Talking in the kitchen of a restaurant..DISGUSTING

@Renhard (3471)
Jamaica
January 27, 2013 6:53pm CST
It really twists my stomach when you hear the chattering in the kitchen of a restaurant. Especially when they are conversing about personal stuff. It makes me sick that they are dealing with my food and yet still can't keep their mouth shut. What if they spit in my food or something. Disgusting. You know when it feels even more disgusting, when they start to laugh. Suddenly you hear this out burst of laughter, and then and there you know for a fact, saliva will slip into your food. Restaurants really need to fix that problem. I have notice some restaurant purposely make it so you can see what is happening in the kitchen. I think the reason for this is to show that proper cleanliness, and thing is going on the kitchen so that customers can feel more safe and satisfied. But it defeats the purpose when all that modification is revealing the rubbish being done in the kitchen.
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@celticeagle (166761)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Jan 13
I don't mind at all that they are talking while cooking. Can you even imagine how many times they have probably fixed his meal in a day? I don't mind the talk and I sure don't want to upset them either. If it bothers you that they talk you should go to another place. I have heard some nasty stories about what goes on in some kitchens. Ugh!
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
28 Jan 13
Well I was more specifying fast food restaurants. But sometimes I am so hungry I have to get something to eat quick before I have a belly ache. But one time I was just there, and I ordered a chicken sandwhich. Firstly when I entered the store the cashiers are laughing so uncontrollably and talking back and forth. I have no problem with that but when I have to wait over 2 minutes before they notice I am trying to hand them my money it gets to me. Then the conversation continued about how Mrs Pam is boasting with an ugly car that her ex boyfriend buy her. It was all mix up and gossip. And a they made my sandwhich. You can clearly see from the cashier, then they stop to talk again while I am just waiting here starving. Then they start laughing again. I like tried to get their attention, they saw my facial expression and she continued to make my sandwhich. Her head held down and she started to focus on my sandwhich again, then a laughter bursts out of her mouth and there she is over my food. Head still down and laughing.
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@celticeagle (166761)
• Boise, Idaho
4 Feb 13
I doubt I would go there again. You could go to their website and complain about the bad service.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
4 Feb 13
You see celticeagle I always feel sorry for people and I honestly wouldn't want anyone to loose their jobs you know. I might a general complaint though, but that is only if I have to eat there because there is no where else near by and I see the same thing happen again.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Jan 13
hi renhard the kitchen of my favorite restaurants is not open to view nor in hearing range. I really could care less if they talk while fixing a meal as long as its clean and edible and really tastes good they could sing hymns for all I care.And how would you know that they would spit in our food.Do you spit when you talk? I do not.What on earth do you want from food servers total silence? most workers in most jobs will talk back and forth.You have an awful opinion of cooks as most where I come from are good at their job.If I hear someone laughing while i am eating I think this must be a good places to work it the workers are happy .I guess different cultures and different customs show in this topic so I do respect your opinions so zend mine and hope you respect them too . we do not have to agree,just to get along as Friends is all.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
28 Jan 13
Well in my country, I have to differ. The people who usually becomes cook are the ones that didn't make it through school. The owner of the business just teaches them how to cook that specific meal and nothing else. SO they do that the exact same thing every minute. I don't spit when I talk but I have witness so many people where I am from do it. There mouth becomes water works. Not to be disrespectful but that is why I am so afraid to eat in public. I do it when I am starving but otherwise, I try to stay away from it. Unless it is a really reputable restaurant. Oh sorry by the way I was talking fast food restaurants.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
28 Jan 13
I have worked in a kitchen before and talking on the phone does not really automatically mean that they are standing over your food and salavitating. it does not bother me a bit. If they are not on the phone, they could be talking with a co worker. It could happen but would not assume it. I see that you are talking about fast food restraunts. Well, the problems you mention could happen anywhere. Fast foods are generally more unhealthy all around and I rarely ever go to them. I've heard horror stories about all sorts of restraunts so I really think that when you trust someone to cook your food for you that you are always taking a chance. If I did not trust the cleanliness of the place then I would just cook at home. I mostly cook at home anyway...it's cheaper.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
29 Jan 13
I am actually surprised that they don't have to wear something over their mouths. In the States, we have to wear our hair pulled back and a hair net and plastic gloves. I suppose a mouth piece would only make sense as well.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
28 Jan 13
I do prefer to cook at home but at times it is impossible to go home and just cook. Sometime I have classes up until 12 o clock mid night. In cases like that, I have to eat somewhere so that I have enough energy to continue the day. Now I am talking the places that you can see the access to the kitchen. You know those places where you can see them doing everything. I see nothing wrong with them talking on the phone. I also see nothing generally wrong with them talking to each other, because most time it does increases productivity. What I do not like is when they are talking about personally not job related stuff and their mouths are directly over my food. Of course there are times when jobs get boring and they have to talk to entertain their selves. If that is the case there is a very simple solution. They can wear a mouth cover. What do you think about that?
@allknowing (136099)
• India
3 Feb 13
Your idea of putting some protection while talking seems a good one. I do understand what you mean. When my maids are at work in the house, I discourage them from talking. It not only is a health issue, it also distracts them from putting the right ingredients. What if they put salt instead of sugar!
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
3 Feb 13
Wrong ingredients could really spoil it. Especially if you are starving hungry. You have maids?
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
3 Feb 13
I was a little surprise because you hardly find maids here where I live. I remember when I told my dad I wanted a maid when I was smaller, he gave me a talk about doing things for myself. But I still want a maid.. Especially when I finish medical school, a surgeon will be really busy. Might be stress from work.
@allknowing (136099)
• India
3 Feb 13
Yes I do!
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
28 Jan 13
Yes there are restaurants who show you the kitchen, how they work. Over here it's mostly in Italian restaurants and the pizza part (the rest is separate.. you can just quess what they are doing). Never heard them laugh out loud but can imagine how you feel somehow. But I wonder if it's worser as being in the supermarket, you put all your stuff out to pay for.. nobody/the cashier is saying hi, she just keeps talking with herthe co-worker about private issues... I think most kitchens are not clean at all. We have a tv programm about that. A guy is visiting unexpectly restaurants and their kitchens, fridges etc.. you better don't know what he finds. It's amazing we all don't have a foodpoison each time we went to a restaurant. Good to know: 5 garlic cloves a day will even get the arsenic out of your body.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
28 Jan 13
I hate garlic so much. I don't know people stomach it. There are so many things that bother me with a kitchen you know. So many. If it is a popular restaurant or a reputable restaurant, i usually have no problem. But if it is a very small local restaurant or so, I feel very uncomfortable.
• Jamaica
3 Feb 13
ok man you've got issues but you are funny and it is going to twist your stomach it does that to everybody no one wants someone else's spit in their food and if it does hurt you so much why don't you just cook your own food where you can do what the hell ever you want with it....
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
3 Feb 13
I do cook for myself when I get the opportunity but some time I have a long day away from home and in such cases I have to eat somewhere else to survive.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
3 Feb 13
Me and lovelesskid, great friends in real life. Stop looking for praises from the wrong places. And I would never do that, because she knows that.
• Jamaica
3 Feb 13
lolz a swear you guys are crazy its just one silly topic why do you have to argue so much and i cant choose sides because both of you are right so you two work it out
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
28 Jan 13
Talking doesn't bother me. As long as I get my food on time, and it tastes good, so what. I can see your point about laughing though.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
28 Jan 13
I do understand why some people is okay with it. But put your self in my shoes where you are grown in such badly behave place. Where everything seems disgusting. In jamaica here it is like people cant control what is in there mouth. Well the lower people if you understand what I am saying. You still have people up on the top of the ladder that shows elitism.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
28 Jan 13
I would rather go to a restauraunt where the people in the kitchen are just talking and not sick then going to a restaurant that has a quiet staff but are all sick. What makes a kitcjen of quality is if the kitchen is santitary along with its food. And i am pretty sure that the chefs or whomever is cooking tries their best to not get anything in the food. If they dont like it to be done to them then they wont do it to you.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
28 Jan 13
You see it these fast food restaurants in the country side of my country. Or better yet said the rural side of my country hire base on relationship. Not on qualification. Most of them have not completed to be qualified to provide such services. I know this from surveys as well as the news paper. So some of them aren't even aware of what not to do while cooking. You know I have no problem with general talking but I would feel much more comfortable if they wore something over their mouth. I have experience too many times, people are talking to me and accidentally saliva flew out their mouth and catch me. I know it was an accident, some of them apologize because they are aware of it but others don't because they had no clue. I guess that is why I am so scared when I relate cooking to talking, because of the possibilities that arise. As for sick people cooking, that is also one thing I can't take. If I go in a restaurant and manage to see or hear a sneeze one time. I might get uncomfortable and jittery. Two or more times I am going to feel too uncomfortable and worried to eat in that place.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
28 Jan 13
It does make us feel sick and quite bad because it never gives a good impression to start off with and also moreover the feeling is quite bad and we can experience the bad impression it gives to us all the time
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
28 Jan 13
Yes that is correct. I do feel that way. Quite bad indeed. It makes me feel uncomfortable. The things I start to assume, might start to get wild and nasty. But better safe than sorry my mom always told me.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
28 Jan 13
I don't mind it that much... I mean, they are humans like me, and they NEED communication not to become crazy. The only thing I don't like if they talk really loudly and about really disgusting matters, or in a really rude manner. Once I ate at a restaurant, and I could hear the waiters telling irty jokes to each other and cussing all the time...
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
28 Jan 13
Well to be quite honest if they are going to be talking excessively I would honestly appreciate if they would wear something over their mouth. Just something to make sure nothing happens. But you are right some things should not be discussed in places where I am eating. Especially talking about disgusting stuff.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
28 Jan 13
i think like every other job in this world they are going to talking on the job. I do it, Im sure you do it. i see no wrong. As long as your food turns out right....
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
28 Jan 13
There is nothing wrong with talking in general at a job. But your place in my shoes where in society around you. When people are talking saliva constantly escape their mouth. It is the tone in which they talk and it happens most time when people are talking jamaican creole. When you grow up in such surroundings I just start to feel really uncomfortable concerning that. If someone looking about my meal is going to talk in the kitchen, don't do it directly over my food or wear a mouth cover. And to be absolutely honest, I do not talk when I am preparing food for anyone except me. If i know that food is going to share I will either listen some music and chill. And if I need to talk, if it is must. I always move from over the pot, or over the food. I guess it is just me. I really respect that you have not attacked me even though you disagree with me.
@robspeakman (1700)
28 Jan 13
You come across as a germaphobe and possible a fascist - Maybe you should eat at home and prepare your own food. Chatting should not concern you really It should be the server that takes your food into the toilet after you order .....Another warning?
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
28 Jan 13
I am far from being what you have just stated and I don't have a general problem with talking in the kitchen. What I do have a problem with is talking without a mouth cover over my food. It is as simple as that. I don't allow it at all. If someone come to me and is going to hold a conversation with me. I am sitting down while he is standing up. Then I will cover both my drinks and my food. This is me. And I don't see why you are behaving like that. I am trying to hold a quite decent discussion.
@norcal (4889)
• Franklinton, North Carolina
10 Dec 15
Talking does not bother me, but once we were having dinner at a fancy seafood restaurant where there was a big glass window into the kitchen. A fight broke out between cooks, and one man grabbed another by the neck and bent him down over the grill.