If you're only asking for a favor---don't be demanding

Wow..sounds like someone really crossed the line. I hate for people to treat me like I owe them something. I can be talked in to most anything but when it comes to demanding spoiled brat stuff, I have an issue with it too.

Oh yea this happens all the time with people and sometimes they are not aware that they are being too bossy even if they are the ones asking for the favor. I remember one time where a friend asked if she can borrow money and i said okay sure because she told me when she would pay it back. The thing was she wanted me to meet her in a place where it is inconvenient for me... oh my she was the one asking for help and she should probably at least make it convenient ffor me right"? There is this unwritten rule whhen you are asking for favors you are supposed to be the one who complies with the other person... right?

Yes my friend. You are right. If we are asking for anything we are pleasing them to do things which we are responsible for it. So be humble and act not a boss. Treat a people who do great things to you in free of payment with guaranty that you are helping them.Once we are helping by others at all matters we need to accept it with humility. And be thankful to God that there are people who helped us in the middle of needs. Let's be thankful always.

Some people are never happy and they always think other people owe them something. I cannot stand this attitude in people. I know a few people myself who act like I owe them something when I don't that is for sure but they just have that attitude like their better than me. If your doing something nice for someone and asking nothing in return they should be grateful for what they get!

That is exactly one of the reasons I don't like to do anyone a favour anymore. Each time this demanding, never a thanks, taking it all for granted and if you need a hand... I will keep your: favour - FREE in mind.

True ! We are just asking for a favor so no right to be arrogant ! There are really people who are born arrogant , bossy and like a manager. It is a very bad manner. Sometimes you need to tell the person involved frankly , that he have no right for acting like that so that he won't do same to other people or even to you and so he will realized and learn good manners and right conduct.

When someone is bossy and demanding, I compare him/her to an ember which is glowing fire. Or we may have misunderstood him; he may have committed an error by using wrong words. Be that it may, douse him with cold water that is ignore his behaviour and deal with him in a more kindly way. We are a web of friends, isn't it?

hi there ccmacarayan, as i have read your post, it looks like you are mad at some point. just take it easy and somehow be cool, perhaps the other party is quite pressured at some instance. hope you can faced it swiftly.