Entertaining old rich guy

Malaysia
February 7, 2013 8:35am CST
So now.. I am fiddling with my phone..my girlfriend called me up just now and asked if I wanna have a drink outside.. I said okey. When I reached the restaurant she's with this old guy.. short seems rich (buying us all this drinks n food that's expensive).. im not used to all this. This guy started to joke.. dirty jokes.. so I just laughed along... Then he's showing his original rolex watch costs 10 thousand dollars. Whatevr.. I gobbled all the food, haha... Have you ever been in this situation? We are now kicking each other under the table. When I notice the guy look at me (maybe curious of me jerking being kicked).. I pretended I am dancing with this song playing. God I want to go home...
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8 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
8 Feb 13
Hahaha! I guess you really had one wild night (OF KICKING!) So, what was the story with the old guy? Was he really rich or just bragging?
• Malaysia
11 Feb 13
I think so. He works for the government n he's the director of wildlife ministry (whatever that is I dont even know if that is the word) which prevent illegal wild animal hunting. He has a driver waiting for him by the car. One thing I dont like is that he likes to joke dirty. But I pretend that I dont understand so he cant keep talking like that.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
Oh, one dirty old man! hahahah! How did you manage to be with him the whole night when he kept on saying dirty jokes. Honestly, I do not like around men like him. I don't feel safe.
• Malaysia
13 Feb 13
He can't talk like that all the time because I started talking about work, interesting places around our town, and so on... and I am not really afraid because there was a lot of people around so he can't do us any harm. It's not like we are in a deserted place where we cannot shout for help, in case help is needed.
• Philippines
8 Feb 13
This guy really want something in life to enjoy, now you have your choice of what to do. There are many people like him in the open, we might as well accept them. Everybody has a role in life, we just need to do our role, to the best enough, not to destroy our being in the future, Good luck.
• Malaysia
11 Feb 13
Yes.. he wants to enjoy n good for him je jas the money to enjoy..
• Malaysia
11 Feb 13
*he has
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Feb 13
One time at a job I used to work at a man asked my friend and I to join him for dinner. My friend and him were interested in each other so they just asked me to tag along. I accepted because I hate saying no or being mean. I did not feel uncomfortable or anything because they had each other and I just enjoyed hanging out and talking. He also had a lot of money but I didn't care about that because I had my own husband, wasn't interested in his money... I was just going because I was invited and the guy was really sweet. =)
• Malaysia
11 Feb 13
Exactly.. I was there just like a flower pot (haha) because that guy was interested in my friend not me. I just feel lucky for the food I dnt eat that much.
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
7 Feb 13
I was also caught in a situation like this but with friends. From my experience, it was obvious the guy and my friend's friend is having something and since they got each other and doesn't mind the rest of use, we just keep on eating and drinking. We don't feel guilty since they're the one who joined us and we were so young that time..just having fun.
• Malaysia
11 Feb 13
Yes.. it was not ajything like what wakeupkitty said up there... I didnt even know that the guy will be there.. and if we said no to all his offers (food and drinks) he would have ordered them anyway. Because he also wanted to eat them. Shrimps or fish.. u cant order one or two pieces only. I don't feel guilty.. because I havent done anything wrong..
@pomwango (1353)
• Kenya
8 Feb 13
i think your friend is moving around probably with a married man and the best thing to do is avoid this kind of dates otherwise people may think you arelso that sort of girl.i think its good to spend time with people who are more within your age group whom you have things in common, nowonder the old man is trying to be macho with dirty jokes.
• Malaysia
11 Feb 13
Yes.. I friend is a divorcee with one son. I dont knw whether she always do this or not because this is the first time I go out with her and shebis with this kind of man. A man like that is impossible to still be single.
@vivek19 (218)
• India
8 Feb 13
No, i have never been in such a situation but getting in one would totally baffling for me. I would keep on thinking what to do.
• Malaysia
11 Feb 13
One time my friend went to the toilet for soOoo long I didnt know what to do. I keep looking at my phone..
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
7 Feb 13
I feel very sorry for that man. He must be lonely to feel he can only gain friends and attention by flashing his wealth. I hope he finds someone who genuinely cares about and won't use him. Can't say I've been in such a situation. I do have a couple older, rich male friends who have treated me, but I enjoyed their company very much and don't care about their money.
• Malaysia
11 Feb 13
I think so too. That he doesn't care about money spent. He just want company to chat.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
7 Feb 13
No I never been in this situation plus I would never accept someone to pay for me or pick out the most expensive food just because someone else is paying. I also would not laugh about stupid jokes or am interested in how expensive a watch or something else is. To be honest I think the way you two behaved is abusive and a scammer alike. I don't think this behaviour is something to be proud of or to brag about over here. I also doubt you want to go home, if you would have liked that you would already be gone within the first 5 minutes. BTW I did not hear anything entertaining you or your friend did to this "old guy". I only read a story about 2 girls who think they are great persons, abusing a man and find it very funny. Remember one day you will be old, together with your behaviour you will surely not make much friends.
• Malaysia
11 Feb 13
Well.. first of all.. my friend didn't tell me that she is with this old guy. She asked me out n I said ok. Second, I didnt ordered the food neither did my friend. That old man ordered n we ate. Well because me n my friend, we planned to go somewhere else together so I cant just leave her there. It was not as bad as u think it is. We wanted to leave but the man kept telling us to stay for another drink. Haha, I get what u are trying to say but u really got us wrong.