apology rejected,, friendship over?

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Sorry to hear that you broke up with your dear friend. I might had fight with friends, but I seldom broke up with them though. It is different from boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. On last year, me and my friend went on a trip to San Diego, California; we both have disagreement, and he was a big ego guy, so at some point of this trip, we might mad at each other. Until now, he only called me once, and I answer it. Ever since, we didn't contact each other much. I guess that we still mad at each other but we won't say it out loud.

I tend to forget small problems, but will not forget a big breach of friendship. I can accept an apology, but that will not leave everything as it was before. When trust is broken, there´s no repair.

A pleasant day Daisy_22, There are times this things really happen and so as to me, I have encountered this situation so many times. Sometimes I am the friend who asked for an apology and sometimes I was the one who is being asked off. And for me, apology are given and accepted depends on how heavy the situation. Hence, it can also compared to a glass, that once broken, it cannot be back to its good shape.

After the friendship has been damaged, everything won’t be same as before. Since even though we can forgive friend who has hurt us, the trust can’t be gained easily anymore. Since if we are friends then it means that we are trusting each other but when a friend hurt us, it’s the betrayal of trust and so I think that’s very hard to be regained again. For the fear that friend will hurt us again, although that friend may remain as friend but we can’t trust him/her again.