Is it right to kill flowers for a relationship?

I still love receiving fresh ones. It is quite odd to receive fake ones. LOL. Flowers were created to make someone happy. It is giving life and hope to people in bed... it shows love and appreciation of a child to a mother. Doesn't mean killing as in killing... they will still bloom again and sprout new buds for a new person's happiness and delight. Plants need to be pruned... it helps them regenerate new stems, leaves and buds. if your BF told you.. "I will kill this for you" holding another man's head... then that is something different. means he is jealous hahaha. .joke

Think about this the next time you eat a carrot or any other vegetables or even fruits, herbs etc......? They are living plants

well tgar is right. I think though that it is not niw that we havr ti be thibkining about what she should not be doing. we have been plucking flowers for years you know and its hard to stop this now. i am not a fan of flowers myself and i told mybf to not waste money onitanymore.

Plants, animals, humans, they have their own rule to play in this world. I don't find anything wrong plucking flowers to give it to someone special. Although I like them better as plants in places like yards or balcony, like adding color and life especially to our homes. What I won't agree is just plucking them then throw away in garbage cans.

Your words are perfectly right not only in a right way, but all means. Not to puck the flowers is a good habit for all who likes their fragrance and beauty. I never used to tear any branch of flower plant. Even God also rejects flower worship. But people are not showing interest on flower's feeling while of plucking. There is strictly no need to use any type of flowers at all to regularize human relations at any stage in my words.

At least in a romantic relationship, you shud do whatever makes you romantic. If you feel not to use green blood, its ok, dont use it, at least for the sake of a tuned romance. But if someone feels, others r practicing a wrong thing, that makes un-necessary contradiction. The rule of the game is "Survival of the fittest". After all flowers are symbols of good relationship. So it is used widely. The intention is good. I dont find anything wrong in such type of murder. And about plastics, by using it in excess may destroy the whole planet. Thank you.

Hi! You have a very valid point to make. plucking flowers is like killing living beings. But what to do many do farming of plants for the sake or getting flowers and trade of flowers runs in millions. If you think seriously on this issue then we just cannot eat non vegetarian dishes and can not even drink the milk of cow etc. Plastic flowers can not be a good substitute of natural flowers.

Actually if they are cut correctly more will grow in their stead. This isn't always the case so some are hurt. I hope you will educate your boyfriend about flowers though so he won't think that they always die.

I don't think that flowers are a great present for valentine's day and it is because the same reason you mentioned that we are just killing a living plant to give them to someone. They then later die and are kind of a waste of money. The best valentine's day gifts in my opinion are things that you can do with your partner such as going out to dinner or watching a movie or something. I'm looking forward to valentine's day though because I look for any excuse to spoil my girlfriend and get her awesome presents. I'm hoping that I won't have to work a double shift at my jobs so that way my girlfriend and I can actually spend some time together on valentine's day.

Yes you have a really good point. I guess I never really thought about it that way. I never get flowers. The last time I had flowers was probably eight years. Now that I have read this and really thought about it I probably will not get or give flowers again. Fake flowers can be nice and like you said they last longer. And we can really look around to try and find nicer fake ones.

Hi divineathena. Though your logic is correct but it is not rational. If you think that way there are lot of things we do and things we use that might hurt those trees and plants. But that is how the things are. So unless the activity is causing a serious threat for the species we should accept those activities as part of life. For instance, one should not worry about killing chickens for eating because there are plenty of them and they are not going to get extinct. Have a nice day !! SuperShames

No its not right...... Buddha says everyone have life.