How to make my girl friend happy?

China
January 25, 2013 7:52am CST
How to make my girl friend happy?My girl friend has been with me for three years,i love her vey much.But i don't know how to make her happy.Do you have any method?Please tell me.
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• Philippines
25 Jan 13
Your girlfriend must be happy with you for her to stay with you for three years long years. Three years is long enough for you to know her better so you of all people would be able to tell what makes her happy or not. If she's not happy with you, the relationship wouldn't have lasted this long. You might want to talk to her wholeheartedly and ask her if she's happy with you or not so you would know what to do next. Happy myLotting! :)
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
25 Jan 13
Well in true honesty you would have to determine that on your own but I could give you some general either. You could try something different and surprising: take her out somewhere she always wanted to go, carry her to dinner, surprise with some simple flowers, cook for her, give her a day that she is absolutely free from house work, etc But it really depends on your girl and what she likes. YOu could have a conversation with her on what she likes, well you should have already known this since you two have been together for so long. So just do something that she likes.
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@KompitaPita (2051)
• Bulgaria
25 Jan 13
It is impossible to give you right advice how to make your girlfriend happy... You know her much better than we do ... (in fact we don't know her at all.... ) So if you really love her that much, you should know what she loves and what she like, so just do the things you know would make her happy.
• Philippines
25 Jan 13
I agree. It would be difficult to give out pieces of advice for this matter because we're not part of that relationship. Besides, three years is more than enough for you to know a person deeply especially in his case since they share a romantic relationship. I'm pretty sure he'll be able to tell if his girlfriend is happy with him or not. :)
@nitinnair89 (2900)
• India
25 Jan 13
Hi friend. You say you are with your girlfriend for the past 3 years, yet you don't know how to make her happy? How weird is that?? If she IS with you that definitely means she is happy being with you else she would have left you. Why don't you understand this fact? There are no secrets of making one happy. You just be who you are and be true to your partner.. Take care.
• China
25 Jan 13
Thank you for your advice.My girl friend and me work at different place,so we only can see each other one time one week.She alway complain that i don't have enough time for her,to do shopping with her.We both have work, how i stay with her all the time,and don't care my work?
• India
26 Jan 13
That's normal my friend. She must understand. Relationship is all about mutual understanding, isn't it? Maybe you can do some shopping on weekends. She will eventually be happy. Do not worry. You can tell her that you cannot leave your work either. Try to surprise her this Valentine's day :)
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
Well it is just simple.. stay faithful.. being faithful now a days is really a big deal specially with this environment we have.. temptations are everywhere.. if you really love her don't make her cry.. giving chocolates and flowers is just a bonus.,
• Indonesia
26 Jan 13
give her any surprises. if she likes you to be romantic in this moment. or you can polite her by your own poet.or your own song for her.
@urbandekay (18278)
25 Jan 13
You cannot, she not you is responsible for her emotions, the best you can do is to help her to realise this all the best, urban
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
25 Jan 13
One good way to start this is by asking her what she wants from the relationship. What she wants from you. Spend a lot of time with her, buy her small little gifts that show you are thinking about her. Not just for the holidays when almost everyone is doing this. Do it spontaneously. Send her flowers if you can. Write her a letter telling her how much you love her. I'm sure she will appreciate all of those things.
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
25 Jan 13
Hi Michael, You are a good person and want to maintain good relation with your girl friend. This is really nice effort. Mutual trust, sacrifice, patience, clear understanding, love and sharing of all information are very important to maintain a good and ever lasting relation. Have a very nice weekend.
• Bangladesh
25 Jan 13
Just reasonably praise her. Dont try to find fault with her and be constructive, encouragive and philosophical to her. In every occasions try to give her a decent gift. But never get so close to her. Try to maintain your closeness by being far away from her. Dont telephone her so frequently and make a short but exciting conversation. Dont try to flatter her. Because girls ultimately leaves a flatterer.