Are The Children Safe Inside Their Own Home

Hi ardoy! they really are insane to do such inhuman act. I think having an information and education campaign could also help. This will increase the level of alertness of the children. Similarly increasing the penalty for this act should be done by the government so that anybody who might be planning of committing will be warned and will eventually change his mind. Thank you for sharing!

This is true joliefille. This can happen to anybody and anywhere. The worst, with children who are weak and could not be able to defend themselves. Thank you for sharing!

Yes our government should also make necessary programs in order to address this particular issue in our society. thank you for providing additional information herein. Have a nice day!

Hi marguicha! Yes it is a sad truth. I was more shocked reading our friends' shares. Thank you for sharing!

and teach adults that when a child comes to them for help to believe that child and not just think oh she's lying as that happened to me aget 8 but then maybe things were different back when I was 8 than they are now, I am 86 so that was a long time back.If a child knows it' s wrong so goes for help they must believe and render help as its takes a lot of guts at that early age.

Hi allknowing! Perhaps those children in the urban area are much aware of the things that are happening around. You are right, teaching our children to take care of themselves is the best thing that we can do. Thank you for sharing!

sometiemes the kids go to adults for help but the adults will not believe them like I was molested and went to my pastor and he tolde me I was making up stuff about doc clark the fact that he was a coctor made him think I was lying b t no I was not.most little girls ifs they do seek help are not lying they need real help.when a parent abused his own daughter things have gone really wrong and the child needs help now.

That is the sad thing when someone is telling the truth but no one will believe.

what about really young children how are they going to file comp;laits I d id not know hoe at age 8and wetn to my p asto who refused to bvelieve me so who dowe hep very young kids those in early teens will be able to fo that ut the younger ones how about them?

Hi extremefun! Yes it is disheartening to hear story like this. The only thing is that even the victims sometimes does not file necessary complaints against the person. So the agency concern will not know if this is already happening or not.

This is reality. That is why I asked him, so where could be the place that the children will be safe? If this thing is happening around? Even the authorities cannot do anything to punish those involved because the victims does not have the courage to file a complaint. You are right, the only thing that we can do is to teach our children to be vigilant. But even how careful we are still things can happen. Thank you for sharing!

It's a sad thing to know that this kind of thing is happening everywhere.

Yes that's true. It can also happen if the father is a drunkard. Thank you for sharing!

Yes, and this is the first time I became sick with my own discussion. When I started sharing this, I thought I would be able to share some out of this world thing. I didn't know that I will be more shocked of what I read from other members, our friends' responses. Thank you for sharing!

Hi katie! Yes they should. This kind of act is not a thing that a human can do. Thank you for sharing!

Hi jenny! This is really a very sad thing. Most often this happens in remote barangays in our country. Hopefully this thing could be addressed by the government. But the government on the other hand could only make its move once a particular person files a complaint. Thank you for sharing!

Hi averygirl! Yes let us be thankful and let us also pray for those affected children. Thank you for sharing!

I was actually physically abused by a carer at 6 and that a woman. I am fully qualified in childchare I have NVQ3 and I am trained to look after 0-8 year olds, trouble is because I am a guy I am prejudiced against, no one will employ me, people don't want men looking after children because we are all potential abusers. I have known of a big case recently surrounding a nursery and the appalling abuse from one of the WOMEN! But that cuts no ice, men are always seen as the abusers in society.

hi wolfie this made me think when I was in the hopsital 53 yhears ago having my first born a male nurse cam e in to anser my light and I needed to go potty .I was too embarrassed and he grinned and told me he was in the navy and was a male nurse and he was used to women being like that. I have to say he made the whole process bearable because he was really excellent at his job. He was a registered urse not an aide.But so many women are like you say worried because some men are predators but they should remember thats just a few not all m en.,I worked as a nurses aide on the night shift with a male Jamaican nurse and he was so much fun to work with as he had a wry sense of humor. this night we had a earthquake of 5 points on the richter scale so the lights went out the floor was undulating under our feet but the generators kicked in and he and I fielded forty five patient's lights just scared because of the rolling and the lights out.the epicenter was far enough away that very little real damage was done where I was.But that man really really helped me that night and kept up a witty patter that kept me from freaking out l ol lol

Generally we presume it is only dads who are bad...but I know for sure that even women can be bad...my cousin who was just about 7 years old was molested or raped or whatever it can be called by our maid who must have been around 16 or 17 around that time. From our end..forgiveness is necessary because unless we forgive them...we cant forgive ourselves..in fact when we forgive ourselves understanding our predicament and finding exact reasons for us being in that situation and accepting that there is no solution as of now..then such people cease to be important in any way. But yes, mother is a bit harder to forgive than cousin or outsider. I can only say..in that respect, I am lucky my father was not like that with me.