Did I read it right?

Yeah, I guess so. But I am just not used to him saying that. I feel weird right after reading his message. Maybe he was drunk or something!

Poor guy. Don't give him names!Take it in your stride jenny and move on.

Well, actually, I don't. I have long been thinking about how this person is to me. And that thinking about him in a different way is out of the picture. Besides, I know how guys are. They would be hitting on every girl they would come across with. The reason why I even made this post was just to share what happened and if there were instances that others have been into the situation. I don't ave any feelings for this guy other than being a friend.

Boy what a relief for you that he let you know what happened. Now you don't have to worry about your friendship.

That is exactly what happened. He sent me a message this morning and told me he was checking his text messages and saw that he sent me a message which was supposed to be for his wife. Thank goodness!

Yup! I just hate throwing away good friendship. Atleast, that one was saved!

Yep, the less problems, the merrier~

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I am very sure of myself not to fall into that kind of trap. I've got of problems as it is, no use of addinganother one.

I'd rather not tell him about it coz it will just definitely be a cause of a huge argument. I thought that he might be "meaning" those words coz he have actually told me last year that he has feelings for me but I told him I do not feel the same way towards him. I made it clear to him.

I am a lot cautious with guys who are close to me. I mean, I am no longer a teenager, and I know where to put myself. I am not interested with him other than being his good friend.

ahhhh now I know why you thought romantically, there was precedence. this will be a very complicated sight. testing the waters hmmmm.. and will you be tested with it? it is all up to you.

Hi, Andrew! Yup! He did send me a message the day after and told me that if was actually for his wife. It just so happened that his wife's name is above mine on his phonebook. and maybe just the fore of habit of texting me most of the time coz of our reunion which is on July.

Yeah it would be a force of habit. I have had some of my guys friends send me "xxx" at the end of messages from force of habit with sending them to their gfs......at least I hope it was. Joking aside it was, sure at least now you can laugh about it.

Hahaha! yeah, maybe! Too bad i wasn't up for it. I didn't reply back.

too bad for him.lol

Now that I know the background I think my response above will change slightly

Hello, Dainy! Thanks for dropping by. Actually, I have just started being close to this person about 4 years ago when I asked for his help with regards to printing of election shirts. And then I have thought of making it as my online business wherein I always ask for his help for my other requirements in the business. We were classmates in high school but we never talked at that time. He was one of my closest friend's boyfriend then. Anyway, just before Christmas, he tole me that he has this feelings for me which I told him that I am sorry coz I do not feel the same way towards him and I just see him as a friend. Then he said that it was fine. He just felt like letting me know about it. And so I was fine. Then just yesterday, he said those words. And we weren't even talking about us. We were talking about our High School Reunion. I was thinking that it must be sort of slip of the tongue...well, it was through a test message, so must be he tyoed it absent-mindedly. I never texted him back to ask him what was it all about.

Hello, dear! Thanks for sharing your thoughts.... Actually, he has send me a message and apologized for sending the message to me when he intended to send it to his wife. I was just shocked when I got the message coz I ave clearly told him before Christmas that I do not feel anything special towards him other than as a friend. And so getting a message as that came in as a surprise.

Thanks, SIMPLYD! I do feel the same way as what you have advised. No point of being close to a person if he would be seeing me differently. But, as I have previously mentioned on my responses to those who gave their comments about my post, he told me that the message was actually for his wife , but he accidentally sent it to my number coz his wife name is just ahead of mine on his phonebook.

Oh my! It's a good thing that it was his message for his wife that was sent to you. What if it's a message for you that was inadvertently sent to you? Well, maybe her wife isn't a jealous woman.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, aminul. Actually, this mystery has been solved! He apologized to me the other say and told me that it was really intended for his wife who happens to be just above my name on his phonebook.

Thanks, Vivek! It's no longer a mind-bugging message for me. He said that it was really for his wife and that he sent it to me by accident.

He could have said it as "luv u, friend". But he didn't attach the word friend after it. Anyway, he doesn't have issues with hie marriage..well, that is atleast what I know. Besides, I woudn't want to be involve in such situation. His wife sent me Christmas and New Year's greetings and I felt that she was sweet to send them coz we are not really close and we have just talked just about twice over the phone. I told him about those messages that his wife sent and his wife's reason for that was among all his girl friends, I was the only one she felt comfortable with. And I want her to be safe with me being around. I'd hate to spoil her trust.

yeah, you may be right, too. But I would never ask him about it anymore. I am just thinking that he must just have typed it absent-mindedly. If he did say what he really means, I don't think that i should be encouraging him.

HAhaha! You are so funny! The reason why I thought that the text might have been meant for me coz he has told me before that he has feelings for me which I discourage him to continue living in that fantasy. And i made it clear with him that I only see him as a friend. I was surprised that he would still be saying those things.

You're right! It was the slip of his finger (or he was really thinking about me that time but wanted to send a message to his wife). Well, the mystery has been solved. The message was really for his wife whose name appears before my name on his phone book.

Thanks, Angelpink! I'll keep that in mind..... But his message is now clear to me. It was supposed to be for his wife.

So one this that we have to always remember is not to jump into conclusions! But then, he should have been careful with telling it, right?