I am not JEALOUS! I'm just irritated! -.-

Philippines
January 28, 2013 12:26am CST
I just can't understand myself for freaking out over them being friends in Facebook. It's just that, there is something behind that friendship, I knew it! Sooner or later, I'll be expecting them to be in that "in a relationship" status with each other, which makes me really irritated. As a matter of fact, I'm not jealous actually, I just feel irritated with that update from them. My ex-boyfriend unfriended that girl in order to have a better relationship with me before but in the end, he just have that fling/affair with that girl right under my nose! And now, they are friends again! I know this is not a big deal but its freaking me inside and out! Am i really irritated or jealous? do you think I am? Blimey! This is crazy! -.-
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14 responses
• Mumbai, India
29 Jan 13
A nice thought for u if someone hurts u ignore it, if u can ignore forget it, if u cant forget laugh at it, u deserve it think about it.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
you said EX..therefore he do have the right to move on and be in a relationship with that girl..sorry but well somehow you must move on too.. unless you are still in love with him, therefore that jealousy feeling is really normal.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
29 Jan 13
We can not tell what your true desires are , but he was your boyfriend so you will definitely feel something . You may have a lot of feeling all mixing together because that used to be someone you care for that hurt you and then now with the person he cheated on you with . I believe its natural for you to feel however you do because we are human after all .
@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
I think you were just surprised to know that they are friends again.If I may ask how long have you been separated from your ex-boyfriend?I know that there is still something in you that is still hurting learning that they were online friends at first.It's a natural feeling you were once in love with him no doubt about that.But the issue is that of all the girls out there why does it have to be her?Am I right?hehehe us girls have this instincts that later on will come true and who knows it is just for facebook's sake only hahahaha.I think you're old anger or grudge towards this girl came alive now knowing that they can continue whatever it is they have when you two were still together.On the other hand, if you don't want to see any updates from them you can just unfriend them or block them from your list and voila you won't see any other news from them.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
Even if you don't admit it it is still very clear that you are jealous.It's like a domino effect. You are irritated because you are jealous then you are jealous because you still love your ex-boyfriend.
@kiepher (55)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
Both. You are jealous and at the same time you are irritated. When you are jealous, you are easily get irritated. You will not feel anything like that anymore when you finally can tell yourself that you've moved on. You are not the only person whose in that position, cheer up!. They are not worth the wrinkles!
@Archie0 (5653)
28 Jan 13
He is your ex boyfriend, so that is pretty obvious that you are going to get angry on the fact. I feel you are just upset with the way your boyfriend behaved. That is not right, first he unfriend her to show you, and later on he is having an affair back, when he wants to get back in relation with you and then again he is going with another as well, this shows how unstable he is. It is very obvious to get upset, jealous or irritated. My ex use to do the thing, he use to call me after every 4 or 5 months and use to say he wants to be back in the relationship and the very next day, he use to get with another girl and never responded me at all. I use to get myself feel like sleeping under a running car.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
If the guy involved was just your friend, I'd say you're irritated. But knowing that he is your ex, then definitely, you are jealous. One question though, do you still have feelings for this guy?
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
28 Jan 13
I think you are more angry as jealous or irritated. I also think you have the right to be. Your bf doesn't sound like a honest person to me, that would make me angry as well. He probably seems to think he can fool you. I don't know what to say, except for: let him know you know and I hope you will find a nicer, more honest bf.
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
Whether it's jealousy or irritation, it's just normal for you to feel that way. But one thing I knew was that you are affected. :)
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
If I were in your shoe, I will also feel bad and irritated. It makes me realize that my ex is just really playing along with me. But on the other side, I am thankful that he is not a part of my life anymore. He cannot play games with me anymore. We just need to move on. Somehow soon, you will find somebody better who deserves you more.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
Even if you don't admit it,it's still very clear to me that you're jealous.You're jealous because you're irritated. It's a domino effect.The reason why you're irritated is that you're jealous because you still have feelings for him.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
28 Jan 13
I think most of the people in your position will feel angry like you. Anyway, if he can do that,he is not worth your time and your emotions. Just try to forget him, you deserve better.
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
I am not sure about the feelings you had. Irritated? Jealous? Maybe... You are irritated because you are 100% sure that they have relationship that time you found out about her and your boyfriend. Maybe you are jealous because you still have a feeling/love for your boyfriend. Well, whatever, just block both of them so that they can not destruct your feelings/emotions. okay? Life must go on.