Some time happiness and some time sadness in life why?

Surekha beti I know he loves you so much, he canceled the mela programme there must be some reason behind, you must ask him the reason, there is no need to get sad and cry; just persuade him he will take you for a candle night dinner in a good hotel. Thanks for sharing

Woah surekha.. be careful of what you say. It isn't God's fault that you husband said no. Actually it is no one's fault. Everything happens as it is destined to and this destiny depends on your deeds in your current and previous lives. What I'm trying to say is when something bad happens, don't blame god. Apart from that I'm sorry that you are unable to go

I am so sorry to hear how the mood has changed because of the decision. i can feel that because i have had that happened to me as well. When i have expected something and then i am already prepared for it, then something would happen that what i planned won't push through i would really be disappointed and sad that it is not going to happen anymore. Life is really like that, with the constant change we are faced with, we are sure not to be assured of anything in this life. i believe there is always in between though when something does not seem to be happening - when life gets boring, when you are happy, you can be sad in just a minutes time due to the sudden news we receive. And it is always like this. life comes with good news and bad news. sometimes happening one after the other.

Hello SR Well, sad that your program got ended like that. But that's how life is for everyone. No partiality to anyone. I mean to say in our life we always see such turn around. I mean sometimes happy and sometime sad. So be happy in our happy time, and don't be sad in sad time as we can see happy time next day or later on for sure.

Hi girl. We just always need to remember that life is not perfect. There is no sense of life if you will not experience sadness. Its a way of realizing that not all in this world are complete.

Life it's hard sometimes, but we have to remember that if there aren't ups and down in our life, then it's not life. All that matters it's to not regret anything you've done/you're doing. And, about your problem, I think you're thinking too much about it, maybe he wasn't prepared for this yet, or an urgent thing came up. You can prepare a whole life for something, then when you're about to do it, it came something urgent and you have to delay it. Don't worry, maybe next time he'll can travel with you :).

Don't be so sad. If you can't go on the holy trip now. There is always another time. Remember life is only beautiful if we choose it to be.

Hi surekha, there always another time and also remember that one can have many more difficult situations in life and instead of crying over what has happened , you should think of the future and start planning...that is being positive and others too would respond favorably to such a situation, dont worry, good things will come to you, all the best

Yes it is life. Some sweet and some bitter. Listen song of film Piya Ka Ghar. "Yeh Jeevan Hai is jeevan ka Yahi Hai Rang Roop, Thodey Gam Hai thodi Kusiyan,Yehai Hai chanv dhoop" I am sending you an email, plz reply it.

Not all we want can be exactly what we need. so when we are not able to get what we expect to come or to happen, sadness steps in. But when we expect something to happen and it did happen, then naturally, we find happiness.

Because life is perfect in our imaginations. Perfectly perfect---without ANY flaws. Which makes the flaws in real life even more-flawful When it's raining, do you expect the clouds to part to keep your path dry? No! But sometimes it isn't raining on your path

Hi surekha Sometimes God has His reasons for not wanting us to be at a certain place at a certain time. There is always another time for this special occasion. Who knows, your hubby could be planning another trip and just didn't want you to know about it. Just hope for the best.

Ohhh talkative women dont thing negative and dont discourage I know you are strong women and you can face any situation in life. Try to talk with your husband and say dont cancel the plan because the matter is related to God. Dont cry because you are looking good when laugh not cry.

Well,i do not think you need to feel crying though can be sad.There should have been a reason for which your husband would have skipped the trip.It can be either he is comfortable or is lazy.But you could go with family.Coming back to your question, well life is like coin .We have two sides to it.Good and bad.Both comprises of life.And we are expected to know and experience both of them.There is no life with only sadness and there is no life with only happiness.Each of these things in small or big size would come in our lives in lifetimes sooner or later.Never feel so happy on good times and never be disheartened on bad times.And as why God is doing such things, i hope no one in this mortal world has such answers.But then things would become beautiful in coming days.There is sunrise after every sunset.so do not worry things.Things will become in coming days.Thanks!

You are right,my friend.Sometimes,life looks so beautiful filled with happiness,.and Sometimes,.it looks as if it's filled only with sadness.But,the thing that you have to understand is that YOU can decide how it looks.Just,remember that everything happens for a reason and don't never lose hope.God bless you

life itself is a combination of happiness and sad..without them life goes so boring. so god created both of them..to taste the real taste of life. He is of so imaginative and ofcourse so creative, he knows better about ourselves..and testifies us for more hardwork and patience..

Hello friend ! Good for you because there is sadness and yet there is also happiness , so its balanced. Unlike me it is more of sadness and sadness and like so little is the happiness . It is never balanced. So sad in this situation but i have lived in this kind of life . Somehow i know how to dance with this kind of music.

No don't ask God, as your husband. why all of a sudden he doesn't like joining you? Is it because of money, is it because of the people in the group. But still go and join your family. If he wants to stay for whatever reason it is his decision. But yet ask why it could be something very important like, who will watch over your house, (security), he is not feeling well he is just keeping it from you (I hope not). There could be 10001 reasons so better ask him, the real reason since this is already a planned trip.

I think all people have experienced happiness and sadness moment. But the most important thing is, how we deal with those moments. We need to share our happiness and sadness to others.

If we are assuming in the human being view, it is normal, or it is humane. everyone may feel happy and sad because as a human has feeling. However if we assuming in the religion, God allows us to be happy and sad because if we always happy, we may forget God. But if there is a time we sad, we may recline our hopes in God. Thanks for nice discussion. God bless.