how do i get over someone I have strong feelings for?

The best way to forget someone is to fall for someone else. The big negative side of this is that you might end up falling for the wrong person because your only intention is getting over your previous one. THe best thing I see that you should do is just to find things to take it off your mind you know. DO things you love to do. Go out with your friends, have a blast. Just make sure that you really want to break up with him before you try these. Or you could just try to work it out with him again.

this is tragic if you want to get over someone just date someone else and if you cant get over that person with the other then you guys should sit your butts down and work your problems out cause its obvious you cant get over each ohter and by the wa ther's no way on earh you can get out without a broken heart

If you still have feeling to him,It may be hard to get over him. He will be still in your mind.just as me ,I broke up with my boyfriend several time, but we still together now. Forgive and accepte him, though it's hard to forgive.but without him, I feel the life is miserable.

have a heart to heart talk with your friend and see what feelings there are that each of you have for each other. in my opinion there will always be some sort of feelings for each other whether wth each other or not, and each does not want to have a broken heart. the best is to talk to each other about what is taking place in each's heart. you never know he might be feeling the same way about you.

Really sorry to hear that but i think you should also listen to your boyfriend and see how he regard this relationship.It works and also equal for both of you,then you need to decide whether you should move on,love is not easy.

Well, if he already knows how you feel about his closeness to your cousin and still brushed it off, maybe he doesn't have that much consideration for your feelings. Maybe he still needs more time to realize that relationships are two way streets, that its a give and take and people in a relationship make compromises. If all's been said and done and now you just want to move on, start by severing all sorts of contact with him: don't visit his Facebook page, hang out with friends that are not also his friends, make new ones if necessary, start a new hobby or try out something that you've been wanting to y but keep putting off, spend time with your family. Give it time, moving on doesn't happen overnight. And pray. Let go of your despair little by little until you have purged the bad feelings put off your system. It's a long process but it impossible.

There is no way out of it without being hurt. Pain is a part of life, but it will pass after time. It does seem like it would be best for you to get out of this relationship as there is no trust there. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who will help you through the tough times, and remember that in time you'll find someone else who will be better for you.

I don't think that it is ever possible not to feel heartbroken when your boyfriend did broke your heart by being dishonest about what is really going on between him and your cousin. The pain will go away if you will focus more on the important things that needs your immediate attention.

There is no plan, there are no rules you should stick to to get over it. In time you will feel less miserable. In the meanwhile the only thing you can do is take good care of yourself and start living again, planning your life. Be happy each time your survive and do something for you. It's surely not of any help but it happened to most of us and to many even several times in their life.

Face it, your heart is already broken. You accept it and prevent any further damage. Hmmm... let me think, how did I get over my ex? Well, I just keep thinking he was such a jerk and a waste of my time. I think of all the bad things about him and turned him into a villain in my mind. It was not hard to hate him and with that, I pampered myself by shopping, doing things I enjoy, hanging out with my friends and so on. It wasn't that hard to forget him if you just believe that you deserve someone better. Also, a proper closure between you two is important. Stay your ground and make up your mind. Don't be swayed easily by your feelings for him.

I think you should become brave and courageous by now. You should hire a private detective and spot your boyfriend. That will help you sort out your problem.

i've been in the same situation last year with my ex-boyfriend.we had a hard time too, we couldn't find the necessary resources to go further with the relationship.we took breaks and this helped us just for a period of time. so we took the decision to go on separate ways, even if we still had feelings for each other. the best thing to do is stay away from him, from the places you went together.make new friens, keep your mind busy, i know it's very hard but you may end up hurting if he's in love with your cousin.think that you deserve more, you should have his entire attention, not only when he needs you.i hope you'll get through this hard situation