Will you keep loving someone who will never be yours?

hi there blitz1224, apparently it is quite difficult to love a person in the situation you have given. its like your partner feel the boredom while having the relationship. but as you have asked, well, i will still loved the guy if i found in him my greatest love.

I would probably give it a shot and make my partner convinced to save the relationship. However, if my partner really insists that this won’t work out. Then I will not push myself to be attached to that person because I know that it won’t really salvage the relationship. It also makes some people think that you are so, pity because you want it to work out even though you know that it’s tearing apart. If such would occur, just move on! And find someone who is more deserving for your love and when that time would come, then that’s the time you brag your new boyfriend/girlfriend and make your ex regret on what he/she did to your relationship.

i will definitely let go.its very hard to be in a one way love affair were you give your all and nothings coming back for you.any relationship wont stay long in that situation.

It will be like stabbing your heart all over again every single day! I don't think that it is even healthy to do coz it would literally drive you insane. Well, maybe you could not completely forget about the person, but to allow yourself to love that person that much is crazy! Why waste your time loving when that person could never love you back? Why not allow yourself to love another person who is willing to love you back just the way you want it?

That would depend on the reason why your partner fell out of love. You gotta to the reason and I guess once you get to know why, you can decide whether or not to fight for that love or just let him go.

To be fair, I would try to get them back if I really loved them because I have been in that situation before. However, if I knew there would be no chance, I would just let it go and move on. I know it's hard but sometimes in life we just have to learn to move on :)

If the person I loved fell out of love with me, especially to be with someone else, I don't think I would fight too hard to make them stay. If you really loved someone, you couldn't fall for someone else. And if someone doesn't want to stay they won't. I tried to fight for someone I loved and it blew up in my face. I guess it made me cynical. I'm not sure. But I believe there is someone out there for everybody and you never know when your true match will strut into your life.

Although the scenario presented by you is indeed a 'tough one' to deal with, the truth is that perhaps, it would be better for you to let go. If you decide to fight for it, you will be using more ofyour resources which will not be appreciated by the other individual. Therefore, being practical, it would better to for you to 'count your losses' and move on.

no in order for you to love others you gotta love yourself first. Respect yourself and stop trying to chase something who wouldn't even bother to see inside you.

Hello, there are different things on saying if you love someone you should "let go" or "hold on". In your situation, your partner has fallen out of love but you still want him/her, then you ask if you would fight or let go. The answer would be TO LET GO. As the song goes "you know I'd fight for you but how can I fight for someone who isn't even there". You are fighting for someone who does not love you anymore, have some time for yourself and let go. Except if the situation is different, if he/she would ask you to fight for her/him and you fight for your love then go and fight for it. You have the reason to fight but if your partner leaves you hanging then that's not worth fighting for.

I think I will but not the "I want to you to love me too" kind of love. I think I will just keep him in my heart but I have to move on with my life and be happy too. I believe that loving someone is a choice too and to be happy with some other else is to free your heart form bitterness and anger. Of course I will fight but when I could see that it's not going anywhere I would just accept the fact that he has change of heart and there is nothing I can do for it. It would just prolong the pain I'm suffering within. Well as for me.. I need to free myself and move on in life and find someone else. At least this time I know what to do and how to do it. Every failure should suppose to teach a lesson and make us wiser.

You know what, if that person already fell out of love on you, you can still try to work it out. When all else fail then its the time to let go and move on...