Some girls just out of the league
By kingparker
@kingparker (9673)
United States
January 29, 2013 7:16pm CST
A new girl working in marketing department just start this week. She is pretty, and talk. One of my co - worker, also friend already drooling all over her. My personal advise, she is way out of our league. I won't consider going after her myself, since I know what I can get and what I can not get. She is not in my league, and definitely not my friend's league too. A girl like that won't even talk to us. So, Instead of telling him the cold hard truth, I simply tell him "good luck with that; but don't take it too seriously." I hope she can consider him as friend, if there is no hope to develop a relationship.
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5 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
30 Jan 13
It's not going to hurt your friend if he knows what really lies ahead. Atleast he has been warned.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
30 Jan 13
Sometimes people simply don't want supportive words, otherwise, they thought that you weren't on their side.
@ethansmom0129 (136)
• United States
30 Jan 13
First, I would like to mention, not all attractive women are that shallow. Now, if your friend has been in this situation before, he probably knows what is going to happen, but he won't ever know if he will be rejected until he tries. My husband and I are not physically compatible, as one would say, I am out of his league. But, he is an awesome person and I gave him a chance based on his personality and we have now been together 12 years. Most overly attractive men are jerks and won't stay faithful, so sometimes women are satisfied with a not so attractive man, but a wonderful personality. So, don't always be so shy when you think you can't approach her. Just some thoughts.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
30 Jan 13
Hi Kingparker,
You really don't know that. We are ALL equals and no one is out of anyone's league unless it is in their own mind. A few years ago, my boss came out of his office and sent me out to do a job in the cooler while he took over the register. There was a guy that had been hanging out and talking to me. I did the job and came back out and the guy was gone. My boss said, "You can thank me now." I said "why?" He said, " I've just noticed that guy hanging around and talking just a little too long to you and clearly he is not your type. I just figured Id save you." I looked at him and said, "Too late, I've already been out with him and he is really nice." Don't EVER say someone is out of your league!!
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
30 Jan 13
I like the fact that you know your own standard and that you know where you stand when it comes to girls. However, who knows, don't judge a person by how she looks. You can just be friendly with everyone at least. You can judge only when you know everyone fully.
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
30 Jan 13
Yes sometimes this kind of girl is way out of our league,but why not have a try?If you do not give it a shot,you will get nothing,so just have a try if you really like that girl,may be she will fall in love with you two.
By the way,could you share some picture of that girl with us so that we can give you some advices.
