Can We Be The Same Person With Different People?
By Scoopzz
@Scoopzz (54)
United States
January 31, 2013 4:32pm CST
Ever notice your behavior among your friends? I have and I am different with cents in people. One friend I am quite and let her talk, with another friend we both share stories.
So, is this a learnt behaivor because one friend talks over me and I leaned that it wouldn't be of any use to converse with her?
With the other friend, who is relaxed, and will talk about her day and I share my day with her but still hold back a slight bit. Now the question is am I two different personalities when I am with either one?
Can I be myself with only family members, relaxed and comfortable or can I be myself IF I ever find a friend that I can be that way?
1 response
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Feb 13
I am myself no matter who I'm with...
But with certain people I understand that some talk more than others. You don't have a different personality with them. you just change your mannerisms with them. If someone's constantly talking it does become difficult to talk over them...
@Scoopzz (54)
• United States
19 Feb 13
Thanks for the response LovimgMyBabies. I think we both see being different with different people are about the same. The word mannerisms fits but I just assume mannerisms is certain things you do like twitch your lip when talking, wave your hand around or tap your foot. What I mean do we change our personalities to suit the person we are talking to.
What do you think, are mannerisms and personality changes the same thing?