Do you forgive others?

The things you must to consider is the safety of your daughter do you think your daughter is still safe with them while your away, if it is, then nothing to worry in your part. To forgive is of GOD making, for human, if you can let go of it then no problem, time will heal the scars of pain in the future.

Others can be judgemental without thinking how that might hurt someone else. Life happens and mistakes often follow without us wanting them to but we can also bring them on ourselves. I also can become upset when a family member or loved one is being judgemental like this. Its just that we have to decide to let go of other people's mistakes and it isn't always easy to do that. I personally have come a long way with this, I forgave everyone I possibly could one night out of the blue and I have felt so much better since then. I continue to forgive and move on.

Yes,it does say in the bible that we are to forgive everyone.I find it easier with some people then I do other's.For instance my son's uncle that emotionally abused him for over 30 years by lieing and keeping him from his family.Another person that made major changes to my life that have permenant problems for both myself and my children.I know that God will take care of these people in the end,but I cannot trust them. I do know that one of those people have not changed,therefore I cannot trust him in my life or around my loved ones.However there other people that have been not such fovorable people.....back in the day.But,i have no problem being friends with them now.Like you said we all make mistakes. I guess it depends on what she did and can she be trusred now to care for your children.

If there is something to forgive it depends on what exactly that person did to me. Most things I will forget so I think it's forgiven. A part of the people are not important to me anymore, nor is what they did, so I think that is forgiven also. But there are people who abused and harmed me for years and years on purpose. Although they are no part in my life anymore I am not able to forget and forgive. I tried but it doesn't work and it would only make me feel sicker and infect my health if I would say: I forgive but in reality I can't. Also I think there is a very good reason I am not forgetting and forgiving. It's a lesson and I need to remember it otherwise it would happen to me again.

Yes I forgive people. but the problem is I tend to go near to that person again after. I mean if find this person offensive and I was slighted, I don't fight back or slight the person back. I just keep quiet but I don't like to even see this person or talk to this person, anymore.

I think it's important to forgive, but when it comes too somebody looking after your child, I think you do have to be extremely careful, so I understand where your husband is coming from. You trust this woman because you know her well and she looked after you when you were little, but perhaps your husband doesn't have as much experience of her or know her well enough to see more than the mistakes she's made. To be honest, if it were me and my daughter, it would depend on the types of mistakes she's made. If they're completely unrelated to children/childcare then it maybe shouldn't be an issue. I do hope you can work it out with your husband, or find an alternative.

You asked, "Do you forgive others?" Well yes. my answer is i do forgive others, but often i do not forget what was done to me. i agree that it is important for us to be forgiving, for us to move past the hurts and the anger that is in our hearts. Forgiving is an act, a decision that has to be made and not a feeling. I could still be having doubts on this person, i am still hurt but in letting go i am able to forgive the person who hurt me. I had this issue with my bf too, he has friends whom he considered as bestfriends but they made a mistake and everything they do now seems to irritate him, and he just wouldn't let go. he won't understaand too that he needs to forgivve them and start anew. it was a mistake that is really forgivable! i think you have to always watch him when he is dealing with her. sometimes there are people (your husband and my bf included) that they never forget the things done to them and when they changed their opinion of you, it sticks with them and always thinks of you as that person already - no second chances. I can understand your husband, but maybe you just have to always remind him to let it go - perhaps one at a time he will forget what was done in the past a soon let go and staart forgiving.

It depends on the situation. I may not always forgive everyone who has harmed me but I do accept things and I move on. I seem to carry bits over though because of what has been done to me. I don't think this person needs the forgiveness of anyone. That's her life and no-one else's business and no-one has a right to judge her. I have an idea that your husband is looking for any excuse for you not to attend your course.

Would the mistakes your friend's mother made if they were repeated, in any way interfere with her ability too care for your daughter?

We all make mistakes. I do forgive others. I think having your husband make childcare arrangements for your daughter is an excellent idea.

Everyone is not perfect. Everyone makes mistake now and then. So it important than we forgive others who make us angry or even betray us. It is not easy to forgive those we hurt deeply. But do remember that Jesus asked God to forgive those we crucified him for they do not not understand what they are doing. Personally, I managed to forgive those who hurt me. I just forgave them, maybe the hurt was not deep.

If your husband's grandmother is not available on certain days, then tell your husband that maybe you could bring your kids to your friend's mother during those days.

People who have been hurt it seems difficult to forgive. That's because an incomplete view of forgiveness. They feel that forgiving, will harm themselves, but the fact that forgiveness will benefit because his heart was at peace.To be able to forgive others, there are steps to be followed: He must know that what is disturbing is an issue and must be resolved. He can identify all the feelings and remove them all. Making a limitation to no longer be treated like this.

I wud prefer to comment on your written title. If I were a king, I wud not forgive anyone. All mistakes would be fixed with punishments in proportion to the mistakes made. But I am just a common man. I may have little more power than others. But it is also true that many other people are much more powerful than me. So I try to forget than forgiving, particularly if the person is outsider. For the family members, i am to compromise with the situation, considering my liability and responsibility towards them. Thank you.

I am also think that forgive to others is very important one . But sometimes I didn't to forgive to others .

i do, I feel 99% of lifes things can be forgiven. To me only murder cant be. Thats just my opinion here. Have a great day there.