Chronicling to be a single mother

Your girl friend is tough and she knows what she wants. At times when a man brings you sadness instead of happiness, you may opt for single motherhood. Well for me, it was not by choice but at least am at peace. The more I think about it, the more I realise that I am better of without my husband. I just dont know how to handle my son yet when the questions start popping about his father. But I will figure it out before he asks, I hope. I also have a friend who wants to be a single mother because she beleives time is running out for her. She is not growing any younger and she wants to make babies. People have different reasons for chossing to be a singel mother.

Yes, I can see how many women want to be mothers But not wives. They just don't want Or need a man in their lives. So they raise their kids alone. Me? I never want kids as you know but I can see how a woman can decide to be a single parent.

I am married to my husband so that would not be my choice to be a single mom. I love my husband and I hope to be with him forever. If anything happened between us then I would be a single mother the best I could be but it would definitely not be my first choice. I think the person is strong and a good mother. She is doing what she has to do to take care of her kids nothing wrong with that! =) More power to her!

I come from a house that my parents stayed together strictly for my sister and I. They no longer loved each other but did not want to raise us in a broken home. It was not any benefit to us. In my opinion it would have been better if they seperated, so I would be a single mother if I no longer loved my husband. I could not put my children through what my life was like, not that it was abusive or anything, my parents loved me a great deal but suffered thus we suffered as well seeing them. I would not want to go out and be a single mom just to be a single mom but I would not stay in a unhappy relationship.

Your girl friend is tough. not many women can do that. anyway, sometimes women have to make tough decisions in their lives. Some are tougher than others but as a woman, we have got to be strong. Like in my own case, I became a singel mother but it was not out of choice. But looking back now, I think I would advice any woman out there who is with a man who makes them feel bad or worse than when they are alone alone to let hem go. It is better to be peaceful and happy than to stay married and sad. I love my son and I believe he will grow to be a fine man!