a cut in his cheek
By jazel_juan
@jazel_juan (15746)
Philippines
January 28, 2013 2:56am CST
When i arrived last Thursday from Davao i saw that my son had this big cut on his cheek...
it really made me sad that when i was away something like this happened, the nanny said he was running and he tripped and bumped in the cabinet.. i am not blaming her as well accidents do happen. but it broke my heart, but i am glad it is not worse.. he cut was not deep but it was badly bruised.
hubby was mad too but i told him we cannot blame the nanny my little guy is really a handful.
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@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
You came here in Davao??? How was your trip?
I also have experienced that and the one that got me irritated was the nanny did not even reported to us until we noticed it when we came home from work. First, my son who was still 1 year old then, got his little finger caught in the door. And she just said she did not noticed it was just him who closed the door. I really couldn't imagine my 1-year old could bang a door that hard. Our door is not a heavy one where you only push a little it will already close. we did not put any spring neither because that will only cause accidents. But we do not have any proof to disbelieve what she said.
A couple of months after, my son's forehead got bruised and cuts. She again said that he stepped on an empty powder bottle. How come the empty bottle was on the floor? Why didn't she keep it away when she knows our son is still newly learning how to walk. But even then, we still accepted that it was an accident, part of growing up. But still, it really breaks your heart to see your little one get hurt, especially when you are not around... You know how much he needs your comfort, your hugs and kisses during those time.
Now that he is already 2, whenever he gets hurt, he will immediately come to me. Mommy please kiss my yayay. After I kissed him, he will say "There's no more yayay na." That's how your kids trust and find comfort in you.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
Hi there! Yes i was in Davao last 19th to 23rd.. but it was very rainy, we planned on going to some parks but well the rain hindered it..and we heard it was flooded on some parts. We were also supposed to go to Tagum City but that was cancelled too because of the rain. We end up going to SM Lanang and Abreeza Mall and i was also able to visit my cousin in Toril hehe!
Yes my kids had those kind of accidents too and like you it is hard to blame the nanny sometimes because we do need them but i always tell my nanny to tell us the truth and i will try my best not to get mad..lol.. but she is very good with the kids, this one it was really accident.. i also hope it won't scar but since it isn't that deep, i guess it won't.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
Oh I'm sorry you haven't enjoyed your trip because of the rain... You should've visited Crocodile Park... but I guess by that time (especially on the 20th) the road was on heavy traffic because the rescuers stationed in the highway going to that park. The most affected subdivision is situated there, where houses were already underwater even up to the roof. That was the most terrible flood that happened here in Davao, because many areas were affected.
Actually, my husband's parents and sister's family live there in Jade Valley. Their house was flooded that almost reached their ceiling. The last time they had flood, it reached until human chest level only. They never expected that it will reach 8-10 feet high. It was just good that they have a neighbor who has a 2-storey house. They were actually planning to go out of the highway, but the water was too fast rushing for them to reach the other exit. So they decided to stay in their neighbor's house. The flood started to rise at 12am. But the rescuers reached their area at 11am. They were stranded for about 12 hours. My husband already got worried because his parents are already old and his father is weak. SO he called his brother and they actually went there. They swam through the flood and it took them 4 hrs to reach their house (but if it was normal, you can actually just take a 5 minute walk). But when they reached their area, the rescuers already arrived. But along the way, they have saved 2 people by transferring them to a higher house. Being an ex-boy scout and an ex-red cross member helped.
They are still staying temporarily in our house now. There is still no electricity in their subdivision. They have finished cleaning their house. But they are still "struggling" with their mountains of laundry.
Back to the nanny thing, yes you are right. No matter how mad you are, you still cannot really blame them for all because you need them. They are the ones taking care of your kids while you are away. But there are just times that you cannot avoid getting angry. But later on, I also just say to myself - just be thankful you have them. Because it's really difficult to have no helper around.
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@oxyde_gyabo (701)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
Hi Jazel (is it pronounced as Hazel?)
If your son bumped his head along with the cut, it's important to have a check up just to be sure.
Head injuries can cause serious damage to the brain development so it's best that the nanny should be at age where she could keep up with the child's activity. Though I can't really blame the nanny since it's really hard to avoid all sorts of injuries. The only solution to this vulnerability is to provide safety measures. Kids that are in this stage shouldn't be restricted from playing since they have to develop their muscles for growth and their enthusiasm also for being active. Place foam and tape it (with wide tape like electric tape) over the corners of furniture & other fixtures. It's these sharp corners that cause the most threats.
Hope your kid feels better :)
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
My two other kids, 8 and 5 survived though lol but they had their own incident of getting cut or bruised so i guess it is normal... as for my little guy who had the cut in the cheek, well he is a whole lot better now, i wasn't able to bring him to the doctor as i always ask him if it is still painful and he would say he is fine..and since there were no other symptoms like vomiting or fever. i am hopeful he is fine..
putting tape around corners is also a good idea oxyde but with lots of furnitures at home lol i don't know what my house will look like hahaha!
My name is Jave actually Jazel is my daughter's name and Juan is my son's name..the two elder ones, as i made this account while i have the two of them.
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@oxyde_gyabo (701)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
Nice to meet you Jave :)
You're daughter's name is cute ^_^ You sure like letter 'J' seeing both the elder ones' names start with J
I'm glad your son's okay. I have a nephew who's so hyper we need to tape foams on all corners since he doesn't mind having his head bump into things _
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
Hi cindy!
I might think of doing that.. and i might require the kid's help too they could help me put those tapes around.
Yes we sure do love J lol all of us starts with J, my husband's name starts with J and my three kids also have J for their names
@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
29 Jan 13
Yes, accidents do happen. That could have happened even if you were the one watching him.
As long as the nanny has been good with your children otherwise, there is no reason to be upset with her about this.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
Oh, sorry to hear about this but yes I agree that accidents do happen beyond our control.
He is on this stage of being adventurous and it's hard to control him.
I hope he is doing fine and yah, I can imagine him jumping him like nothing happens.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
usually he does that, he trips and he would just get up and smiles like nothing happens.. but for a mom it is painful to see them fall down.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
28 Jan 13
I agree with you, the nanny is not to blame because these things happen. I've seen it happen even when I was watching the kids myself pretty closely. Sometimes we just take our eyes off for a minute and they are already playing and it happens too fast.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
it does happen too fast, its like a lightning bolt and after a minute its done and the little guy is crying!
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
yes a ball that moves very very quick i don't know what's happening sometimes!
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
28 Jan 13
Children are a ball of energy! You never know when that ball is going to react or explode into running.
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