You're a 'great catch' to have a relationship with.
By samson1
@samson1 (738)
Jamaica
February 6, 2013 12:26pm CST
Have you been viewed as a 'great catch' for someone to have a relstionship with, and everyone keep offering everything to get in your company? How do you handle this situation? For example, presently, I have been given a set of keys to the premises of at least four women, offered other forms of worldly possessions like cars, business prospects and so on, and told of their plans to start families with; often without my knowledge and/concent. In addition, my exploits (and fun experienced) the are shared by these women to others, causing an influx of new female aspirants.
Whether I am in a relationship or not, my reputation (with the ladies) seems to preceed me. Mylotters, have you been so lucky, or do you view this situation as a predicament?
What are your views on the subject?
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4 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
9 Feb 13
Are you a model or an actor? Why are these women going gaga over you?
Well, you seem to be such a lucky guy to be offered those things.
One question though, have you been happy this way? I mean, have you found any one of them that is worthy of your love? Or are they just after one thing from you?
Well, you seem to be such a lucky guy to be offered those things.
One question though, have you been happy this way? I mean, have you found any one of them that is worthy of your love? Or are they just after one thing from you?@samson1 (738)
• Jamaica
9 Feb 13
Hi Jenny, how are you? You ask great questions. Here are the answers. I am neither a model nor an actor. I seem to have that 'chick magnet appeal' from my voice changed when I was 11 years old- and the 'pressure' never eased up -much to the envy of many of my male friends! Can you imagine how weird that experience have been for me.., all these years until now? I guess, or better yet, I have already accepted the type of life that I have been placed into.
While others have difficulty getting attention from the ladies, I have always been overwhelmed by their love and attention. The impact of women on my life has been very significant, but that is the 'tip of the iceberg' of events that have occurred in my life that I may find them interetsingly weird. I also wrote a book called "How weird can it get?" commenting on a small segment of true events that have occurred in my life at this time.
Anyway, enough of that about me. The happy question I often ponder. While it may be very nice to be the center of attraction, I also note that people are people, and it is what it is. I have no choice but to live with that reality, as my reputation (of being lovely to be with, exhibiting the characteristics that ladies want in a man, being helpful, and giving them the 'one thing' that they may want (much to their enjoyment)) seem to preceed me.
Thanks for sharing in this discussion.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
10 Feb 13
Yes I am many times but the thing is I never met someone I could consider as a great catch. So I don't see it as a compliment just a way (for those people) to get a way easier life.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
10 Feb 13
people does seem to have their own opinions of us anyway right? It usually does seem to happpen often to guys i guess as most womenor groups of women... Would tend totalk about thwir man with thwir friends but who would usually say bad things and reveal the true fewlings thwy have. Qe women also are insecure and can often be jealous of each others partners.
i would rather just let the meni go out with appreciate me and tell me and not brag about how nie a catch i woul be and thwn let me go.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
10 Feb 13
no, I am not lucky with this "great catch" thing. hmmmmm I don't know not been lucky with love, no admirers and yes.. I work at all times. sigh! I wish I have the magic beauty like Valentina.
