Plastic people is always everywhere.
By ardoy0731
@ardoy0731 (7308)
Philippines
February 4, 2013 11:05pm CST
Indeed people are really different from each others. There are some similarities sometimes yet we are still different from one another.
We deal will different people everyday wherein some are nice and there are also some that are not so.
Plastic people is alwasy everywhere I guess. There are some who are so nice when you are with them yet once you turn your back, there already changed as if they dont know you. Those people telling nice things about you when they are with you yet telling bad things to the others wherein lies and bad things due to envy and jelousy. Better tell it straight to the person than telling other poeple which is quite exaggerated sometimes which turn to be bad.
We are different of each others but if we dont like a person or something about a person better tell it to the concern person rather being plastic. Better tell it straight to the person to clarify thing rather than retaliating and telling it to other peoplel wherein sometimes it exaggerated already and adding some part which are not true in the first place.
Better ignore plastic people rather than wasting our time with them cause its not worth it.
Cause the more we let them act that way to us, the more the do it more often.
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9 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
5 Feb 13
It's hard to completely ignore such people most especially if they are members of a family.
Instead of getting myself in trouble, I just go with the flow...
Instead of getting myself in trouble, I just go with the flow...@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
Yeah going with flow is an option but I better ignore them so I wont get annoyed lol. What is hard is thag the person that you assumed to be a friend is the one who are plastic in front of you then telling the other way around if with other people.
@randomarts09 (1405)
• Indonesia
28 Feb 13
I can just say ignore them since you are not there to please them. If the people around you pretend to be nice while you’re around and telling bad things about you when you’re not around, then it’s better for you to be just superficial around them. Don’t tell them about too much things about you which will get you in the trouble. But just being polite around them and being superficial around them. This is usually what happen in workplace. Did you mean about plastic people in your workplace?
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
28 Feb 13
Yeah I can consider one in the office who seems to be nice to me when we are talking then suddenly talk about exaggerated things to other people. Even some of my movements was been noticed. I just ignored the person to avoid getting irritated and annoyed about it.
@kourdapya (924)
• Philippines
5 Feb 13
So are you surrounded by "plastic" or fake people? Well, that's difficult if most people around you pretend to be nice when you're around, but when you're not, the say bad things about you, if I read you right?
Anyway, to me they are some people who are not really "plastic" as you call them. Maybe some of them are just polite or they'd rather not tell you those not so nice things straight to your face because they don't want your feelings to get hurt.
Can you share some instances where those people showed their being "plastic' to you?
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
Here at work we dont have uniform at all so we could clothes that we want as long as its presentable. I bought some polo during year end sale in the nearby mall in the office so I could wear something new at work. The first time I wear the polo this one colleague that I assume to be friend, saw it and said that it look nice to me and so on. Then eventually I heard that that person was chatting and talking with our former colleague telling that I am now wearing polo and feeling boss, in fact the person even know how many polo I am wearing at work. The person even tell that I am aiming for some position that's why I am wearing polo now.
I assume that the person is a friend wherein all the things that the person says to me is true yet the person tell different things about me when with other people.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
5 Feb 13
Right now, I want people who shows their real color right away. Me, I don't make an effort now to be extra nice, nice but I also show my real feelings now and I am happy for doing it. Some people say I don't smile a lot to them so I tried to smile even if there is no reason to smile and then I will hear some find me weird because I always had smile on my face.
I want people to show their real color right away so I have time to get out of their zone as fast as I could.
I want people to show their real color right away so I have time to get out of their zone as fast as I could.@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
Yeah it is really to show who we really are to avoid conflicts and misjudgement from other people. If they really like us and love us. They will accept us and all about us whether good and not so good.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
5 Feb 13
Don't worry ardoy, they will be banned in the future. The government is in the process of eliminating plastic in the society.
I would say, don't give that much attention. You are not here to live in order to please them. Have a nice day!
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
I am hoping for that in the future as well lol.
That is what I am always doing, ignoring them and dint give much attention since it is not worth it at all. Trying to be just civil and dont make any personal relationship to avoid regrets in the end.
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
People who are talking trash behind your back is really annoying and to think when you are with them they talked nice to you.. you are right I guess they were just jelous of who or what you are.. maybe they are living a life full of regrets and loneliness.. dealing with them is really hard to do specially when you have to be with them every single day.. so its better to ignore them besides being plastic will take you no where..
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
Yeah better ignore them than to be annoy an irritated all along. We better not waste our time with them since it is not worth it. They hard to ignore sometimes sincr we used to see them all time especially if we work with them.
@jonastabuena (2307)
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
You're so right about this, they're annoying actually, but there is a question in my mind, why they doing this to me or to other people, why they act like that? what things went wrong? It think it is more hurting when someone speak up in-front of your face that he/she don't like you for a reason, in my opinion plastic person are just being civil in-front you. Telling how you feel or what you feel in-front of the person involve is very hard. Anyway plastic persons are good in acting. As for me, i let them be, plastic person has the problem, not me. They're not the one who give me air to breath. Better Ignore them or talk to them.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
5 Feb 13
I don't think all "plastic" people or people with "plastic" smiles behave like that on purpose. Many of them are raised like that as well. Always have to be friendly, never showing their feelings. Which doesn't mean they are mean and will stab you in the back. I think as long as people don't want to show themselves or simply just can't show themselves this doesn't mean you have to neglect or ignore them. They still can be friendly, good to you.
