Love Will Never be The Same as It Was Before

I'm happy for you. Oh--being 'a man born of a Jealous god'--I have to reserve some of that happiness 'until you're with me' (when I can reveal ALL the happiness I feel for your happiness); but really, I'm happy that your happy. ( Kinda 'hurts' me that you're not 'happy because you make ME happy' , but 'my time will come' or something )

Well, there's always the first time! Experiences in every aspect of our life always bring us lessons so we gain learning from it but, you're still young, so that means you haven't seen the worst yet. No one is really immune when it comes to heartache due to failed relationship but good thing as of now you're out with it.

Yeah patience has to be used properly, with the right person at the right time. Otherwise we will only be wasting time and effort on something that we knew would never work out in the first place. I am sure we would see red flags but for the sake of love we could be so blind. Good on ya to have moved on.

hi there prettysexybrainy, after my relationship with my greatest beloved, i had never loved again, although i have had some relationship with others. and i never felt again the loved that i have felt with that man whom i called my greatest loved. and i guess, loved could never be the same to each other.

I hope for you it was the worst relationship you could ever have, but I wouldn't say that out loud. It can Always be worser unless you stay alone. Three years is not that long, althoug it's a waste of your life. I stayed (the first time) 8 years, added even more years. Had other relationships they were terrible as well. I am also happy I escaped (22 years ago). I am still happy I did, every day of my life. It was the best thing I could do for me! I wish you all the luck and blessed be.

Ahh, yes the first relationships are usually crazy, my first relationship was really crazy too. And i didnt know why it lasted so long either. You're right about the waiting, its not advisable to just always wait for someone and push aside your happiness and self-respect for someone who might not even notice what you're doing for them. You have a life to live too and your happiness should never depend on another person. Its your life not his, it will be your loss not his. Its true that the experience will change us, but it makes us better, less crazier, and less reckless than time when we didnt know that this other person we loved could actually hurt us more than how much we expected that they could,

sometimes too much patience hurts us more.just like what happened in your first relationship,it lasted for three punishing long years.i think a year is long enough for me to decide on my lovelife.

Didn't we just have a discussion about this? You and I, talking about getting into relationships? Let me ask you, were you sleeping with him?

There are many reason as such for diminishing ones love slowly and I can say it is in our hand to hold our love as it was forever. But many time either other person or we as such make or create the mistake in our relationship which leads to all such problems as such.

We strive to give the love that our partners deserve. However, when it fails, we do make sure that the next person tat we get ourselves involved with would be treated much better. Learning from our past mistakes makes the difference.

Congrats!.. I had my share of bad relationship and I'm pretty sure I will never forget it. Indeed love will never be the same for me because I'm cussing that love I had before..

congrats! good for you that you found your destiny, well all of us i think has own destiny, i am also find mine and happy with it. goodluck to others that still searching!! :)