He never listen.
By Erynn14
@Erynn14 (357)
Malaysia
January 31, 2013 12:07am CST
I have experience this over and over again. I told him to not play basketball during the afternoon 12 or 1 pm. The sunlight at that time isn't good for health. Even there is no sunlight, don't play. Why can't he just LISTEN?
Why they just do not know how to at least listen something from their girlfriend which is actually something that is good for him? Dang it! I repeated so many times. I tried to not angry at him for playing it during that time for quite a while. Now, I really couldn't stop my anger. It's frustrating when all I had told him is just something that is not important for him to remember or just ignore the feeling on playing.
Stress? What kind of stress do you actually had? Homework? No! Your life is more simple than mine! Not much homework for the day, everyday went home, get home, after lunch, all you did is just PLAY. Computer games. In school you only learn to somehow listen but more is sleeping. What now?
I am angry. And you ask me to find you when I felt bored? Why aren't you the one who do it? Because you have computer games? Because you never felt bored when you got games? Even without me you still can live with your game? Then go ahead. Wait until you FELT BORED, then find me yourself. Well, probably until then, everything had change. Probably, we might have no feeling to each other? Maybe.
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12 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
31 Jan 13
yes, some people just never listen to us. they always seem to do what ever they want to. Take care there...
@Asaphkenania (3)
• South Africa
31 Jan 13
I believe as a person who needs to be listened to, my first responsibility is to be the first to listen to others. There is a simple say that one should not do to others what s/he does not expect people to do to him/her. start by giving an ear to others and you won't even have time to complain about people not listening to you. You will find more passion in listening to others that will affect them to want to become like you. As it is said that in any human being exists the will to be the hero and heroin, the urge to do good.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
If you don't mind me asking, how old are you both? And how long ave you been together? Your boyfriend seems enjoying to be playing and be a happy go lucky guy. You knew him that way even before you became his girlfriend, right?
Don't get mad. Just try to talk to him about what is bothering you. If you feel that you are always taken for granted, then maybe it is time to move on and let him do what he wants.
@Erynn14 (357)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 13
Well. We are together for almost 8 months. I do know he is that kind of guy. And I did talk to him that I don't want him to play during that time because the sunlight that time is not good for his health. He knew it. And he told me that he saw there's not much sunlight so he went and play a while by throwing in those basketball. But still, I don't want him to play that time. I wanted him to be able to be in good health not just because of stress, then go and play it even though it is not good for his health. But he still did it. Even he said there's not much sunlight, of course, I still will get angry when I had ask him not to. :(
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 13
Oh no ... I can really see you are really angry with him! 
Guys are normally take things likely, they will spend more
time with their football / basketball friends. They can play
even it is raining! Rain or shine ... not a problem to them.
I too have some relatives who rather spend time on computer
games whenever they are free. They have no time for dating
or spend time with family. So, be cool .. and relax, try not
o stress yourself up too much. Not worth it.
Guys are normally take things likely, they will spend more
time with their football / basketball friends. They can play
even it is raining! Rain or shine ... not a problem to them.
I too have some relatives who rather spend time on computer
games whenever they are free. They have no time for dating
or spend time with family. So, be cool .. and relax, try not
o stress yourself up too much. Not worth it.@Erynn14 (357)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 13
I let him play basketball. But except afternoon 12 to 1 pm only. But he still play it. Worst of all that makes me even angry at him is that he is saying that he will not play from Monday to Friday. That makes me feel like I am not allow him to play during those time. What on earth! I only ask him not to during AFTERNOON time!
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
31 Jan 13
There are some boys and girls, who do not like advice and they normally they like to do opposite of advice. so they should be handled with intelligence and tactfulness. With the course of time, gradually they become alright. Have a very nice day.
@sanandan05 (18)
• India
31 Jan 13
Life is a drama and we are the players. We never value the things what god has blessed with. He will, once he becomes a parent but i know that will be too late. My mom also shouts at my brother for doing things what she refuses for, He will exactly do what is not right for him and later on regret. You tell them end times but this is the age when they dont even realize what is good or bad and just act on their wishes but surely one day they will realize. Dont worr everyhting will be fine.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
31 Jan 13
Some people have 'selective' hearing in that they only hear what they want to hear, and if it something they don't want to hear they pretend not to hear it and carry on regardless, despite of your feelings and protests. The important thing is to let him know how you feel inside, otherwise it builds up resentment. Communication is key, and when you are both relaxed. Never talk when you are angry as you can say things that you can't unsay if you know what I mean.
@toxic_lifestyle (1213)
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
Well it usually happens. Most people usually don't listen to the advice of other people. Most especially, if it was against on their will. :)
@randomarts09 (1405)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 13
Well, seems like your boyfriend really enjoying himself as a happy go lucky guy. He maybe won't listen to your advice because he seems to enjoy playing so much. I don't know if he want to have a girlfriend just for a status. However, if you can't stand him anymore, don't put up with him. Because I'm sure there are tons of guys who can appreciate you and your advice. But if you still want to be with him, just be wise and if he never listens to you all the time, I think it's time for you to move on rather than stressed yourself for him, I think it's not worth it.
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
31 Jan 13
Since you are still students, I assume that you're teenagers and too young to be stressed in a relationship. Just let him play and his things, don't be stressed out for a boyfriend who deson't listen to good advices. Meanwhile, do stuffs that makes you happy aside from your boyfriend. If he plays basketball at noon then hang out with your friends for you to be happy and stop worrying about him.
@marjivy80 (198)
• Philippines
31 Jan 13
try to neglect him for a week. let him feel what you felt everytime he neglects you and not listen to you. maybe then he can realize your worth.
@binaybbsr1 (375)
• India
31 Jan 13
A strong smell of tons of love is reflected. In fact he listens most of your things. Even i dont understand whts wrong in playing in mid-day! After all i think he must be playing in group and the best part is that he is getting Vit-D, absolutely in free of cost. Now, really if you want him not to go out in mid-day, then better to do one thing. At around, 10 or 11 am, ask him 2/3 times, when will u go out? If you will ask this thing for 2/3 days, i bet he will change his schedule. Enjoy. You ve a gr8 man with you, who cares you.
