posting you're lovelife
By danesmoniz
@danesmoniz (116)
Philippines
February 6, 2013 12:57am CST
i checked my FB newsfeed..a person posted: "it's irritating when people post thier lovelife problems on facebook"..then another friend commented : "yeah..what's funny is people doesn't care..."
so i told my self that person has a point but isn't it that FB is a venue where you could express your feelings freely?...is it appropriate to make FB as your catharsis? what do you say?
4 people like this
8 responses
@sissy15 (12290)
• United States
7 Feb 13
I personally don't want people knowing about my private life. That's me though. I don't post anything on FB that I find too private or I don't want others knowing. I am not a drama queen nor will I ever be. If others want to cause drama or post their whole life on FB so be it. That's their choice. If people don't like it they can delete them and not read it. I mean it is their right. Here is the but though, if they do post their whole life on FB they have no right to complain that everyone is in their business. If you don't want people talking or people in your business keep it off of FB and you wont have to worry about it. You can't sit there and go off and expect people to not say anything. When you post that kind of information to a public or semi public place you are making it everyone's business. People judge they probably shouldn't but they do. It's human nature. You can try not to but most people are guilty of judging others. So needless to say if you don't want people judging you or putting their noses into your business don't make it public. If you're fine with people talking about you (most aren't) post to your hearts content.
1 person likes this
@danesmoniz (116)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
totally agree with that sissy15 ! we really can't please everybody and we can't expect them to accept who we are...even our friends even see things that aren't admirable in us so how much more other people who doesn't really know us and would sometimes only judge us according to what we posted in our FB walls..
well if others really can't stop themselves from posting their personal life in FB maybe they could customize their FB's wall settings.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
6 Feb 13
Well some people love announcing every happening in their lives. Whether it's their achievement or failure, their happiness or sadness, etc. I hope when it comes to their problems, they should just keep it themselves. There'll be no more privacy if we'll write and post everythingwhich are happening to us. Some people don't care about us. Yeah they are our friends but we aren't that close to everyone. If we'll post everything, some people will look down on us. We have to keep our dgnity. We don't need everyone's sympathy. Our life shouldn't be an open book.
1 person likes this
@danesmoniz (116)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
i agree angelkarah050182 if we have problems it shouldn't be FB that knows first...
i think it should be God..
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
I knew someone who posted a lot about her love life on her Facebook status. That got her into trouble later on because I revealed to her that the comments she made about her so-called happy love life was only a disillusion. She was disillusioned that she was the only one. The truth was her boyfriend had slept with another girl. And then she thinks stalkers are out to ruin her life. Stupid girl. If you don't want your life ruined, don't publish and be mindful of your internet footprint.
@danesmoniz (116)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
right... its very important to keep personal things private and separate your emotions from your Facebook wall,,,
@kourdapya (924)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
You can just unsubscribe to their posts, that's what I do when posts are irritating and start to become nonsense. It's their prerogative to post there what they want as long as they are not violation others rights
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
Some people are just too happy and proud about their partners. That they are unmindful of whatever things they say about their relationship.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
Well, obviously these people are not that mature yet. They are probably in the early stage of their relationship when you think that having a partner is cute. Coz one thing I know, a matured person would never post anything about their relationship in the same manner.
@danesmoniz (116)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
right, well most of those people are still attention-seekers? they want compassion from others to comfort themselves.
@danesmoniz (116)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
agree! it's so "highschool" hahaha...i hope those people would outgrow it.
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
7 Feb 13
Its really up to the person if they want to post or not what is going on with their life and love life.. facebook for me is one of the ways you cqn exoress freely.. with or without responses its okey that I their life.. whatever makes them happy let's be happy for them if posting in facebook makes them happy or releases their feelings let them be it is a matter of choice anyways..
@danesmoniz (116)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
yes, FB is like a graffiti wall but sometimes we should set our own limitations.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Hi danes, i think these people you saw in facebook were not just posting a status.. i think they are trying to let someone know that it is irritating already, maybe she has a friend that she is not very close with or someone that always whines in facebook about her love life, so there she has to post it to let this woman know they have had enough of her love problems.
I agree it is really not the right venue to post your problems, facebook has a lot of viewers and its not good to have people see everything that has been happening with you and your boyfriend / family. Some things must still be left in private.
@suni51 (3429)
• India
9 Mar 13
No, I wouldn't do that on any networking sites because you never know about the responses. Some of th responses may be irritating and offensive as well and then what is the use bringing personal for the eyes of general members who have nothing to do with these problems.