Does myLot discussions need to have questions for you to comment?

Philippines
February 1, 2013 12:32am CST
I'm not sure and a bit lazy to check it out if I need to put questions in my discussions. Anyone can react to it differently and any way they want. So I think there's no need to add specific questions... right? Would it be better though? What if I just want to share what happened to me and that's all?
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
1 Feb 13
I don't think that a discussion topic always needs a specific question though asking some questions at the end will sometimes make it easier for people to respond. It all depends on how you word the question, however. You need to avoid making the question(s) capable of being answered in just a few words because that would be often be considered to be a "poll type" discussion. Writing a good discussion topic isn't always easy at first. You need to encourage people to respond at length and descriptively by the way that you word the topic. You also need to think about the way in which YOU will reply to the responses you get. I don't wish to criticise anyone in particular as a 'bad example' but I suggest that you look at two of the discussions which you have responded to recently: "Are you bookish?" and "Gardening for Health". Both of them (as it happens) have, at the moment, 11 responses but in one the OP has not taken the trouble to come back to DISCUSS the topic, while in the other the OP has replied to nearly all the responses and has had something worthwhile to say to all of them. Which do you think is the better discussion and why? In the first one (which contains three quite separate questions), what have most people chosen to respond to? Why do you think that the OP hasn't replied to any of them (as yet)?
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
1 Feb 13
Incidentally, I have 'bookmarked' this discussion as a 'topic of interest' in my list. It is something which I think more people should be aware of when learning to use MyLot!
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
3 Feb 13
This BR was chosen quite-early, but was such a good response that I think I'll 'let it slide' To answer the question: not exactly. When you start the discussion, you want to aim to have others continue the discussion (hopefully to have you continue their response, hopefully to have them continue their reply, etc.) 'Using a question in the subject-line' tells people that there is a space for them to fill in your discussion.
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
I checked out those 2 discussions now and I do get what you mean. I sometimes don't log in to myLot everyday and just get back to my discussions which I have't responded to when I find the time. The longest time that I haven't log in here was a year. I left no discussions (that I started) during that time though because I had no idea when I'll be able to come back. Anyway going back to questions, I see now that not all discussions are that interesting have questions in them.
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@babyanna (1216)
• China
1 Feb 13
Hi, giggles~ I'm pretty sure it's okay not to put questions in your discussions. As long as your experience is something other people can attach to, it should be fine. Don't share recipes or lyrics, though. You'll probably get banned for that. Have a nice day~
@babyanna (1216)
• China
1 Feb 13
Sometimes I try to answer the questions posted in the discussions. Sometimes I just relate. There is no definite answer like you mentioned yourself. So I think you're doing pretty fine. If you get responses from people and your discussions don't get banned, there should be nothing to worry about.
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• Philippines
6 Feb 13
Hopefully none of my discussions will get banned. :D
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
I get the point where people asks questions but sometimes people don't ask the right questions. I'm not sure if I'm making sense but yes I think most people can relate to my discussions.
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
1 Feb 13
You will not make much headway here if you are lazy to go through guidelines and faqs. To clear your doubt the topics that we post should generate quality discussions which could sometime include questions too.
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• Philippines
1 Feb 13
Ok thanks. I usually do read the guidelines but sometimes my thoughts wanders away when I type my discussion and sometimes forget to ask questions and realize it after I pressed the start discussion.
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@allknowing (137552)
• India
1 Feb 13
Then you need to be alert is all what I can say!
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
No, it doesn't matter if you put a question mark or not. You are just sharing your thoughts and it is not a requirement to put a question mark. right? Anyone of course can react on your shared discussions and it depends on them how they deliver their thoughts whether if it is in a question or statement way.
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• Philippines
3 Feb 13
Hi kokomo! I read some discussions that are like a diary and maybe because they have a lot of friends who follow their story so they get a lot of responses. I'll try my best to make my discussions interesting every time.
• India
2 Feb 13
I don't think it's necessary to have questions as I have seen many discussions staying on the top which are actually without questions. If you have something interesting to say then you should share and it will automatically become a discussion. So just enjoy your stay at myLot.
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
Thank you. I'll come up with more interesting discussions next time. I just hope it would stir up a conversation.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
2 Feb 13
Nope, they don't need questions. And it's easier to respond back to answers that aren't pointed out on a single question, it makes the scope broader and easier to talk about.
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• Philippines
3 Feb 13
Exactly my point with my other discussions. Asking questions can be redundant at times so I make it free style.
• Penrith, Australia
3 Feb 13
Although, you can direct responses using questions, it doesn't limit creativity, at the end of the day, ideas are ideas. Although it can be nice if someone gives an unexpected answer to the question, it opens you to a different perspective on it.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
2 Feb 13
I hoI'm not pretty late. ALL members who have joined this discussion have clearly explained to you about your inquiry. Anyway, just want to add, being lazy here won't bring you a pot of money.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 13
Yup I got that leateagee. You're not late in this discussion but I guess you didn't read the first response I got from allknowing either.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
1 Feb 13
A lot would be responding if you ask a certain question on your post to make it really a lively discussion among the members. But posting like something that you wanna share is fine, too. Just make it sound a bit interesting so that people will respond to your post.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 13
Thanks, I do think that a simple question can better direct the discussion. I would just have to reread my discussion before posting it so I would know if it's worth responding to it.
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@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
1 Feb 13
Well, it depends on what your discussion is all about . If you want to know something from the people here, then you will post it in as the question and if you are just sharing something, then you are just posting your emotion, without any questions. There is another instance where-in people share their experiences and they ask others to share their experiences too. That way, it is both telling and asking. What ever it is, anything that makes sense will get response to it, irrespective of whether it is with a question or not.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 13
Thanks for the advice shrijsr. I'll keep that in mind whenever I start another discussion. It's good to know others' opinions on this.
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Feb 13
Someone with a TON of experience once said that asking questions in every discussion could make it turn into a poll type of discussion which is not allowed here. So, on some discussions I ask a question but definitely not all... I prefer not to ask a question now a days but sometimes I do if I really need something answered.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 13
Is an open-ended question also a poll type question? Open-ended is not answerable with a yes or no. I think it really depends because if you're asking opinions, which is indefinite, then not all would respond to it the same way.
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
It's likely that people will respond to a discussion with questions because that is easy to answer. It won't always guarantee many responders though. New members usually care for these things, like getting more responders. To me, the quality of the posts posted by the responders is more important than the quantity. It's more fun if the responders interact and respond back after you respond to them.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 13
Quality over quantity, yes you're right. There's no point of discussing a topic if people don't react to it though. Well, I guess it's a case to case basis. Thanks Aja!
@besweet (9859)
• Ireland
1 Feb 13
Not necessarily! When I am starting discussions I might ask a question or write my thoughts, it depends on my mood and what I have in my mind. If I want to share my thoughts, I might not make a question and let other people share their opinion on the subject. Sometimes it might be an observation without a specific question, it is exactly how it happens in every day life's discussions with people around us. As long as it doesn't violate any guidelines, you can express your thoughts in a discussion with the format you like most, with or without a question.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 13
Thanks besweet! Sharing my experiences as a discussion makes other people also share theirs. And if I'm lucky I get advice too.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Feb 13
Unless you want to ask some information about a certain thing or topic. But personally, I don't usually start a discussion with a question. Sometimes, this kind of discussion would would fall under the category of poll type discussion and might get deleted. Although not all. Just be careful on how you deliver the question. Have a nice day!
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• Philippines
2 Feb 13
Asking information? Yes I've done that before when I wanted to ask help in choosing a product. Thankfully mine wasn't deleted. Reading more and more discussions of others also helped me too.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
2 Feb 13
Hi there ! You can start a discussion with or with out question , it is all up to your creativity and how you expresses yourself . Just see to it that it is a quality one , meaning audience will get something from that discussion and it doesn't break any rules and FAQ that is the most important thing . It would be best if you'll post your best piece so you will earn a lot and you don't know it might be a great help to other people reading it.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 13
Hi Angelpink! What do you mean by best piece? Please elaborate on that because I sure would want to earn more here. Thanks!
@vicky30 (4766)
• India
2 Feb 13
The discussions need not have questions for me to comment. If there are questions it becomes much easier for me to respond to the discussion. Sometimes people share their holiday and travelling stories without questions, then i too share my holiday and travelling stories. If you add questions in your discussions, there are chances of getting lot of responses. Also the discussion should be an interesting discussion for people to respond to you.
• Philippines
3 Feb 13
I also respond to others' discussions who share their experience only and don't asks questions. I also agree that having a direct question can help but you'll probably expect the same answers. Unless you ask lots of questions in the discussion then maybe people will answer to all or just some of it.
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
1 Feb 13
I think it's perfectly fine to just share. Sharing begets more sharing. I would still respond to your post, even if there wasn't a direct question.
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• Philippines
1 Feb 13
Yup I noticed that earlier, thanks! I know open ended questions are good but sometimes when you're so into what you're typing, you miss that out and sometimes think that people reading your discussion gets it.
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• United States
2 Feb 13
For me, it has not made a difference when I start a discussion. As for replies, I will reply to anything that catches my interest, question or not.
• Philippines
3 Feb 13
Same here, but it's nice to know what others also think about asking questions.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
5 Feb 13
Some posts need questions and some don`t. It depends on what each of us is talking about and what is the kind of response that one is seeking. Most of my posts have a question at the middle or end of the post, but it is not an obligation. I have discovered though that people prefer to answer posts with a question because it`s easier to know where to start. At least it happens to me
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
Hi marguicha! I've seen those posts that have no questions and I see there's no need for it. I'd respond to it either way as well. I noticed as well that people tend to respond to discussions with questions and I am one of them.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
4 Feb 13
I thought they couldn't be questions at all, but sadly most of what I comment on are.
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
Pegasus I think based on what they responded here it's not wrong to have questions. I would suggest you grow through owlwings' response because it is better explained there, it's comment #5.
• Taiwan
1 Feb 13
Here you can share everything in your mind, not only just for questions. I think it is great to share what interested things you've seen.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 13
I've noticed that with others' discussions that I've read.