I'm Lucky I have My Husand After Last
By MoonGypsy
@MoonGypsy (4606)
United States
January 26, 2013 5:28pm CST
i am lucky i have him period. he has been there for me during some of my worst time. we have been through so much together. we over came together. he hates it when i get sick, cause he feels helpless. he told me that if he could kick it's tail (he used more harsh words. lol) and be done with it, it would be one thing. he can't do it though. he can't just take it away and i see how much that hurts him. what i do is, i assure him that while he can't take it way...he can make it better...and he does. he makes it so so so so much better. no, he is not perfect. no, neither am i. yes, we get on each other nerves sometimes over small things, though. nothing big. we don't argue alot anymore, since we are getting older together. i hope you all have that in your life. someone who is there for you in good times and bad. when you have it like that, don't muck it up. savor it and appreciate it. your are lucky to have them in your life, like i am lucky to have my baby.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
27 Jan 13
Reading posts like this does inspire me to be a more loving wife. Some would think that they have done their best in taking care of their husband or the relationship, but it really doesn't have an end to it. We should always nourish the relationship everyday until we are grey and old.
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@binaybbsr1 (375)
• India
27 Jan 13
Its great to know that you both could come together and you could patch up all your mis-leading bad relationship. You are right that no one is perfect, but we only make a person perfect by sharing our love and care with him/her. By the grace of God, you have been given a second chance for a better union. Now keep it up with smiles. Adjustment is just a part of life. Dont consider it as a burden on you ever. Thank you.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
27 Jan 13
I'm glad to hear that your husband is there for you. That is such a great thing. Especially since you both have been through so much together. My husband and I have had our share of ups and downs. More downs than ups. But we are trying to work through them and hopefully we will still be together years from now and be very happy.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
27 Jan 13
thats great !! when a relationship last between good and bad times it becomes stronger. I glad you have one of those kind. Here is to continued great times for many more years. Take care.
@chanthanhluong (21)
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27 Jan 13
Dear MoonGypsy,
You are so lucky in love and so fortunately to have caring, dependable soulmate. Patience is love and love heals where it's hurt. Do you have any kids? There is nothing more beautiful than a creation of family starting with two people who love each others. I feels happy to hear that your world is shaped by love, kindness, and understanding. I learn from buddhism that no one is perfect, but when we see all faults in other people and nothing good about them that means we lacks the merit. My husband and I are best friends and he always give in to my preferences. He always willing to make any sacrifices necessary for me and the family, no matter if he will ends up with nothing. When I think about this, in I heart I feel that I am wholeheartedly need for him..so thankful in fact that I must do everything to make our life worth living by being a good person, helping people, be sincere, be a good family so that he knows his love for me is worth it. My husband loves working with his hands and so I tell him that he has the most beautiful hands and that his hands create marvelous things and he knows what I mean too. Sometime we get mad at each others and one of us end up sleeping on the sofa or roaming the street at night and I cry for days and I thought it would be over but thank goodness we bounced back. We blamed it on responsibility for each others but I know for sure it's not responsibility, it's pure love.