alone but happy

thats good.you dont need another man in your life because you have your kids.focus your attention and love to them than to get another man to give you heart ache and pains.

you are positive and i need study your attitude to life .hope you can happy all the time . best wishes.

Thanks for this discussion, i know many women who were divorced but don't want to remarry for some reason or other, they prefer to remain single for rest of the life, but who knows, when the mind will change.

I'm glad to hear that there are women like you who are happy with their lives despite those odds. I mean I've known a lot of women who don't appreciate their lives and keep on complaining when there are many things in their lives to thank for. It's true that your children are your treasure, and you are complete enough with them. And when the right man comes to your life, that's just a bonus.

Sounds good/realistic to me. It's also a good thing you are able to be with you. I think many people can learn from that. Being separated and raising children alone might sound "difficicult" to many people but in reality most women are doing the raising alone. The positive fact now is there are no fights, you do not need to ask for permission, you do not need to please anyone, keep someone in a good mood, you can cook what you like, do what you like.

I know how you feel I am not a lone either, my marriage was not, the best so I have decided to just be by myself, I am happier that way, I don't have to fight with any one, and I am happy most of the time.

Hi friend, good to know that you are happy even though you are alone, as you mentioned you have your children. Surely children will make us to come out from loneliness. Better to live alone than living in an unwanted relationship