Betrayal of your loved one

Such people are not genuine with the relationship most especially that they are not truly honest with their partners. One should also consider that they shouldn’t trust such people and should not listen to their alibis despite their obvious wrong doings. The issue of temptation is not the issue amongst such couple’s problems. However, the issue on this subject matter is how true that person is in terms of their affection and relationship with one another, There are a lot of circumstance that one should avoid, but such people don’t control on temptation because they know themselves that they feel the urge of having other relationships with others. If I were on such situation, I would not hesitate to be frank with my partner and ask him/her if he/she is really true to what he/she is feeling. Because at the end of the day, Trust will always govern the relationship process and without being honest to one another, it will somehow goes to a failed relationship.

In your situation, why is leaving the person not an option? I think this scenario tells us that even in the earliest part of the marriage, or relationship you cannot be sure that your partner loves you as much as you do love him. I think though that why only after a few days? If the person does not love you why would you be married to each other and only a few days the relationship is turning sour? I could not really understand why this would happen. When someone lies to you, it is probably a sign that your relationship is doomed, lying starts when one tries to cover up their mistakes, whatever they did or if they are cheating, their lies are due to sway you from thinking there is another person they are seeing. I think when you feel the person has changed so much only a few days or weeks into the marriage or any relationship, you should talk to the person and prove yourself wrong of the cheating, or prove that your assumptions are correct. Either way, you need to know the truth and be free. When he is not even sorry, even if you are married, it is not the best to stay in the relationship. this person does not respect you to cheat on you, and to not let go of you. Do not treat yourself without respect by accepting this wrong doings to you. You deserve to be happy, a man who would be loyal to you and that is what your decision should reside. There are betrayals worth the second chance, but if it continues, you should probably get out of the situation and give yourself the chance to heal and move on.

been to that situation. after 12 years of marriage, he cheated on me. and now we're separated. but life does not end there. life has to move on and there are so many fishes in the sea. you'll never know, one day the right person will come and will love you more that you'll ever know.