The second time around:-)

Yes you can! . Apparently it's been a couple of years now. You should find your happiness! . However, be careful and be wise in choosing a man to marry with. You want to get marry to be happy again, not to be hurt. You deserve the best of your life daisy. Godbless

I think it should be said, this is a very sad situation. I can only imagine how hard this has been for you. Not even knowing what has happened to your dear husband. My deepest condolances to yourself and for your little girl who lost her daddy. Whatever you choose to do, for her sake as well as your own, I wish you all the best.

Life is too short to wait around, time moves on, people change, and if you are happy, truly happy then why not get married again? True love doesn't come round very frequently and when it does you want to grab it with both hands and don't let go. Good luck to you, I wish you well. I am sure your husband wouldn't want you to be unhappy and would hope that you find happiness now that he has gone.

I think it should be fine. Until and unless you both are in love with each other, and you feel secure with him. Because once again you would not like anything bad happen with you. So you have to be a little wise here.

I dont believe in time frame. Its not what is should be consider in making decision. It is our selves that is should be assessed. Are we ready enough, whats our reason, is it valid? If you feel that you are ready to love again and you have the right reason to be and not only because you are lonely and you need a company to fill the absense of your lost husband then why not? Tho for me as long as I dont see my husband's remains I will never consider to find new one. I'll be hoping of him coming back to me, but again that was me and I am not you..

Love has no limitations. Go on, be happy, i will give you my full support. If it is for your happiness and you really love each other, why not. To have a partner in life as you grow older is very important.

.hi. I think four years is already enough as long as you are happy with the person you have right now. Well, when someday he miraculously returns, then he will understand. You have the right to be happy. Just make sure that you will be spending your life to someone worthy of your love and attention. You didn't mention if you have kids. Anyway, whatever your decision is, you just need to be ready with all the consequences.

I think it is enough already. The important is, you two are in love with each other.

Four year is longer enough,the previously four years must very tough for you and now you can move on definitely.

wow... thats a tough one. I can understand you moved on. Id think after 4 years hes gone forever. But you really never know. What do they say happened?

If you are ready to move on for the next chapter of your life then it's ok. But if you have kids, I think you should also ask them if they are ready and how would they feel about your plans. If everything is ok and everyone is ready for this then go and be happy.

well, it's okey as long as both of you are very much sure of what you will be entering. and of course the love and respect were there.