What if one day, you heard those words from him....

funny but i just told my husband a while ago that i think it's ok with me if he's gay as long as he won't replace or cheat on me, but it's a joke of course. I won't want my man to be gay, I need a pure man of course. If you can try to avoid falling inlove harder for this man, but if you can't then try and see how would you react when you're in real situation of his gayness.

hi, if that will happen i will surely get angry of course because the person who i loved is a gay but that is life and we need to accept it,and he is a human being also and i need to respect him no matter what happen,though we can not be a lover but we can be friends.

if i am in the womans shoes,i will just forget him.it would be very hard for a woman to marry a gay man.

I have never been in that kind of situation. And I guess, it could be difficult to deal with. Imagine your nemesis being a man! While he may say that he loves me that much, I don't think that I would ever feel the same way about him after learning the truth. Much better if he can be true to himself altogether.

Well, I 'll say with him that he should be true with his self. But, for me, I would not accept his love. He should find his true happiness and he can just see it through guys too. I will say with him that he should not be hypocrite and he will not be happy with me.

If it is really love then nothing should be a big enough condition to stop you from loving each other, I say go for it, if it doesn't work, you can be bestfriends and he can help you with your dresses and your hair and that seems cool.

I think this is difficult, but i would probably not give him a chance, because the fact that he cannot promise to act like a true man, i might just have second thoughts there. it is not like he was telling me he wants me but might also want to be someone else(that is going to be a big problem for me) I do not want to be with a man who cannot fully commit himself to me... even if he loves me.

Under those circumstances, my thought is that you should just be loving friends. Let him live his life as he wants...he may eventually feel trapped by you if you try to have an intimate relationship with him. Let him go.

well it depends on your feeling towards gays. if what you desire is a real man in your life and he cant be that for you think i think you will live with a lot of disappointment and regret. think about the situation from all angles if this man is really attracted to men dont you think that one day his urges will get the best of him and he will cheat on you? what if you continue with the relationship and it just ends in disaster because there is nothing holding you guys together. i think that situation just spells heart ache for a woman, i wouldnt continue with it.

Now that is something... not sure what id think to say to him. First why would he be with a woman if he was gay? I guess he could have a man and a woman. not sure of that one...