feeling of live in others' house
By Zoe520
@Zoe520 (61)
China
January 25, 2013 2:10am CST
i need to earn more money ,i want a beautiful house not big only comfortable ,i feeling lonely live in others' house ,he is my uncle and he have a son-my younger brother,he is verrrrrrrry naughty and always quarrel with his parents, i don't like this family atmosphere , i always feeling lonely,but i don't know how to do~ i just graguated from college,i have no stable work now .. and i earn little money that can't meet my expenditure~~~so there are no other ways just hard-working .i believe that i will have my own house in the future ,so fighting ~~~
4 responses
@jirojoyman (458)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 13
i know how you feel and what you feel.you need to grow apart from them. so keep fight and you can achieve your dream yau will have your dream house even if it's not big but it's your own house and it can be your paradise.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
25 Jan 13
Sometimes we need to cut off people in our lives if they're not doing us any good anymore. And yep, it's sad to say, even family belongs to that. But Before you make a decision, try to prepare yourself first, don't do drastic things unless you are ready to face the consequences for it. Good luck! You can do it. ![](/Content/images/emotes/happy.gif)
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@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
25 Jan 13
Keep up the fight you will get your new home one day with hard work and saving money. I have lived with close friends and family and hated it. I loved them but it was always their home and I didn't have a say in anything. I'm very happy to be in the little apartment I have now because I am the boss...lol...
@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
I understand this feeling, this is pretty common most especially to those who are fresh graduates… sometimes you feel that you need to take in responsibilities and you feel awkward that still you are living with your parents and at the same time they are filling up your needs.
In my take, I shouldn’t feel worried about setting in my own space because I’d like to take time that it will transition from a newbie in the real world, to become a responsible individual. One should also remember to cherish the moments you have with your family since you are still living with them, because once you get your own space, you will feel the need of having them around.
Though having your own home does puts you to a more independent individual, still I like living with my family because I feel more secure and they can help me in times of problems. It will also strengthens our bond as a family.
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