Im Confused
By gwapako34
@gwapako34 (46)
Philippines
January 27, 2013 9:47pm CST
There are things happened in our life that makes us confused. For me, at first having a boyfriend, next my marriage, and now, my live in partner.
I always wanted to find the different meaning of love because no matter how i give the best in me, at the end of the day, i am still unsatisfied.
My marriage, i find it hell that is why i give it up. Now, my live in partner, he is so kind and patience but he is very poor and he is financially unstable.
That is why i am being confused because i don't know until when i can hold on to our relationship especially now that we do not have a child. I want him to give up also but i feel i am being unfair if i give him up because he is being so good to me as my lover...
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6 responses
@michaellxz (26)
• China
28 Jan 13
my friend,money is not the key to happiness.if you love your boy friend,just give him some time,you will get what you want.
god bless you.
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@gwapako34 (46)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
Thank you very much. I appreciate your advice.
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@gwapako34 (46)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
Yes i will. All of you really helps me overcome the feeling of being confused. Thank you very much guys.
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@michaellxz (26)
• China
28 Jan 13
my friend,money is not the key to happiness.if you love your boy friend,just give him some time,you will get what you want.
god bless you.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
28 Jan 13
I think there are lots of things that are more important than money. I think money can never buy everything in life. I think you should try to find the right solution in life. I think it is good to have a good personality as life partner than person with lots of money who does not care. 
@gwapako34 (46)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
I know i am being selfish. I am being childish. Everything you comment is right. That is why i post this discussion to make me realized things. I feel ashamed right now because i understand now...
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
One question- Do you love him? If yes, then you must stay with him and help him in making your relationship work as well as be financially stable. If not, then it is better to be honest with it than let him be expecting that you are still in love with him even if you really are not in love with him anymore.
@nhailojaye (207)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
I guess, you shouldn't give up on him... It's not really valid for leaving him just because he's not financially stable. As you see, though money matters nowadays, it's not really a reason to end up your good relationship with him. If you really love him and you see your future with him, then continue your love.
But if there's something bothering you, better discussed it with him. It's better to be open in your relationship than just disappearing. Based from what I have experienced, it really hurts to be left behind. I, my self was left behind by the one I love for the one he loves. At an early age, I already experience this, but I know it happened for a reason.
Good luck in your relationship. I hope you will clear your thoughts soon! god bless! :)
@deazil (4730)
• United States
29 Jan 13
I would say if you love him stay and help him to become financially stable. If he is good to you that's one thing you don't have to worry about. Concentrate on loving each other and working hard to get what you want - together. It's better to struggle with someone you love than to struggle alone or with someone you dislike. I'm old. I know, I've been there, am there. You're lucky to be with someone who loves you. Stay and help each other.
@gwapako34 (46)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
You open up my mind and heart. Thank you very much... I guess, sometimes i am trying to take advantage his kindness and love to me... :)
