Do you get mad?
@TheDemonicAngel (699)
United States
February 8, 2013 1:01pm CST
Okay so sometimes I go on my fiancee's facebook to play games (nothing more, nothing less) I have access to his profile anytime I want because he willingly gave me his login.
I went on there just a few minutes ago just to play a game and all of a sudden a hear the little noise from facebook chat when you have a new message. Since whoever was messaging already had a tab open at the bottom of the page (it was just minimized) I could tell who was messaging him; it was his ex. However I didn't read the message.
Now I'm not one of those overbearing people that tell him he can't be friends with his ex, for the most part I trust him. I find myself not getting mad about her messaging him although I know all the stuff that they did together, they weren't together nearly as long as him and I though. I know that some people will get mad if their significant other is messaging; texting; or talking to their ex.
So here is my question to you guys. Do you get mad if your significant other chats with their ex.
This excludes texting because I think even I would get mad about texting because that is a little more intimate.
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@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
8 Feb 13
no, no i absolutely know what you are talking about. if my husband had an ex and he were talking to her, i would be mad. i would also be suspicious. why do people feel the need to talk to their ex when they are in a relationship. isn't that going bassawkard?
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@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
9 Feb 13
no i could ot be so mad.... but raging mad....why are they still communicating at this time argh! highly unacceptable. but i will not show that i am mad i will talk to my husbanf and ask what is going on... make myself so beautiful, be extra sweet and wear my sexiest lingerie his favorite perfume and ask him again what does this woman (the ex) need in the first place.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
9 Feb 13
Well if it was my partner, i would have been really annoyed and i won't be comfortable with the idea of him still in touch with his ex. I do not know about others, but that is just me probably. For me i have trust in him but the thought that he still has access to the girl and is in communication with him makes me rather irritated, why would she talk to him, past is past so they should probably let it go.
@WildHorses (718)
• United States
9 Feb 13
Okay, I am so glad you made this your topic because I can never find stuff like this on here.
Secondly, it really depends on how the previous relationship ended and on what terms. If the relationship ended badly, I probably would have a problem with it. Most people don't split and say they have no more feelings.
Stronger emotions come out of you when you break up no matter the circumstances.
If the past relationship ends simply because they come to a mutual agreement it's not working out then I would question like hell why the continued contact.
Unless there are children involved I would prefer if a man of mine not keep contact solely because all he's going to do is keep reminding himself why that relationship didn't work. I don't need a man of mine looking backwards at what he lost. I want him to look forward and procure our future instead.
@prettysexybrainy (189)
• Philippines
9 Feb 13
wah!. I guess it is a natural feeling you get jealous and disturbed why they talking. On the other hand, it is better not get it off your mouth or to your gestures. Just say okay i trust my boyfriend. And just let is pass away. Just be positive don't be paranoid. If you really cannot help it anymore, then confront and ask him. What is between them two.
